Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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MollyGalaga
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*After going back a few pages*
Red flagThese joints are really trying to go raw on the first night.
DaRealness
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fukk there feelings imo tired of seeing hearing and I been through it where u do right by them yet they shyt on you then wanna play victim like it’s your fault so you leave them and they like he left me he ain’t shyt but wanna exclude why you left and dumbass simps and females wanna be like you go girl you deserve better but low key she blowing your shyt up at times on some baby I’m sorry and if she ain’t she jealous and write you outta blue hating on you being happier without her and u like why u even looking me up anyways
Its really time that dudes stop falling for these chicks sob stories. As men we are never thrown a lifeline or shown any type of sympathy when we go through shyt, we're supposed to just man up and take whatever gets thrown at us and shamed if we dare speak up to how we're being affected. We're also told to just put up with a woman's bullshyt because of xyz no matter how toxic and insufferable she is.
Women will immediately dry up the minute you show any kind of vulnerability though...
In high school I kept attracting these aggressive types, and beyond high school its on two extremes. Extroverted or bookworm. The extroverted ones run through my patience real fast and the bookworms bore me
I don't know what to do about it to be honest. Right now its just easier to work on my mouth piece with the extroverted ones and be cordial with the book worms. If I had to try to find and solution I would focus on my hobbies/priorities and link up with the females there
MollyGalaga
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My mama been throwing hints about having a kid before I reach a certain age & I just sit back and laugh.
i won’t go and say I wasn’t attracting ones I wanted was the issue per say. I will say instead I expanded my field of woman instead of just certain physical type on looks i would try chubby women, goth, introvert etc …. it gave me more options and more insight of different type of women and things i learned that I may like more with a certain type of women than the other
If I drop down the looks in a woman and when i did that I had less headaches and not get easily as bored
Wasn’t that I couldn’t pull a really attractive women they were just boring and made my head hurt a ton.
MollyGalaga
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I did an experiment a while back, pointed out two chicks that go to my UNI and decided I would try to get their numbers.
Got both of them. I wasn't pressed about trying to get them , I just showed up to these events I knew they would be at and went from there.
Another realization that I sometimes make this shyt harder than it needs to be when it comes to women.
Got both of them. I wasn't pressed about trying to get them , I just showed up to these events I knew they would be at and went from there.
Another realization that I sometimes make this shyt harder than it needs to be when it comes to women.
I would say throughout my 20s. I was always a late bloomer, so I would sort of fall into these situations without taking the lead and understanding what I wanted. I thought the “least” resistance was the right path, but it’s not, cause you end up “settling”, when you know you want more.
From building myself, having Invisalign, gym, learning a new language, traveling, doing out of the box activities really helped. Having two jobs with ACTUAL purpose and meaning as well. Having a side passion that keeps you busy. Women seeing you light up with confidence when you talk about your life. Seeing the response from women who I never thought would give me a shot. It was pretty eye opening and sort gave me additional boost on top of the worth I already had.
Watching Love Life season 2 also helped in a sense, felt like that show was speaking to me during the right time of my life. A lot of relatability.
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like @Serious said weve all been thereI know a lot of y’all been through this but that moment towards the end when u just feel like things are “off” it’s like ur gut feeling telling you somethings different ... the warning signs were all there until it actually happens and she’s gone. Have a nikka looking in retrospect like “damn I knew it was coming!” But u ignore that little voice in the back of ur mind thinking I tripping or just being paranoid... life a mothafukka boy
See I tried this before and it's the opposite with me.
The pretty chicks be less of a headache, its the 6-7's that be headcases because they're insecure.
Killigraphy
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I know a lot of y’all been through this but that moment towards the end when u just feel like things are “off” it’s like ur gut feeling telling you somethings different ... the warning signs were all there until it actually happens and she’s gone. Have a nikka looking in retrospect like “damn I knew it was coming!” But u ignore that little voice in the back of ur mind thinking I tripping or just being paranoid... life a mothafukka boy
Its hard if you're really young and stupid. You don't understand or know how to apply wisdom. But if you're in your 20's and above, there's no excuse. Never let yourself get attached to anything that you cannot walk out on in thirty seconds if you feel the heat around the corner.
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big facts. i used to be convinced that i was this magnetic loverboy since i never really "tried" with with women, but by outward appearances, seemed to do well with them.
but the truth is that i lacked the courage and knowledge of self to actively pursue what i really wanted, what i really deserved. it's the reason why up until now, i've only ever been in situations with low-vibration females. society implicitly teaches men to have a "take/accept whatever you can get" attitude and not hold women to any real standard but once i began to elevate myself, my time and energy became much more valuable commodities that i no longer freely give "just because".