Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

J.E.T.S

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breh idc if she is the mayor of nyc a women telling u how much she wants to make in a marriage is :camby:
She don’t dictate how much u should make or a career u should do.
Ur basically saying for ex: let’s say im a plumber I make $80,000 a year but since I didn’t make the cutoff amount I ain’t good enough :dahell:
And that is a good amount to make
A woman who wants to be with u and loves u will respect what u do for a living and not tell u what u should make as a damn couple just because she was raised having a good life better than others
Breh if u were that plumber she be happy for who u are and the amount u make is what I’m saying
Sure she can help u build something to make more like be the supervisor plumber and increase it by supporting you but she should also be bringing in money to help make the situation even more fruitful not just u

u don’t have to agree with me but she just sounds like a headache with those standards instead of just supporting u to do what u want she is telling what u need to do to make her happy that’s not how it’s supposed to be
She is entitled to what she feels she deserves and wants
Just like a guy is entitled to wanting a girl with a big ass and big t*ts but if we say that we’re wrong but cuz a women wants a guy to have so much money and pay everything it’s wrong :snoop: this is the world we live in now but at same time u don’t have to abide by it
But I’m telling u this ur gonna be unhappy trying to appease to her standards instead of doing what u feel is best for yourself and making ur self happy

:whoo::whew:

damn dad. Preach! :ohlawd:
 

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don’t you think it’s pointless to list that as your bio? I cringe when both men and women list out all the shyt they AREN’T looking for.

I understand the logic: don’t want your time wasted/weeds out the bad ones but it just comes off as negative from the jump.

that’s fine, but breh ain’t gonna know a bytch practicing witchcraft until he’s naked in a chicken coop.
 

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People have free will and they want what they want.

It’s no different than a married cat who has the perfect wife at home but they still cheat on her just because….

People can be scumbags.

I don’t hope they take an L, I just hope they learn and raise their standards.

Like if you go from me to bum, you clearly ain’t doing it right. If you go from me to a baller then I’m like :hubie:.

nice.

I hope a bytch suffer and die after me. :yeshrug:
 

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Tell us about when you’ve thought a girl was “different” and she let you down, this will help a lot of the bruhs in here the most.

I’d have to go back like 20 years breh. I learned how to recognize terrorist s vs. civilians in my teens, thank God.

If a woman isn’t putting on for you…making nice gestures that require money or an actual investment of time…you have to assume she’s not special.

You should assume any woman under 25, any woman making less than $50K, any woman without a good relationship with their Dad, any woman with kids, and any woman with a bunch of dude friends has high potential to break your heart and/or worse.
 

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I know a lot of y’all been through this but that moment towards the end when u just feel like things are “off” it’s like ur gut feeling telling you somethings different ... the warning signs were all there until it actually happens and she’s gone. Have a nikka looking in retrospect like “damn I knew it was coming!” But u ignore that little voice in the back of ur mind thinking I tripping or just being paranoid... life a mothafukka boy :francis:
 

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you still married right :patrice:

ya I’m married but I ain’t gonna sit here and say it’s been great as a matter of fact it’s been rocky as shyt for a bit but we still working at it so it’s up and down so there’s that but I ain’t tripping or worried bout if I get divorced or anything like that if that happens it happens but I don’t dwell on that shyt
No different if cheating is involved if I ain’t catch u I ain’t saying shyt or accuse u either
Karma will get too u and it will show up eventually and if it don’t we’ll played :manny:
Not saying my wife is just saying in general my mindset
We have our issues not even overly serious to be frank it’s just down right stupid and easily fixable just happens too much too my liken nothing more or less
 

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ya I’m married but I ain’t gonna sit here and say it’s been great as a matter of fact it’s been rocky as shyt for a bit but we still working at it so it’s up and down so there’s that but I ain’t tripping or worried bout if I get divorced or anything like that if that happens it happens but I don’t dwell on that shyt
No different if cheating is involved if I ain’t catch u I ain’t saying shyt or accuse u either
Karma will get too u and it will show up eventually and if it don’t we’ll played :manny:
Not saying my wife is just saying in general my mindset
We have our issues not even overly serious to be frank it’s just down right stupid and easily fixable just happens too much too my liken nothing more or less
How long y’all been together? And when did u start noticing these more and more frequent “ups and downs”?
 

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Lol how women have all this power when they’re essentially the losers.... in need of a mans guidance/protection. Even these modern day career women aren’t happy about their role and would rather have someone else responsible for their well-being.... how tf are this many men struggling with these brats with a twat???


 

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How long y’all been together? And when did u start noticing these more and more frequent “ups and downs”?

12 years
They happen in spurts on and off if I had to pinpoint it started when she completed her dream job of being a nurse
Ex can be like someone forgetting to put toilet seat down every so often but then years later they do it on a daily basis
Think of it like that the issues I have not a big deal before but now has become a big deal
 

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12 years
They happen in spurts on and off if I had to pinpoint it started when she completed her dream job of being a nurse
Ex can be like someone forgetting to put toilet seat down every so often but then years later they do it on a daily basis
Think of it like that the issues I have not a big deal before but now has become a big deal
12 years..... shiettttt y’all had a good run playboi... y’all probably just sick of each other. I never been in a relationship that long but I’m sure the older bruhs gon be like “you just have to be away more often, make her miss u, you probably complacent since y’all been around each other so long... etc etc”

but I hope things work out, and idk her so ima just say as long as you happy at the end of the day bruh. God speed black man:salute:
 

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I know a lot of y’all been through this but that moment towards the end when u just feel like things are “off” it’s like ur gut feeling telling you somethings different ... the warning signs were all there until it actually happens and she’s gone. Have a nikka looking in retrospect like “damn I knew it was coming!” But u ignore that little voice in the back of ur mind thinking I tripping or just being paranoid... life a mothafukka boy :francis:
We all been there, heck I was there a few months back then before she could me get me, I faked like everything was cool, caught her off guard and said deuces.

She was shook by how emotionless I was when I did it, but when you notice that switch up it’s time to move on.


Crazy thing is, I can get a gang of good looking, good women quicker than she can probably get a dude period to treat her right. :mjlol:
 

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12 years..... shiettttt y’all had a good run playboi... y’all probably just sick of each other. I never been in a relationship that long but I’m sure the older bruhs gon be like “you just have to be away more often, make her miss u, you probably complacent since y’all been around each other so long... etc etc”

but I hope things work out, and idk her so ima just say as long as you happy at the end of the day bruh. God speed black man:salute:

Ya I ain’t worried bout endgame result and as far as older advice my wife needy as shyt and a horny dog so that wasn’t the issue :dead: just dumbass shyt that doesn’t need to happen as often at least space that shyt out
Plus she try to bounce she know I’m going for the alimony on her :mjgrin:
 

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Ya I ain’t worried bout endgame result and as far as older advice my wife needy as shyt and a horny dog so that wasn’t the issue :dead: just dumbass shyt that doesn’t need to happen as often at least space that shyt out
Plus she try to bounce she know I’m going for the alimony on her :mjgrin:
:mjlit:
 

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We all been there, heck I was there a few months back then before she could me get me, I faked like everything was cool, caught her off guard and said deuces.

She was shook by how emotionless I was when I did it, but when you notice that switch up it’s time to move on.


Crazy thing is, I can get a gang of good looking, good women quicker than she can probably get a dude period to treat her right. :mjlol:

yep now i'm like an old wily vet qb who has seen all the exotic blitzes etc., read the package and adjust at the line.
 
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