Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

See I tried this before and it's the opposite with me.

The pretty chicks be less of a headache, its the 6-7's that be headcases because they're insecure.

I’ll say this overseas females that were pretty didn’t give me a headache when I came back stateside Jesus it was reverse pretty ones were migraines except a few and the few we just click properly nothing more

 

[Everything Zen]

I’ll say this overseas females that were pretty didn’t give me a headache when I came back stateside Jesus it was reverse pretty ones were migraines except a few and the few we just click properly nothing more

not firing shots at you or anything, but i feel like so many brehs from western first-world countries (us, uk, canada) get caught up in the myth that foreign women are so much better, nicer, more submissive etc. beautiful or not, these women see you as a novelty at best, and a mark at the worst.

with that being said, im tryna put numbers up on the boards once these travel restrictions ease up

 

[Everything Zen]

she changed her profile photo on whatsapp to her and her (old) new nikka. not gon lie, i felt it in my chest initially, but the feeling subsided after 10 minutes or so. the cocktail of emotions (anger, longing, embarrassment and regret) that I spent months cycling though during the end of our last rodeo just, wasn't really... there.

im guessing that this is what it feels like when the love you had for someone has been completely extinguished. my future is brighter now that she has no place in it.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Watching Love Life season 2 also helped in a sense, felt like that show was speaking to me during the right time of my life. A lot of relatability.

That season was one of the realest things I’ve seen on TV regarding black men, modern dating and careers.

shyt mirrored so many events in my life it was scary. Divorcing and trying to find myself again worrying if I’m black enough, being intrigued then disappointed in women.

Worth a watch for any brehs on here who haven’t seen it yet.

 

[VertigoKnight]

she changed her profile photo on whatsapp to her and her (old) new nikka. not gon lie, i felt it in my chest initially, but the feeling subsided after 10 minutes or so. the cocktail of emotions (anger, longing, embarrassment and regret) that I spent months cycling though during the end of our last rodeo just, wasn't really... there.

im guessing that this is what it feels like when the love you had for someone has been completely extinguished. my future is brighter now that she has no place in it.

The first time you see it is the worst, that hot flush of embarrassment. We had already unfollowed each other months before but it came up in my explore feed.



Her, him and our cats posing for a Christmas photo.

Haven’t looked and don't want to look at her IG profile. And haven’t since we split in 2018. Made my IG private and purged any of her friends.

 

[Astroslik]

My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018

Caught her talking? What did you catch her saying/texting the dude?

 

[Tres Leches]

Its hard if you're really young and stupid. You don't understand or know how to apply wisdom. But if you're in your 20's and above, there's no excuse. Never let yourself get attached to anything that you cannot walk out on in thirty seconds if you feel the heat around the corner.

gonna go rewatch that scene

 

[Everything Zen]

My relationship of 3 years just ended this week. I caught her talking to some next dude. I thought she was "the one". We were in the process of buying a house, planning to get married & have a baby in 2022

I'm going to take a few months to process this & get over it. I will focus on my career, gym, self improvement etc. Spring/Summer i will be back on the dating scene since 2018

jesus fukkin christ im so sorry breh
it's terrifying how close you were to permanently entangling yourself with that. i know it hurts, but this too shall pass. once it does, you'll be eternally grateful.

The first time you see it is the worst, that hot flush of embarrassment. We had already unfollowed each other months before but it came up in my explore feed.



Her, him and our cats posing for a Christmas photo.

Haven’t looked and don't want to look at her IG profile. And haven’t since we split in 2018. Made my IG private and purged any of her friends.

damb breh you hit it right on head... it's this almost unexplainable sensation of heat that starts in the center mass and quickly spreads to the rest of the body.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Yung brehs don’t get comfy with milfs, was just in contact with some bihs my age and I brushed em off on some aspergers level shytget em next time

 

[EffYou]

Its hard if you're really young and stupid. You don't understand or know how to apply wisdom. But if you're in your 20's and above, there's no excuse. Never let yourself get attached to anything that you cannot walk out on in thirty seconds if you feel the heat around the corner.

Alright Patrice

 

[International Playa]

I would say throughout my 20s. I was always a late bloomer, so I would sort of fall into these situations without taking the lead and understanding what I wanted. I thought the “least” resistance was the right path, but it’s not, cause you end up “settling”, when you know you want more.

From building myself, having Invisalign, gym, learning a new language, traveling, doing out of the box activities really helped. Having two jobs with ACTUAL purpose and meaning as well. Having a side passion that keeps you busy. Women seeing you light up with confidence when you talk about your life. Seeing the response from women who I never thought would give me a shot. It was pretty eye opening and sort gave me additional boost on top of the worth I already had.

Watching Love Life season 2 also helped in a sense, felt like that show was speaking to me during the right time of my life. A lot of relatability.

Rep + dap on recommending that series. I'm going through similar situations, I need that right now.

 

[MikelArteta]

she changed her profile photo on whatsapp to her and her (old) new nikka. not gon lie, i felt it in my chest initially, but the feeling subsided after 10 minutes or so. the cocktail of emotions (anger, longing, embarrassment and regret) that I spent months cycling though during the end of our last rodeo just, wasn't really... there.

im guessing that this is what it feels like when the love you had for someone has been completely extinguished. my future is brighter now that she has no place in it.

Been there
The best thing you can do is delete her number

however I do say sometimes seeing things like this kills that last shred of hope

 

[Killigraphy]

Yung brehs don’t get comfy with milfs, was just in contact with some bihs my age and I brushed em off on some aspergers level shytget em next time

They're ultimately mothers, so even if you slip, they're in the "loser" category of women. Pretty birds that have kids, and are still broke, have fumbled harder than Drew Bledsoe. I wouldn't worry about it at all.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

They're ultimately mothers, so even if you slip, they're in the "loser" category of women. Pretty birds that have kids, and are still broke, have fumbled harder than Drew Bledsoe. I wouldn't worry about it at all.

Yessir. Gotta get byke to my roots other than stank ass clubs/the gym idk where the baddies my age be lol. Colleges in CA including mines keep yo-yoing between in person and remote instruction hoe phase years is looking shaky rn. Have to let these milfs drain me

 

[Ahadi]

big facts. i used to be convinced that i was this magnetic loverboy since i never really "tried" with with women, but by outward appearances, seemed to do well with them.

but the truth is that i lacked the courage and knowledge of self to actively pursue what i really wanted, what i really deserved. it's the reason why up until now, i've only ever been in situations with low-vibration females. society implicitly teaches men to have a "take/accept whatever you can get" attitude and not hold women to any real standard but once i began to elevate myself, my time and energy became much more valuable commodities that i no longer freely give "just because".

1000%

She needs to be excited and light up when she sees you. You both have to be proud to show off one another.