Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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That season was one of the realest things I’ve seen on TV regarding black men, modern dating and careers.

shyt mirrored so many events in my life it was scary. Divorcing and trying to find myself again worrying if I’m black enough, being intrigued then disappointed in women.

Worth a watch for any brehs on here who haven’t seen it yet.
Rep + dap on recommending that series. I'm going through similar situations, I need that right now.

Yup.

Valuing yourself, understanding the dynamic you want, being content with moving on, How to move correctly within the job world, overall being confident as a black man and putting yourself first.
 
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The best thing you can do is delete her number

however I do say sometimes seeing things like this kills that last shred of hope

she's obv deleted now, but i definitely needed to see that. i can now confidently move onward and upward knowing that i have nothing but complete apathy towards her.

i literally went through the exact same thing, with this exact same chick, almost a year ago exactly (i know, i know :whoa::snoop:) and back then, it really burnt me the fukk up. it feels great now to be on the other side of that.
 

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I was leaving walmart this morning, and saw this super-tall yellowbone chick. Did I quick 180, got her number, and planned to link up tonight.

This girl is 20 years old and 6"5.

YES, SIX FOOT FIVE:mindblown:

I'm only 6"2, so you know I felt like a midget standing next to her.

I definitely have plans for her:mjlit:
 

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@Krisrunner2049 Finally out the bushes:salute:
U KNOW!
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not firing shots at you or anything, but i feel like so many brehs from western first-world countries (us, uk, canada) get caught up in the myth that foreign women are so much better, nicer, more submissive etc. beautiful or not, these women see you as a novelty at best, and a mark at the worst.

with that being said, im tryna put numbers up on the boards once these travel restrictions ease up :blessed:

na ur good because u aren’t wrong either I may have had better experience overseas doesn’t make it the exception to the rule true either
I know for a fact same issues here apply overseas too so if brehs thinking they won’t run into same shyt overseas they in for a rude awakening



hell this a perfect example that exception to rule doesn’t apply to the general and I’ve said this before on the coli
I’ve had better luck and experiences with single moms than single females with no kids before I even had kids that I dated them more because of it
 

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she changed her profile photo on whatsapp to her and her (old) new nikka. not gon lie, i felt it in my chest initially, but the feeling subsided after 10 minutes or so. the cocktail of emotions (anger, longing, embarrassment and regret) that I spent months cycling though during the end of our last rodeo just, wasn't really... there.

im guessing that this is what it feels like when the love you had for someone has been completely extinguished. my future is brighter now that she has no place in it.

Bruh...it hits so different seeing that she has another man in her life :mjcry:

The situation I'm referring to...I was fully over her I could see pictures of her and feel nothing and just remember the good times.
I was at peace knowing she was probably seeing someone else by now. It was almost two years ago at the time.
But actually seeing her with another breh
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On god it felt worse than the actual breakup itself :mjcry:
Felt like I had to get over her twice:wow:
 
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I'm gonna be in this thread heavy now that I'm dating again. I can tell, lol.
Random, but I'm starting to have really good gos w/ Asian women on Hinge. I usually assume it's hardcore:mjpls: until proven otherwise, but they've been straightforward and so easy to chop it up with. I'm honestly a little confused because it's like a switch got flipped outta nowhere.

Goin out with this Half Japanese, Half White, Blake Liveley-looking budtender this weekend. Big LA chill, low maintenance, pass-the-weed-and-i'm-content vibes which is just what I need easing back in the game. :ehh:

Then this Chinese looker asked me out this week too. She had me like :whoo: and that's not my usual type at all. Body not even that bad just a lot of sex appeal and confidence in her convo.

Update. First date was last night. Come to find out this girl is probably a Crypto millionaire - probably where the confidence comes from. Tech worker who got in Bitcoin and Ethereum early, has multiple properties in LA, and her body is actually way more banging in real life. She's a late bloomer too...showed me pictures of herself in HS and I had to try so goddamn hard not to :mjlol:. Looks so different...she pole dances recreationally and has a physical trainer. Came through with the midriff showing and I was like :whoo:.

Low key get the vibe she might have peaked a little too early and is a thrill seeking now, but we'll see. We have another date lined up.

I tell women I do this and they get mad :mjlol:

Immature women get mad and feel some type of way about independent men. A lot of them really think they can get a pass on a terrible attitude, poor values, or generally being listless in life just through sex. The crazy part is, they actually can in this simp era if they just went a step further and stayed in the gym, kept their hygiene/appearance up, and had some semblance of a career. So many of them are too lazy though.

It's the number one reason I stay in the gym and get my paper up. I don't want to be sitting across the table dropping Kevin Samuels quotes on a girl. I want them to feel it and know it instinctually.

date early mid 20s. They’re more up for fun and won’t press for a relationship too quickly. It’s a win win. They’re generally in better shape too.

Yeah that 25-28 range is my go-to in my early 30s right now. THey're in no rush, and if shyt works out, there's still a decent runway to have your fun as an unmarried, childless couple before taking big steps.


These joints are really trying to go raw on the first night.

:gucci:

Lol it's been like this. I stay strapped because I've definitely dodged bullets smashing on the first night when I wasn't expecting to.

That season was one of the realest things I’ve seen on TV regarding black men, modern dating and careers.

shyt mirrored so many events in my life it was scary. Divorcing and trying to find myself again worrying if I’m black enough, being intrigued then disappointed in women.

Worth a watch for any brehs on here who haven’t seen it yet.

That season was so low key one of the realest, best depictions of being a black middle/upper middle class dude in a big city that I've ever seen. shyt had me like thinking one of the writers was an ex or something :mjlol:. I might run that back this weekend.

They're ultimately mothers, so even if you slip, they're in the "loser" category of women. Pretty birds that have kids, and are still broke, have fumbled harder than Drew Bledsoe. I wouldn't worry about it at all.

Goddamn I feel this. I see them on the apps and I'm just like "Goddamn you're fine, but you fukked up your whole bag :wow:." *Swipes left*
 

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Feeling the lows (and higher estrogen)after my test cycle, too mopey to hit the club and holla at bytches, issa strip club night tonight. Just watch the show and chat with the hoes
 

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That instinctual urge to go out and knock down every woman you come across while dealing with a breakup is insane.
After a breakup or split I'd usually jump right into action. New women don't even realize you're piping them down like that is because you're trying to get "her" off your mind or prove that you're still that nygga to yourself.

This time I've been in the gym, reading, writing and focusing on my goals. I wish I was previously on this wave seriously. Would've diminished a ton of problems in my life.
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his summer, I'm outside though. Not wild like my previous years, but it's going to be glorious. I've hit a new plateau in life, and still progressing.

Appreciate the brehs in here steadily dropping knowledge,
 
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Feeling the lows (and higher estrogen)after my test cycle, too mopey to hit the club and holla at bytches, issa strip club night tonight. Just watch the show and chat with the hoes
Gotta take a AI with the test breh. Keep you from having highs and lows. Also daily dose your test if you can. It will prevent spikes in your hormones
 

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Gotta take a AI with the test breh. Keep you from having highs and lows. Also daily dose your test if you can. It will prevent spikes in your hormones
I took AI then I fuxked up and crashed E2, I guess I don’t aromatize heavy cuz 1 week after 12.5mg EOD of Masin and my shyt was crashed:mjlol:(waited til mid cycle to dose cuz I was gonna dose if I saw sides but decided to go for prevention) just bounced back a couple weeks ago, i prolly didn’t need it at all this cycle:francis:ya live and learn. Feeling like Rozay all week ain’t the wave tho
 

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Was watching this KS show during men’s week, & a great takeaway from that week was around women within your age bracket.

He mentioned if you’re in your 20s, the women in your 20s aren’t for you, those belong to the 30s-40 year olds aka the upper class.
 

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That instinctual urge to go out and knock down every woman you come across while dealing with a breakup is insane.
After a breakup or split I'd usually jump right into action. New women don't even realize you're piping them down like that is because you're trying to get "her" off your mind or prove that you're still that nygga to yourself.

This time I've been in the gym, reading, writing and focusing on my goals. I wish I was previously on this wave seriously. Would've diminished a ton of problems in my life.
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his summer, I'm outside though. Not wild like my previous years, but it's going to be glorious. I've hit a new plateau in life, and still progressing.

Appreciate the brehs in here steadily dropping knowledge,

:salute:Damn, it's like we are on totally parallel paths.

Head down until the summer breh. When it's time to enjoy the fruits of our labor :blessed:
 
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