I'm gonna be in this thread heavy now that I'm dating again. I can tell, lol.
Random, but I'm starting to have really good gos w/ Asian women on Hinge. I usually assume it's hardcore
until proven otherwise, but they've been straightforward and so easy to chop it up with. I'm honestly a little confused because it's like a switch got flipped outta nowhere.
Goin out with this Half Japanese, Half White, Blake Liveley-looking budtender this weekend. Big LA chill, low maintenance, pass-the-weed-and-i'm-content vibes which is just what I need easing back in the game.
Then this Chinese looker asked me out this week too. She had me like and that's not my usual type at all. Body not even that bad just a lot of sex appeal and confidence in her convo.
Update. First date was last night. Come to find out this girl is probably a Crypto millionaire - probably where the confidence comes from. Tech worker who got in Bitcoin and Ethereum early, has multiple properties in LA, and her body is actually way more banging in real life. She's a late bloomer too...showed me pictures of herself in HS and I had to try so goddamn hard not to
. Looks so different...she pole dances recreationally and has a physical trainer. Came through with the midriff showing and I was like
.
Low key get the vibe she might have peaked a little too early and is a thrill seeking now, but we'll see. We have another date lined up.
I tell women I do this and they get mad
Immature women get mad and feel some type of way about independent men. A lot of them really think they can get a pass on a terrible attitude, poor values, or generally being listless in life just through sex. The crazy part is, they actually can in this simp era if they just went a step further and stayed in the gym, kept their hygiene/appearance up, and had some semblance of a career. So many of them are too lazy though.
It's the number one reason I stay in the gym and get my paper up. I don't want to be sitting across the table dropping Kevin Samuels quotes on a girl. I want them to feel it and know it instinctually.
date early mid 20s. They’re more up for fun and won’t press for a relationship too quickly. It’s a win win. They’re generally in better shape too.
Yeah that 25-28 range is my go-to in my early 30s right now. THey're in no rush, and if shyt works out, there's still a decent runway to have your fun as an unmarried, childless couple before taking big steps.
These joints are really trying to go raw on the first night.
Lol it's been like this. I stay strapped because I've definitely dodged bullets smashing on the first night when I wasn't expecting to.
That season was one of the realest things I’ve seen on TV regarding black men, modern dating and careers.
shyt mirrored so many events in my life it was scary. Divorcing and trying to find myself again worrying if I’m black enough, being intrigued then disappointed in women.
Worth a watch for any brehs on here who haven’t seen it yet.
That season was so low key one of the realest, best depictions of being a black middle/upper middle class dude in a big city that I've ever seen. shyt had me like thinking one of the writers was an ex or something
. I might run that back this weekend.
They're ultimately mothers, so even if you slip, they're in the "loser" category of women. Pretty birds that have kids, and are still broke, have fumbled harder than Drew Bledsoe. I wouldn't worry about it at all.
Goddamn I feel this. I see them on the apps and I'm just like "Goddamn you're fine, but you fukked up your whole bag
." *Swipes left*