Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’d have to go back like 20 years breh. I learned how to recognize terrorist s vs. civilians in my teens, thank God.

If a woman isn’t putting on for you…making nice gestures that require money or an actual investment of time…you have to assume she’s not special.

You should assume any woman under 25, any woman making less than $50K, any woman without a good relationship with their Dad, any woman with kids, and any woman with a bunch of dude friends has high potential to break your heart and/or worse.
Elaborate breh :jbhmm:
 

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Alphas up betas down that’s the motto
Simps claiming to be pimps but they not tho
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Lol how women have all this power when they’re essentially the losers.... in need of a mans guidance/protection. Even these modern day career women aren’t happy about their role and would rather have someone else responsible for their well-being.... how tf are this many men struggling with these brats with a twat???

The majority of men are squares and simps, this is why Onlyfans, and escorts are thriving....a lot of these men couldn't hunt to begin with, so they'll waste money on tired birds. Now keep in mind that this has been going on for ages, I'm sure great Uncle Cavemen Ook McGook was dealing with simps who were more gatherer than hunter, its just now we can see the numbers. Also, a lot of men just settle with thats comfortable, they don't want to hurt feelings or express themselves fully. They let tiny females and men walk all over them, in turn having children who are just as simpy as they are. Think about how many of us who get game on here there are. That's a tiny number compared to the majority of men who are simpling out and psychologically castrating themselves.
 

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Elaborate breh :jbhmm:

I meant that in the sense of "predominantly male friends" not just # to be clear.

Usually, when women don't get along with other women, it's because they're treacherous and tend to alienate themselves from other women. They don't have the loner streak more men tend to have, so not having female friends is a sign of getting cast out in all but the rarest circumstances. So it's partly the character piece.

Any women w/ male friends period has at least one dude playing the background til they can smash. A woman w/ a bunch (number) of dude friends also has a bunch of dudes waiting to shoot their shot. Not unlikely for her to fall back on one of those background dudes are appoint him as next if she feels some type of way about you...or just gets bored in general.
 

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Tell us about when you’ve thought a girl was “different” and she let you down, this will help a lot of the bruhs in here the most.


So it never happened to me, mainly because I got extremely lucky growing up, and I knew every one from pimps to gigolos and experienced men. I also listened intently. I also learned very early on, to live by that one adage; A smart man learns from his mistakes, a wise man learns from the mistakes of others". At 14, I already knew women had the ho phase, and that it was just my turn, never my girl. As I grew up around women, I started to catch on to their capricious ways. How they played men and were always activating the victim card. I always knew they were all the same, so I never expected greatness from them, just musings and whore behavior.

Essentially, they told on themselves, let them ramble and you'll hear the most atrocious things. In general I had fun with women, don't get me wrong, but I have always been the one in control. I set the parameters, and when I find myself liking one bird a bit too much, I have several mantras I go through, and head to the night club for easy ass. Analysis at all times, into your relationships or booty calls , will always sober you up from any lovery dovey concepts.
 

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I’d have to go back like 20 years breh. I learned how to recognize terrorist s vs. civilians in my teens, thank God.

If a woman isn’t putting on for you…making nice gestures that require money or an actual investment of time…you have to assume she’s not special.

You should assume any woman under 25, any woman making less than $50K, any woman without a good relationship with their Dad, any woman with kids, and any woman with a bunch of dude friends has high potential to break your heart and/or worse.

1000%
 

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I’ll be 30 in 10 months, been on monk mode and these women (my age group) are coming out of the woodworks, thirsty for a relationship.

:gucci:

I’m just tryna maximize myself and put my bread toward a woman who matters. These joints are truly a distraction.
 

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The thing is the good ones will catch you off guard no signs or warnings sometimes and your sitting there like wth :mjcry: what did I do wrong? I don’t understand or FML
When it comes down too it you just gotta hope for the best expect the worse. You can’t be stressing if or when save a piece of yourself so if it ever happens it won’t break u. Never trust 100% I say 90% max idc how great she is because that 10% can ease the pain or blow if comes to fruition. Sure you should still do right by her just know you can get played for a fool and not see it coming and nothing you can do. Just enjoy the time memories love etc….
Its a cruel world out there whether ur a simp, alpha male , 6 figs, 6ft tall your replaceable as easy as a woman’s underwear
Just have a sense of balance of happiness and awareness.

When people used to say you have to keep a huge part of yourself, I didn't really realise the significance of that until I got older.

You just have to maintain and be the best version of yourself and have many things going for yourself OUTSIDE the relationship. You give anything or anyone your all, then that's a recipe for disaster if the worse happens. You have to build yourself to the point where even if your relationship ended tomorrow, you'll still be good. People are unpredictable nowadays.
 

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When people used to say you have to keep a huge part of yourself, I didn't really realise the significance of that until I got older.

You just have to maintain and be the best version of yourself and have many things going for yourself OUTSIDE the relationship. You give anything or anyone your all, then that's a recipe for disaster if the worse happens. You have to build yourself to the point where even if your relationship ended tomorrow, you'll still be good. People are unpredictable nowadays.

sad harsh truth of the world we live in today
Have the perfect girl and outta blue she done with your ass and u gave her ur everything instead of just some of you will devastate you more than people know
Nobody saying can’t love and give so much to your girl but you can’t give all of yourself
You gotta protect yourself so if it does happen yes it will still hurt and you will need time to heal but because you took care of shyt on the outside you can move forward easier in the process
Before I was with her i was fine and after her I will be fine is my line of thought
 

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sad harsh truth of the world we live in today
Have the perfect girl and outta blue she done with your ass and u gave her ur everything instead of just some of you will devastate you more than people know
Nobody saying can’t love and give so much to your girl but you can’t give all of yourself
You gotta protect yourself so if it does happen yes it will still hurt and you will need time to heal but because you took care of shyt on the outside you can move forward easier in the process
Before I was with her i was fine and after her I will be fine is my line of thought
I tell women I do this and they get mad :mjlol:
 

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I’ll be 30 in 10 months, been on monk mode and these women (my age group) are coming out of the woodworks, thirsty for a relationship.

:gucci:

I’m just tryna maximize myself and put my bread toward a woman who matters. These joints are truly a distraction.
date early mid 20s. They’re more up for fun and won’t press for a relationship too quickly. It’s a win win. They’re generally in better shape too.
 

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I tell women I do this and they get mad :mjlol:

fukk there feelings imo tired of seeing hearing and I been through it where u do right by them yet they shyt on you then wanna play victim like it’s your fault so you leave them and they like he left me he ain’t shyt but wanna exclude why you left and dumbass simps and females wanna be like you go girl you deserve better but low key she blowing your shyt up at times on some baby I’m sorry and if she ain’t she jealous and write you outta blue hating on you being happier without her and u like why u even looking me up anyways :camby:
 

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When people used to say you have to keep a huge part of yourself, I didn't really realise the significance of that until I got older.

You just have to maintain and be the best version of yourself and have many things going for yourself OUTSIDE the relationship. You give anything or anyone your all, then that's a recipe for disaster if the worse happens. You have to build yourself to the point where even if your relationship ended tomorrow, you'll still be good. People are unpredictable nowadays.

I remember the breh at kevm3 saying something that always stuck with me. It was something like to view women just as a dessert, you are the meal and while its nice to have dessert you can still be filled without one.
 
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