Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

This is what having a simp mentality will get you:

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Last night, my wife of almost 15 years confessed to cheating on me.

I was floored. My wife is my best friend, and I had trusted her completely and totally. We had just moved back to this area. She had recently gotten involved in an exercise club and she met some people there. She started hanging out with them and the "circle of friends" that they are in. She tried to get me involved in their activities too, but I work an odd schedule and couldn't attend them. Besides, I thought it was nice that she was getting out and making friends after just moving to the area again.

I first started suspecting something when some of her comments seemed suspicious. She never was fat, but she had lost ten pounds and is able to were much skimpier clothing. I commented on how hot she was looking and how she is better than any other girl out there. She told me not to put her on a pedestal. Other comments were made that made me think she had a secret.

The crux came when she mentioned going out with the girls and bringing one home for a threesome (never done before but briefly talked about) and then she said that maybe she would bring a guy home instead because she "wanted some spice in her life". I had never heard her say that before, so I confronted her with my suspicions that she cheated on me already and the told her the circumstantial evidence I noticed, and she confessed to getting drunk while out with the group and had sex once with one of the guys in the circle of friends.

Rage. Anger. Embarrassment. etc... I'm on an emotional roller-coaster right now. I suspect that she isn't telling me everything about the incident, and I suspect it is with one guy who she has already denied and said it is someone else. I also suspect that it was more than once. I'm guessing twice based on evidence. I'm really mad about this. We had just had a vasectomy reversal done in the hopes of having more kids and I think this happened while I was on bed rest and couldn't go out with the group.

I love her. I really do. I wanted us to grow old together, and she agrees but says that we aren't old right now(both mid 30's), so we shouldn't act it. She feels that she married too young (19) and never got to party and be young. I'm considering trying to maintain an open relationship with her. I even told her that I would consider the threesome with her and another guy. We are going to have a big talk about it later tonight. I don't want to lose her. We have 15 years together and four kids. I have always been faithful to her, even when I was in the Navy and saw other guys cheat on their wives left and right. I was a good boy, and now I feel that I've wasted that time and investment and maybe I should have had more fun.

Help! I will listen to any advice you can give.

 

[Liquid]

^ Incredible

 

[Soundbwoy]

This is what having a simp mentality will get you
I even told her that I would consider the threesome with her and another guy. We are going to have a big talk about it later tonight. I don't want to lose her. :

running a train of your wife because she cheated on you

 

[Aizen]

This is real right here... one of the greatest gifts you can give your future kids is not money, it's not entertainment, but rather a great mother. Cats out here spreading their seeds to any ol' woman will end up giving their kids to a woman with a screwed up mentality and end up cursing that lineage of their family for a long time. It's akin to a 'generational curse' in the Bible.

Generational curses are real. Men who lower themselves to date below par women (good looks but without morals, future parenting skills, etc.) curse themselves. Men who have children with tragically flawed women generally (not always but often so) curse their kids because they have to overcome having a bad mother. And if the father is bad too, then the kid has to overcome an idiot mother and father. Not very easy to do (but still possible).

 

[Turbulent]

This is what having a simp mentality will get you:

i read this and i swear i felt sad and depressed. first of all dude is a lame and if he stays and does the threesome with another guy (i don't even consider that a threesome, that's just some gay shyt) he deserves everything else that happens after that.

what kinda depressed me was how she's probably still lying to him and hiding stuff from him. She's fukking a dude her husband probably hung out with. But then i remember the plan. Don't get attached to p*ssy. she will either cheat or she won't (physically and emotionally). And it's very possible i'll never find out and never know the whole story. So fukk it, i can't control it so i won't even try to own it.

My philosophy on a relationship with a woman now. If I like how she acts i'm keeping her in my life. but i'm not getting too emotionally attached. If i get a funny feeling, i'm confronting her. If i still have a funny feeling, fukk getting proof, fukk if she's not cheating, i'm still gone.

 

[Bumrush Bros.]

Define whore?

All women have these capabilities. And that is the mistake most men make. They think that a certain type of woman is above this behavior.

^Brehs, please make note of this. My ex was a "good girl" , very religious, great relationship with her parents, had a great job, volunteer worked often for her church, and she wouldnt even curse. I never thought she would do me dirty, but in the end she betrayed my trust and cheated on me.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Some of these comments are funny as hell..

Married women of Reddit who kept their maiden names, why did you choose to keep it? : AskReddit

 

[sixsixtwo]

A teenage girl

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

This is what having a simp mentality will get you:

Since nobody wants to comment on this; I’ll toss in my two Lincolns.

We know the reasons why women cheat (boredom, sexual reinvigoration/thrill, lack of attention at the domicile, etc.).

But we never place enough emphasis on how much the MAN of the household has to do with a woman’s infidelity.

The reason why Kev’s post of the unfortunate faithful guy is that I actually see that happening to me because I’m that guy (my ex was still sleeping at her ex man’s house but I disregarded the red flags because I was naïve and just wanted to maintain a relationship for the sake of companionship). But in retrospect, it was all bad and if I allow myself to slip into that kind of rut and my behaviors advocate it, who’s to say it won’t happen to me if I tie to the knot?

He made the ultimate sacrifice and he paid the ultimate price (double edged sword what have you).

Four seeds and the bytch only thought about herself and her sexual exploits/escapades (then again, we haven’t heard both sides of the story, but he should have been more attentive and put his feet down to show her who’s the mothafukka).

You see? It’s instances like that where a family’s sanctity is jeopardized – you have these guys who give so much only to have it thrown back into their faces. This is why domestic violence is so prevalent.

THIS is why cats shoot up their jobs and their entire familys cuz these damn broads don’t know how to think before they act, not be so impulsive and seriously consider/weigh in the consequences. It’s almost as if they have no guilty conscience and believe they are trouble proof (and if they do, that propels them to act on their flooziness even moreso – you see cycle here?).

When a man makes a commit to a woman and vows, during his wedding day, to be faithful and cherish his love for her until death do him part – he means it.

When a woman recites it – it’s just an early chapter that’s a part of a grand, real live romance novel.

There’s no shame in a woman’s game and it breaks my heart that this is what the wave of entitlement and neo-feminism has caused – this damaging paradigm shift of philandering and no consequences that essentially disregards any societal norms and/or effects.

But to blame feminism and shiit of that nature if futilely trite and redundant.

And I think Kev basically gave us the answer at the top of the post by referencing the term SIMP.

When he complimented her about her weight loss, she said, “Don’t put me on a pedestal.”

First off, I would have said, “oh cool! Keep working on it. You’ll be the next Roseanne in NO TIME! (I’m kind of fukked up like that, but that’s how you keep women).

My father, who’s the greatest a$$hole I’ve ever seen, then you have my mother, the polar opposite; a modern day mother Theresa and wouldn’t harm a dead fly. This dynamic they have is prolly why my mother never left my dad (even with ample opportunities in the work place by cac’s who have tried to court her and win her over – she knew she had a man at home who has her eating off his proverbial hand; my mom does everything for my dad and it disgusts me cuz I don’t think he deserves it, but from a woman’s perspective and their obedience and how they respond to alpha-esque traits makes sense (plus he’s cheated on her multiple times, she even found out every time. LOL! Or not funny. But irony kills me).

Long story short, I’m treating a girl I’m dating like the guy above and unless I approach this like that killa Cam intro on Come Home Wif Me… I’m doomed forever.

The first thing you do when you meet a bytch, you SLAP the bytch. That way, you don’t ever have to worry about her saying, “WHY DON’T YOU TREAT ME THE WAY YOU USED TO?”





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[CrossBones]

this video shows us a stay at home mom and how she wants to have the mans balls and money in her purse at the same time. the part that really gets me, is how the other woman (and SIMP) will argue that the man should have to be completely compliant to his womans wants and that "there's nothing wrong with that." see he already is providing everything, but to them, its not enough. they claim that she shouldnt have to "ask him" for HIS dough since she chose not to work. because that makes her feel "funny." see they dont want him to be in check and in control of HIS OWN money, they want him to be the black card providing simp.

then cons flipped it and said if he decided to stay at home, do nothing, and get money from his girl, then he would be seen as a loser, and scandalous. the girls, just so they wont lose the argument, act like "No! Theres nothing wrong with that! No one would say that!"

I hate these birds. Im no fan of cons or anything, but check this shyt they try to run on him. I want yall to watch this for a few minutes:

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[ame=http://youtu.be/dq1wbJUXHfc]Consequence Spazzes Out Part 2 (Talks Love and Hip Hop, Jen The Pen doesn't Work) - YouTube[/ame]

 

[CASHAPP]

^ So Howie do your parents have an open relationship or something?

 

[sixsixtwo]

I love you.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Lipstick Alley Quote (nycgirl) and Thread about the 42 year old lady alone...


"I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless & alone at 42'

"She's just a nut case.
Plenty of older men for a white woman.
Get on E Harmony hoe."

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Some of those LSA women are delusional.

 

[sixsixtwo]

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