FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
I done got ignored so many times on pof and tagged years ago being extra "conscious"
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I done got ignored so many times on pof and tagged years ago being extra "conscious"
this, keep convo to 'the world', only pull from your experience if the convo led to yall talking about a time in life. It's easy to turn convo into therapy sessions and this is where dudes lose. Also there is a diff between being into something and being obsessive. Men in general need to be concise when they speak, and I noticed most dudes I talk to talk like women (maybe single parent home). This isn't a negative, but a woman is going to look at you weird if you are all over the place and not direct and concise when you speak (even though they dont do the same lol). I say this because this differentiates dudes they can see as a friend vs a man thats going to lead and give them wisdom.
Uno Venova
Your honor, I was merely capping.
I've done this sometimes but what do you think it means when the woman might apologize and become aware by calling herself a "chatterbox" or saying "I'm talking too much!"?
How do you approach
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
Alotta dudes got issues with leading.
I heard too many times of dudes steady asking woman shyt to come to a decision on something.
Women don't wanna make decisions brehs....
Alotta dudes got issues with leading.
I heard too many times of dudes steady asking woman shyt to come to a decision on something.
Women don't wanna make decisions brehs....
yeah lol.
The only thing you ask is "hey I want to go to ABC @ 123, would you like to join me?"
That "What you wanna do" dont work lol. "What you wanna eat" dont work, most dudes ask that when they in relationships and get frustrated because a womans answer is always the same "idk what you got a taste for"
VertigoKnight
Veteran
That shyt was out of nowhere, one day she just popped and posted an IG story that she was back with her ex who is a breh and showing off her baby bump with his hands around her belly.
As for hs roster. He overthinks this shyt. I told him when he goes out, just chill and if an opportunity presents itself go talk to people with no expectation of anything happening. Strictly going out to hunt p*ssy will always pretty much lead to no success.
Alotta dudes got issues with leading.
I heard too many times of dudes steady asking woman shyt to come to a decision on something.
Women don't wanna make decisions brehs....
Facts lol
Got an old homegirl coming home to visit family next month and she wants to go camping for a few days and it's like trigonometry for her trying to plan shyt. Gotta do everything my damn self.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
yeah lol.
The only thing you ask is "hey I want to go to ABC @ 123, would you like to join me?"
That "What you wanna do" dont work lol. "What you wanna eat" dont work, most dudes ask that when they in relationships and get frustrated because a womans answer is always the same "idk what you got a taste for"
I metup with my female friend yesterday for a drink and she's seeing a guy who cant plan for shyt. She says the bar is low and he cant even step over it. All she wants is him to show some initiative.
She has to plan dates for them both. And she said her attraction for him is slowly going down.
And she's not wanting him to take her out to expensive places, just plan simple things for them to do together. He says his a good cook. And yet this guy hasn't said come round my place for dinner. Tbh this guy sounds depressed she was saying his already talked to her about his existential crisis
I will say she has given this guy multiple chances to improve, we'll see what happens.
KeysT
Playa from the Himalayas #ByrdGang
Hasn’t gotten that far. Want to cut it off before it does.
I metup with my female friend yesterday for a drink and she's seeing a guy who cant plan for shyt. She says the bar is low and he cant even step over it. All she wants is him to show some initiative.
She has to plan dates for them both. And she said her attraction for him is slowly going down.
And she's not wanting him to take her out to expensive places, just plan simple things for them to do together. He says his a good cook. And yet this guy hasn't said come round my place for dinner. Tbh this guy sounds depressed she was saying his already talked to her about his existential crisis
I will say she has given this guy multiple chances to improve, we'll see what happens.
thats the thing, a ton of dudes are depressed, and these women of today are NOT raised to be nurturing, so they just sit around hating the relationship while the man falls deeper and deeper into depression.
Straw Hat Luffy
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I say female friends are important 
I can dig the idea behind only talking if I'm smashing rhetoric that some of you guys have.
But personally, I find the cold approaches a lot easier and authentic when I'm already comfortable exercising that muscle of socializing with women.
I see it in all forms of communication. You can tell when someone is not familiar with another race or culture right off the bat. That person has never really been exposed to something different and it usually shows how uncomfortable and forced their interactions are.
I can dig the idea behind only talking if I'm smashing rhetoric that some of you guys have.
But personally, I find the cold approaches a lot easier and authentic when I'm already comfortable exercising that muscle of socializing with women.
I see it in all forms of communication. You can tell when someone is not familiar with another race or culture right off the bat. That person has never really been exposed to something different and it usually shows how uncomfortable and forced their interactions are.
I say female friends are important
I can dig the idea behind only talking if I'm smashing rhetoric that some of you guys have.
But personally, I find the cold approaches a lot easier and authentic when I'm already comfortable exercising that muscle of socializing with women.
I see it in all forms of communication. You can tell when someone is not familiar with another race or culture right off the bat. That person has never really been exposed to something different and it usually shows how uncomfortable and forced their interactions are.
ill say this friends, associates, and colleagues are different things
cjt11203
Pro
I don't disagree with you but dudes that are depressed should sort that shyt out before getting into a relationship. Not saying they shouldn't have a support system but I don't think it's your girls responsibility, especially if you are expected to be the leader, which requires emotional stability.
my statement is being depressed while in a relationship. And your girls responsibility is to recommend you seek therapy, vs being mad that the relationship is 'wack'. This is the thing with our society and why its out of wack, people get into long term relationships without marriage being the goal. If marriage is the goal your girl should show wife qualities, and one of those things are empathy.
Qualities of a help mate. Dudes are letting women shirk their duties.