Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[buzzkill]

For that I wouldn’t bush her. I fukked two doctors, female OBGYNs who didn’t have any issues with fukking men who had it. I asked them why? Then found out most of population has it. HPV btw is a given for most women, if affects men differently and not at all mostly but prevention is way better.

I dont think I wanna risk it breh

 

[Apollo Creed]

This gone fukk up some brehs.


Brehs gone be like "well thecoli told me to just talk about her " and the chick gone be bored cuz the dude aint got nttn interesting about himself; he just interviewing her.

Its a balance

issue is lotta brehs havent experienced much and dont have anything interesting about. Alot of dudes aint witty either

 

[Leao2005]

Nothing anywhere close to Times Square but for people watching you can go to the Lincoln memorial.
If you want to be around bars Adams Morgan, H Street or U street corridor.

aint chinatown up there popping too. I was out there for a few hours last time

 

[LoMax30]

A few things for single guys..

Get context from cats you're getting advice from. Advice that works for one person doesn't necessarily work for everybody. Everyone has a different path.

There's a difference between being direct with a woman and being OD/borderline creepy. A lot of cats don't really seem to know the difference.

Try putting yourself in scenarios/spaces where there's women who speak your 'language'. If that doesn't work and your dating pool is lacking, time to move to another city (if you have the means). No point in spinning your wheels unnecessarily.

You can't chase girls who dress and present like thots but then be mad when they ARE thots. You can't have it both ways.

People show you who they are.

 

[Apollo Creed]

A few things for single guys..

Get context from cats you're getting advice from. Advice that works for one person doesn't necessarily work for everybody. Everyone has a different path.

There's a difference between being direct with a woman and being OD/borderline creepy. A lot of cats don't really seem to know the difference.

Try putting yourself in scenarios/spaces where there's women who speak your 'language'. If that doesn't work and your dating pool is lacking, time to move to another city (if you have the means). No point in spinning your wheels unnecessarily.

You can't chase girls who dress and present like thots but then be mad when they ARE thots. You can't have it both ways.

People show you who they are.

biggest thing is be you. All that forcing sex talk and non organic approaching is corny and PUA nonsense.

Dudes aren't confident in who they are as men which is why they do stuff thats uncomfortable and end up looking lame

1.Put your purpose first
2.Get actual hobbies, this is what organically puts you in proximity of other humans allowing you to spark organic convo. All that going out for the sole purpose hollering at chicks is bum HS stuff.
3.Its over 3 billion women on earth, understand everyone isn't going to like you, find your attractive, etc. Don't be homie the clown, have organic relationships, if she is feeling you cool, if not move on.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

no way

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Sure why not? Raves are fun i went to a few when I was your age. Just go.

Yeah I’ll hit it up. I just gotta be crafty about getting at other women while I’m there with her

 

[KeysT]

aint chinatown up there popping too. I was out there for a few hours last time

Yeah Chinatown is cool. Smaller than the other places though.

 

[cjt11203]

Talking to this one chick. Really smart. Has basically no time. To be honest I think she’s cool. Just not attracted to her unavailability. She schedules herself into corners and has a bunch of friends. Think I’m going to friend zone her. Can have the benefits of her intellect without the expectation to romance her and pay for dates.

You not smashing?

 

[LiveFromLondon]

This gone fukk up some brehs.


Brehs gone be like "well thecoli told me to just talk about her " and the chick gone be bored cuz the dude aint got nttn interesting about himself; he just interviewing her.

Its a balance

Thats why i mentioned if it strays then bring it round back to her, when you talk about yourself relate it back to her and carry the flow of the convo. Women are incredibly self-absorbed they aint tryna here all that intellectual shyt brehs have going or are doing especially in the early stages of courting. Bring that in after a while, i know this because its happened to myself telling chicks I read books and never getting a call or text after that.

 

[Apollo Creed]

You not smashing?

sound like a waste of time

men dont friend zone, we just let women off nicely.

 

[cjt11203]

sound like a waste of time

men dont friend zone, we just let women off nicely.

I didn't want to say it. I made the same mistake all the time in my early 20s. I just happened to have a bunch of attractive female friends. Nah, I just wanted to smash and ain't have the mamba mentality yet and got friend-zoned a bunch of times.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I didn't want to say it. I made the same mistake all the time in my early 20s. I just happened to have a bunch of attractive female friends. Nah, I just wanted to smash and ain't have the mamba mentality yet and got friend-zoned a bunch of times.

exactly. With men, you can not talk to your friends for weeks/months and when you all get together its like you never missed a beat. With women, you not check in on them in a week and they coming to you questioning your 'friendship'. Nothing wrong with knowing people and being cordial but we use the term 'friend' loosely. And outside of a woman you grew up with who is like a cousin, chances are they will only check in with you when they need validation that another man isn't providing. And lets be real, if two grown people are attractive, have a ton in common, and single, why aren't yall in a relationship? It's literally giving each other boyfriend/girlfriend benefits without sex, and we all know at some point sex will become introduced.

 

[cjt11203]

exactly. With men, you can not talk to your friends for weeks/months and when you all get together its like you never missed a beat. With women, you not check in on them in a week and they coming to you questioning your 'friendship'. Nothing wrong with knowing people and being cordial but we use the term 'friend' loosely. And outside of a woman you grew up with who is like a cousin, chances are they will only check in with you when they need validation that another man isn't providing. And lets be real, if two grown people are attractive, have a ton in common, and single, why aren't yall in a relationship? It's literally giving each other boyfriend/girlfriend benefits without sex, and we all know at some point sex will become introduced.

Facts. Dudes need to stop giving free validation. Your time is valuable and you should only give it to those that earned it. I learned that shyt the hard way.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

issue is lotta brehs havent experienced much and dont have anything interesting about. Alot of dudes aint witty either

Yeah cuz that life story shyt is wack to women.
I've gotten women interested just off of me being vegan.

These broads be wanting to hear some different shyt from dudes