Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Straw Hat Luffy]

ill say this friends, associates, and colleagues are different things

Yeah.

I'm talking about being legit friends with a chick though. Like going out with them drinking and smoking and expecting nothing out of it, hanging out whenever, and just hitting each other up to talk about random shyt.

I won't mention associates and colleagues because you're supposed to be professional and formal which doesn't really help with trying to talk to a girl.

 

[Swing]

Im going to try to smash my 50 yr old neighbor before she moves…

Bish looks 30, a slim thick Lucy Liu

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

my statement is being depressed while in a relationship. And your girls responsibility is to recommend you seek therapy, vs being mad that the relationship is 'wack'. This is the thing with our society and why its out of wack, people get into long term relationships without marriage being the goal. If marriage is the goal your girl should show wife qualities, and one of those things are empathy.

it's also about context though.

There's a difference between a relationship being "wack" for a short period of time when someone is going through something and dealing with someone who has a lifelong mental illness battle that was not present at the beginning.

That shyt just doesn't affect the person it's happening to but the people that are close to that person.

If a dude is a depressed alcoholic that has random episodes every other month every year, the fukked up reality is nobody is trying to deal with that if there are kids involved and bills need to be paid.

Shoutout to anyone who stays through everything all the way because that shyts a challenge.

But in most cases, after a certain point, it's try to get your shyt somewhat together or it's time to move on.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yeah.

I'm talking about being legit friends with a chick though. Like going out with them drinking and smoking and expecting nothing out of it, hanging out whenever, and just hitting each other up to talk about random shyt.

I won't mention associates and colleagues because you're supposed to be professional and formal which doesn't really help with trying to talk to a girl.

I`m not saying this as a jab, but I don't partake in non productive activities (which I consider drinking and smoking to be). If I'm looking to unwind I'll either fellowship with friends at events/hit em up just to catch up, travel, or grab a bite solo, or the woman I'm entertaining at the time.

At the end of the day everyone is different,but as friends I will assume you aren't footing the bill every time it's time to smoke and drink, because thats not what friends do to each other.

 

[Apollo Creed]

it's also about context though.

There's a difference between a relationship being "wack" for a short period of time when someone is going through something and dealing with someone who has a lifelong mental illness battle that was not present at the beginning.

That shyt just doesn't affect the person it's happening to but the people that are close to that person.

If a dude is a depressed alcoholic that has random episodes every other month every year, the fukked up reality is nobody is trying to deal with that if there are kids involved and bills need to be paid.

Shoutout to anyone who stays through everything all the way because that shyts a challenge.

But in most cases, after a certain point, it's try to get your shyt somewhat together or it's time to move on.

If the woman identifies the mental illness, she should be recommending the man get help, even volunteering to help him search for a therapist/program. If the man refuses then it is time for the woman to leave the relationship because she loves him too much to sit around while he doesn't try to get through his issues.

You cant 'love' someone and just sit idle as they destroy themselves.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I`m not saying this as a jab, but I don't partake in non productive activities (which I consider drinking and smoking to be). If I'm looking to unwind I'll either fellowship with friends at events/hit em up just to catch up, travel, or grab a bite solo, or the woman I'm entertaining at the time.

At the end of the day everyone is different,but as friends I will assume you aren't footing the bill every time it's time to smoke and drink, because thats not what friends do to each other.

When I say expecting nothing out of it I meant not expecting to get ass.

And I was just providing that as an example because that's what I do with my friends sometimes.

Different lifestyle but you know what I meant behind my post

 

[MaxPain]

Hitting a rave to fw some half naked women? Yay or nay? This girl I fw got an extra ticket so it can’t hurt I assume@KingZimbabwe @Ezekiel 25:17 @Rozay Oro @Hennessypapi @Astroslik @10bandz

Go & prosper young man.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

yeah lol.

The only thing you ask is "hey I want to go to ABC @ 123, would you like to join me?"

That "What you wanna do" dont work lol. "What you wanna eat" dont work, most dudes ask that when they in relationships and get frustrated because a womans answer is always the same "idk what you got a taste for"

shyt you better than me.
I used to tell my exes what we bout to eat.
I ain't got time for all that "im kinda tired of chiinese food " bytch YOU BETTER WARM UP THEM LEFTOVERS THEN CUZ IM HUNGRY

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Facts lol

Got an old homegirl coming home to visit family next month and she wants to go camping for a few days and it's like trigonometry for her trying to plan shyt. Gotta do everything my damn self.

They so indecisive.
This worked against me in my last relationship though.
She steady bytched because I did everything and wouldn't let her do nothing

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I metup with my female friend yesterday for a drink and she's seeing a guy who cant plan for shyt. She says the bar is low and he cant even step over it. All she wants is him to show some initiative.

She has to plan dates for them both. And she said her attraction for him is slowly going down.

And she's not wanting him to take her out to expensive places, just plan simple things for them to do together. He says his a good cook. And yet this guy hasn't said come round my place for dinner. Tbh this guy sounds depressed she was saying his already talked to her about his existential crisis



I will say she has given this guy multiple chances to improve, we'll see what happens.

I heard of a chick recently giving her thoughts on why her dude might be gay cuz he never tried to invite her to his crib

 

[Apollo Creed]

I heard of a chick recently giving her thoughts on why her dude might be gay cuz he never tried to invite her to his crib

Lmfao she is an idiot. No crib invites would be secret family or he just sees her as a bad energy thot rather than gay.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Lmfao she is an idiot. No crib invites would be secret family or he just sees her as a bad energy thot rather than gay.

he did let his homeboy make him some banana pudding though

 

[MikelArteta]

my statement is being depressed while in a relationship. And your girls responsibility is to recommend you seek therapy, vs being mad that the relationship is 'wack'. This is the thing with our society and why its out of wack, people get into long term relationships without marriage being the goal. If marriage is the goal your girl should show wife qualities, and one of those things are empathy.

Most women will bounce though the ones that stay around are the good ones

 

[Ohene]

my statement is being depressed while in a relationship. And your girls responsibility is to recommend you seek therapy, vs being mad that the relationship is 'wack'. This is the thing with our society and why its out of wack, people get into long term relationships without marriage being the goal. If marriage is the goal your girl should show wife qualities, and one of those things are empathy.

right?

so if a nikka been with a girl for 5 years and loses a family member and becomes depressed...he just supposed to break up and short that shyt out alone/?
the way some ppl think is so dumb

 

[MikelArteta]

Friend of mines luck with women is just abysmal. Just this year his seen his ex pop back up happy and pregnant by her ex, now current boyfriend.

Chick he was into for a while who he finally approached and asked out for a date, went on one date with him, kissed him then curved him when he tried to setup another one. I didn't tell him but I saw that chick back on Tinder with a new profile.

And his current one. His FWB who his been seeing on and off for a year, told him two weeks ago that sex was off the table as she needed to "gather herself and concentrate on other things". Yesterday she pops up on IG showing off her new man. He did tell her that he wasn't looking for a relationship but he said it still kinda hurt his ego to see this.

Now his down to one chick he sees very sporadically. Like one every three months if that.

He knows what he needs to do. I cant make him approach chicks.