Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TRUEST]

I metup with my female friend yesterday for a drink and she's seeing a guy who cant plan for shyt. She says the bar is low and he cant even step over it. All she wants is him to show some initiative.

She has to plan dates for them both. And she said her attraction for him is slowly going down.

And she's not wanting him to take her out to expensive places, just plan simple things for them to do together. He says his a good cook. And yet this guy hasn't said come round my place for dinner. Tbh this guy sounds depressed she was saying his already talked to her about his existential crisis



I will say she has given this guy multiple chances to improve, we'll see what happens.

Look at it from the guys perspective. Inviting a chick to the crib means a lot more than just fuccking. U gotta entertain them and we all know how quickly these women get bored if u not planning new sh1t to do.

I’ve dead ass stopped talking to women because of this. Not every man wants to be out there playing adventurer every weekend.

 

[Leao2005]

This has nothing to do with women, but is there is there a way to filter so you only see five star threads?

 

[LiveFromLondon]

I've done this sometimes but what do you think it means when the woman might apologize and become aware by calling herself a "chatterbox" or saying "I'm talking too much!"? How do you approach

She now feels uncomfortable and you now have to bring back that initial comfortability. Just let her know shes a women and normal for her to be chatty and social.

 

[dizzy4111]

right?

so if a nikka been with a girl for 5 years and loses a family member and becomes depressed...he just supposed to break up and short that shyt out alone/?
the way some ppl think is so dumb

A lot of people these days take the "I don't owe you anything" approach. Unfortunately that means bouncing at the first signs of discomfort or difficulty in a relationship. It's sad

 

[Apollo Creed]

A lot of people these days take the "I don't owe you anything" approach. Unfortunately that means bouncing at the first signs of discomfort or difficulty in a relationship. It's sad

and in the same breath they feel some kinda way when people treat them like a number instead of human. This is what people wanted and yet they are shocked at the depression numbers lol.

the simple fact there are tactics and strategies for basic human interaction of how doomed we are.
“No double texting”
“Dont talk about yourself”
Etc.

dudes need to be ready to let a delusional woman walk instead of playing her idiotic games which continues the nonsense we see.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

How do y'all deal with insanely jealous women who won't stop harping over hoes you fukked years ago?

 

[Apollo Creed]

How do y'all deal with insanely jealous women who won't stop harping over hoes you fukked years ago?

Ghost em

 

[MikelArteta]

and in the same breath they feel some kinda way when people treat them like a number instead of human. This is what people wanted and yet they are shocked at the depression numbers lol.

the simple fact there are tactics and strategies for basic human interaction of how doomed we are.
“No double texting”
“Dont talk about yourself”
Etc.

dudes need to be ready to let a delusional woman walk instead of playing her idiotic games which continues the nonsense we see.

 

[Ohene]

A lot of people these days take the "I don't owe you anything" approach

yup. i always say the average person is an a$$hole/piece of shyt for that very reason

 

[George Gooney]

Yeah.

I'm talking about being legit friends with a chick though. Like going out with them drinking and smoking and expecting nothing out of it, hanging out whenever, and just hitting each other up to talk about random shyt.

I won't mention associates and colleagues because you're supposed to be professional and formal which doesn't really help with trying to talk to a girl.

No.

 

[duncanthetall]

My gf is probably the best person I’ve ever dated. Legitimately just a good human. But she’s so sensitive and emotional sometimes and acts like it so often in ways that seem like she’s trying to push me away, although I know she’s not. It’s weird how you can hit a seemingly insignificant bump in the road that leaves you with a flat a few miles down it.
I haven’t been in an actual relationship in almost 2 years before this. I know I have my own faults that she deals with and overlooks but it’s fukking hard sometimes to do the same.

 

[360dagod]

I got a 19 yrs old interested..

Gymcel# life paying off

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

man that's crazy

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I guess

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

unbelievable