Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Talking to this one chick. Really smart. Has basically no time. To be honest I think she’s cool. Just not attracted to her unavailability. She schedules herself into corners and has a bunch of friends. Think I’m going to friend zone her. Can have the benefits of her intellect without the expectation to romance her and pay for dates.
 

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Talking to this one chick. Really smart. Has basically no time. To be honest I think she’s cool. Just not attracted to her unavailability. She schedules herself into corners and has a bunch of friends. Think I’m going to friend zone her. Can have the benefits of her intellect without the expectation to romance her and pay for dates.

Smart move, do it before she does it to you first.

Some women are better nurturers to their career and close friends etc, and not so good at the dating and romance thing because of said time.
 

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Smart move, do it before she does it to you first.

Some women are better nurturers to their career and close friends etc, and not so good at the dating and romance thing because of said time.
That’s the vibe she’s giving off for sure. Very smart and worth keeping around for intellect alone though as a friend.
 

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What parts of the DMV and DC got the most black people. SE right??
SE yes but the whole city has black people through ought. SE and some parts of NE have the most black people and what would historically be the “hood” but it’s rapidly gentrifying. There is a class divide between black people here who have money and great jobs and those who historically are from the city. Lot of well off black transplants.
 

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SE yes but the whole city has black people through ought. SE and some parts of NE have the most black people and what would historically be the “hood” but it’s rapidly gentrifying. There is a class divide between black people here who have money and great jobs and those who historically are from the city. Lot of well off black transplants.
I’m only seeing straight white girls on my tinder so I was wondering
 

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Friend of mines luck with women is just abysmal. Just this year his seen his ex pop back up happy and pregnant by her ex, now current boyfriend.

Chick he was into for a while who he finally approached and asked out for a date, went on one date with him, kissed him then curved him when he tried to setup another one. I didn't tell him but I saw that chick back on Tinder with a new profile.

And his current one. His FWB who his been seeing on and off for a year, told him two weeks ago that sex was off the table as she needed to "gather herself and concentrate on other things". Yesterday she pops up on IG showing off her new man. He did tell her that he wasn't looking for a relationship but he said it still kinda hurt his ego to see this.

Now his down to one chick he sees very sporadically. Like one every three months if that.

He knows what he needs to do. I cant make him approach chicks.
 

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also, what's the like time square or like very walkable and "people watching" area of DC
Nothing anywhere close to Times Square but for people watching you can go to the Lincoln memorial.
If you want to be around bars Adams Morgan, H Street or U street corridor.
 

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Friend of mines luck with women is just abysmal. Just this year his seen his ex pop back up happy and pregnant by her ex, now current boyfriend.

Chick he was into for a while who he finally approached and asked out for a date, went on one date with him, kissed him then curved him when he tried to setup another one. I didn't tell him but I saw that chick back on Tinder with a new profile.

And his current one. His FWB who his been seeing on and off for a year, told him two weeks ago that sex was off the table as she needed to "gather herself and concentrate on other things". Yesterday she pops up on IG showing off her new man. He did tell her that he wasn't looking for a relationship but he said it still kinda hurt his ego to see this.

Now his down to one chick he sees very sporadically. Like one every three months if that.

He knows what he needs to do. I cant make him approach chicks.
Seems like he had a roster they just chose up. Just has to get back out there for the open spots on his roster. Seeing your ex go back to their ex is wild tho.
 

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:bryan:Women don't wanna be hearing that shyt, i used to be that nicca to tryna come off as an intellectual. Qouted post below is the truth, make everything about her, when it strays bring it right back to her:ufdup:
That way you can be jovial and be mocking her but in a light hearted manner. Also be brazen get that sex talk in slyly if she don't bite then:manny: and move on

This gone fukk up some brehs.
:mjlol:

Brehs gone be like "well thecoli told me to just talk about her :mjcry:" and the chick gone be bored cuz the dude aint got nttn interesting about himself; he just interviewing her.

Its a balance
 
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