Dreamzeedream
Banned
We was a couple 3weeks after meeting each other. Forgive me for the typos breh
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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We was a couple 3weeks after meeting each other. Forgive me for the typos breh
Dreamzeedream
Banned
She was 27 about to be 28 this year I got her age wrong my bad
Knew a lot of people like that.
It's all good fam
because you can and will never know what goes on in the head of another human being the risk is always there. it can't be eliminated. sure if you avoid hoodrats you've eliminated one subset of women you don't find desirable but whenever you go into a relationship there exist a risk that you can never eliminate. things happen you can't and won't ever know about because they happen when you aren't around. there are aspects to your woman you will never see and never know about. her best friend will know things about her you never will.
when it comes to yourself you know all there is to know but when it comes to another human being all you know is what you're exposed to and unless you are them you're never exposed to it all. you speak of judging character and all you can really judge is what you're exposed to which isn't the entire person. with all your character judging skill the risk still exist and will never go away.
you can either accept that or you can tell yourself you're better than the rest when it comes to judging character. you can tell yourself she's different than the rest of these women. the thing is you can tell yourself whatever you want and believe what ever you want but having a belief doesn't make it true or real. every sucker that ever got played, that ever got cheated on by a woman likely told themselves they could judge character, she was different, she could be trusted and ultimately they were wrong.
i'm not saying live your life in fear of this but its something you should acknowledge because whether or not you'd like to believe it you aren't a special snowflake. there are billions of people alive and the chances of you developing a method of judging character that's better than the next man's is slim. the men that pick good women luck comes into play. it has to because they're making a decision that is in part blind because they don't know all the variables.
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
"Fewer young men in the US want to get married than ever, while the desire for marriage is rising among young women."
Sorry ladies, we're closed. Slowly, the manosphere is starting to have an influence on young mens lives. The next 20 years of western culture are going to be very interesting.
Lol watch that number of women desiring marriage drop down drastically if any elected president is ever brave enough to tackle child support reform. These broads just out here looking for free handouts. If there is ever some policy to hand out severe penalties for females who lie about rape...we willl watch a drop in little immature girls taking joy in how "im gonna tell_____that you raped me"
We used examples from the bible on the previous page,and it has become a cliche but it really is amazing at how the very things going on now was spoken about in the Bible.
Look at Potiphar's wife and how she accused Joseph of rape because he did not want to sleep with her....just so she does not own up to her own transgressions.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: Hell as her kids end up with me
THE first time my girl and I went to bed, she said that she had a confession to make.
Rather than being young, free and single, she actually had an ex-husband and two children.
I started to make a bolt for the door, but she assured me that Id never have to meet any of them. She understood that I wasnt interested in kids, in being tied down or having responsibilities.
We agreed that her ex would have her kids every other weekend, and two nights in the week, and that I would only ever see her on her own.
Things worked out fine for the next two years.
She and I were crazy for each other. She would come to my place on her time off and wed hang out, go to gigs and make love.
Our sex life was red-hot and we really did have the best of both worlds.
But then something terrible happened at the end of last year. Her ex-husband died in a car crash.
It turned out he had masses of debts and had secretly married another woman.
My girl lost her flat, her income, everything.
Now she and her kids are here all the time and I cant stand it. The children are traumatised and dont even like me.
She is very stressed and doesnt want to make love. This is not the life I wanted. Ive given her notice and told her that this is my home and that I want all of them out as soon as possible.
But every time I bring up the subject of them moving on, I get accused of being heartless and cruel.
Yet Im the one paying the bills and putting a roof over their heads. How does that work?
THE first time my girl and I went to bed, she said that she had a confession to make.
Rather than being young, free and single, she actually had an ex-husband and two children.
I started to make a bolt for the door, but she assured me that Id never have to meet any of them. She understood that I wasnt interested in kids, in being tied down or having responsibilities.
We agreed that her ex would have her kids every other weekend, and two nights in the week, and that I would only ever see her on her own.
Things worked out fine for the next two years.
She and I were crazy for each other. She would come to my place on her time off and wed hang out, go to gigs and make love.
Our sex life was red-hot and we really did have the best of both worlds.
But then something terrible happened at the end of last year. Her ex-husband died in a car crash.
It turned out he had masses of debts and had secretly married another woman.
My girl lost her flat, her income, everything.
Now she and her kids are here all the time and I cant stand it. The children are traumatised and dont even like me.
She is very stressed and doesnt want to make love. This is not the life I wanted. Ive given her notice and told her that this is my home and that I want all of them out as soon as possible.
But every time I bring up the subject of them moving on, I get accused of being heartless and cruel.
Yet Im the one paying the bills and putting a roof over their heads. How does that work?
DaRealness
I think very deeply
That is a fukked up situation. But I guess some things happen for a reason in order for one to become wiser. I am glad that you learned the lesson about maintaining self-respect at all times. This should serve as a reminder to NOT save a woman from whatever messy situation that she has created for herself because she has purposely made poor decisions and more importantly, she is not going to respect any guy who tries to save her from the consequences of those decisions.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
I'm just glad to, I learned alot from her breh and that relationship that made me a better person and you right, you can't save nobody who don't wanna be saved
preach
So we went out last night.
Like a miniature snickers bar, i'ma keep this short and sweet.
We went out for drinks and dinner, and the sum of the matter of the outing;
*sighs*
It was a flying success. Our interaction this time was a little more fluid than the previous two meetings (3rst dates a charm :P). Towards the end of the night, i was anxious to plant the kiss cuz if it wasn't this night - it would be never.
After the bar, walking back to the whip, i had an unsurmountable swarm of butterflies in my stomach (this shiit either happens 1; In grade school or 2: you really REALLY like somebody).
But i went in for it, and you could her body was all game cuz of her body language...
Shiit was pure magic breighams.
Man, when we was in the whip, doing stuff, i pulled her shirt down and them nips. Oh lawd.
It had me all
Felt like a dream.
So we're going to a movie on Sunday and i'm feeling real good about this one.
And for the first time in my life (without jinxing it)...
I may actually have a real Valentine (that may not mean anything to you, but being 30 and pretty much single your whole life - this is quite symbolic to me).
Let's keep this thread alive and thriving.
I think more guys need to open up to their own engagements (if they're comfortable enough) and that way, we can learn and feed off eachothers experiences - it's essentially how we all grow and persevere in the dating realm.
A couple cats said i had to treat her like every other girl...
IF i did, i'd be losing out on something special.
(and if i'm wrong and i it goes awry cuz of how i approached it, let that be on me).
Until then, i'm all right tonight.
*cheers*
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Like a miniature snickers bar, i'ma keep this short and sweet.
We went out for drinks and dinner, and the sum of the matter of the outing;
*sighs*
It was a flying success. Our interaction this time was a little more fluid than the previous two meetings (3rst dates a charm :P). Towards the end of the night, i was anxious to plant the kiss cuz if it wasn't this night - it would be never.
After the bar, walking back to the whip, i had an unsurmountable swarm of butterflies in my stomach (this shiit either happens 1; In grade school or 2: you really REALLY like somebody).
But i went in for it, and you could her body was all game cuz of her body language...
Shiit was pure magic breighams.
Man, when we was in the whip, doing stuff, i pulled her shirt down and them nips. Oh lawd.
It had me all
Felt like a dream.
So we're going to a movie on Sunday and i'm feeling real good about this one.
And for the first time in my life (without jinxing it)...
I may actually have a real Valentine (that may not mean anything to you, but being 30 and pretty much single your whole life - this is quite symbolic to me).
Let's keep this thread alive and thriving.
I think more guys need to open up to their own engagements (if they're comfortable enough) and that way, we can learn and feed off eachothers experiences - it's essentially how we all grow and persevere in the dating realm.
A couple cats said i had to treat her like every other girl...
IF i did, i'd be losing out on something special.
(and if i'm wrong and i it goes awry cuz of how i approached it, let that be on me).
Until then, i'm all right tonight.
*cheers*
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Exactly, she got flabby and sick and got paid back for her actions and still has the audacity to be like, "What's up with it? Can I come back?" That's like there being a man on the street who is halfway starving and someone comes across him and, being a good Samaritan, offers him bread. Upon offering the starving man bread, the starving man pulls out a shank and stabs the good Samaritan and flees. Years later, the starving man is once again in dire straights, and having no one to help him, runs back to the good Samaritan. What do you think will happen this time? It's crazy how some women have absolutely no shame, but it just goes to show you the level of which they detest simps. They will use and abuse a simped out dude, deal with thugs and pop out 3 or 4 offspring that he isn't taking care of, and then attempt to return to the simp to find a provider... and if she has enough luck of 'locking him in', she will go right back to sleeping with the thug behind the simp's back.
Real talk, one of the worst things you can do is end up feeling sorry for some woman who is living out the repercussions from her own choices. That's how so many men end up getting into situations they wish they were never in, such as paying child support for another man's kids or having some woman stay over more and more and then become a permanent move in guest that he just can't shake.
Just like dreamzeedream said, one of the ways a woman will get you is by playing the victim game. She tells you a sob story, you end up feeling sorry for her, and she uses your emotion of sympathy to wrangle favors and money out of you. What's sad is that people actually knowingly make a living like this. They know how to go from person to person sharing their sob story in order to get free meals, money or whatever else they want. There are people out there that go in with the intention of using sob stories to get free handouts. The victim game is very real.