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There is a torrent file I have saved on my computer of a documentary of women around the world. I wanted to show various parts so you guys can see but I don't know how to link torrent files on here?

Does anyone know how to do it?

Lets just say even in the poorest of poor countries, you still have young females getting disrespectful and grabbing guys and disrespecting them. I really want you guys to see these parts
 

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There is a torrent file I have saved on my computer of a documentary of women around the world. I wanted to show various parts so you guys can see but I don't know how to link torrent files on here?

Does anyone know how to do it?

Lets just say even in the poorest of poor countries, you still have young females getting disrespectful and grabbing guys and disrespecting them. I really want you guys to see these parts


theres ratchet women all over the world....but the ratio of ratchetness differs by country
 

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theres ratchet women all over the world....but the ratio of ratchetness differs by country

The specific part i am talking about is that this was a short documentary about various types of prostition; They spoke about Thailand, Mexico and Bangladesh.

The girls I just referred to were in particular the Bangladesh area; They documented some nighttime street where all the activity goes down in. Alot of the girls are very young and as young as mid-teens and they see alot of guys who are their own ages.

Like this one young guy around their age with a New York Yankee jacket was walking by probably gonna see someone else, this girl pulls him out of nowhere showing no respect, basically tryng to force him to see her . Even after he was telling her not to fukking touch him like that.

Everyone on the block is poor as hell and you would think there would be more modesty but god damn the things they were saying were straight up disgusting. Alot of times we stereotype other countries and think they are so better compared to the US......but im telling you guys if you saw that Bangladesh part of the documentary....you would swear it was hoodrats from Cambria Heights or South Jamaica who were talking

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Broads telling guys just sitting out relaxing that "this isn't a _____dinner party?(i forgot the exact word she used) this is a fukkING WHOREHOUSE!! Don't want to stereotype and say its because of the country but its hard to put into words it really was disgusting to watch

And the you get these "professional" girls in America wonder why they never get showed respect when all they are doing is whoring on a more upscale level

I'm telling you guys the shyt was straight up disgusting
 

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My good friend is trying to hook me up with her cousin.

She has everything that a guy would look for in a girl... smart, pretty, good body, good career, educated, etc.

But she has a kid. :beli:
 

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:wtf: You must be dating/wifing some ratchet ass females. Women don't respect simps, now why the hell would any girl of mine, much less a wife, fukk around on me for some lame she doesn't respect? The point is she DOES respect me because I'm not a simp.



Females don't respect a simp. They do, however, tend to respect me. I can't relate to what you're saying at all. To me, simp behavior has been a blessing and likely gotten me a lot more females than I would have if more guys had my self-confidence. Maybe its not the simps, but something else in your own relationships that would cause the scenarios you're describing. I've never had a female screw around on me with a simp since I stopped being one myself.

Totally agree. While there is plenty of real knowledge being dropped in this thread, some of you guys are blowing the situation out of proportion...there are still women out there that dig respectful, stand-up dudes. It's largely the ratchet/scandalous ones that subscribe to the fukkery, but it's not too hard to evaluate that type of character and avoid it from the jump.
 

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Totally agree. While there is plenty of real knowledge being dropped in this thread, some of you guys are blowing the situation out of proportion...there are still women out there that dig respectful, stand-up dudes. It's largely the ratchet/scandalous ones that subscribe to the fukkery, but it's not too hard to evaluate that type of character and avoid it from the jump.
i think what most people are saying is that yes, while there are ratchet girls and yes there are respectful girls. but overall, at the core they,re all the same. and it's not bad or good, that's just the way it is. they only do what they've been allowed to do and are where they are because they've been guided there. a good girl can turn bad whether you're careful or not.
 

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Okay...I'm probably going off the deep end but bear with me, fellas...

For the men with kids or younger relatives (teens, young men, etc.), I honestly urge to read Aesop's fables if you haven't. For my black brothers, I strongly urge you to do it because Aesop is one of the greatest storytellers of all time and he was black.

http://ourweekly.com/los-angeles/black-history-fact-week-aesop-storyteller

Anyways, some of you might be familiar with some of them but so much wisdom about life and women in general can be taken from this. Plus you get to bond with your kids/relatives and you add more worldly knowledge to your mental arsenal.

One particular fable that every male should read is the "Farmer and the Snake", which I have posted below:

One winter a Farmer found a Snake stiff and frozen with cold. He had compassion on it, and taking it up, placed it in his bosom. The Snake was quickly revived by the warmth, and resuming its natural instincts, bit its benefactor, inflicting on him a mortal wound. "Oh," cried the Farmer with his last breath, "I am rightly served for pitying a scoundrel."

The greatest kindness will not bind the ungrateful.

Look around you and you see plenty of ungrateful women around. Ungrateful of the new opportunities given to them and the old opportunities they threw away. I can guarantee every man reading this can relate to a similar situation where you showed kindness and it wasn't appreciated as well.

Below is a link to all of Aesop's Fable for you fellas to read up on:
http://www.sacred-texts.com/cla/aesop/index.htm
 

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lmao paper? I don't date gold diggers so no. I'm not saying a female couldn't possibly cheat on me, but it wouldn't have anything to do with someone having more money money than me.
all you really know about another person is what they allow you to see. the chick you fukking could have done anything before she met you and could be any type of person. every man that ever gets cheated on, used, and abused by a woman was arrogant enough to think he had it all figured out before she did it to him. people wear different mask around different people. i'm pretty sure when you're chilling with your boys your behavior differs from when you're visiting your parents. in fact your close friends and parents probably know different sides to who you are because you only expose certain aspects of yourself to certain people. there are also other aspects you probably don't display to anyone.
Thinking about it too much is fukking with your head. She's not your property. Its not on you to keep tabs on her 247, and it goes both ways. Have you ever had a chick who is checking up on you 247, going through your phone and email and acting jealous? It sucks and it will make you lose respect for her.

Being possessive and paranoid serves no purpose in a healthy relationship and will actually push the other person away. Its a self-defeating behavior because no one wants to be with someone like that.
i don't aspire to posses any woman or get into any serious relationships. to me the whole concepts of "my girlfriend" "my wife" "our relationship" are possessive. a relationship is nothing more than an attempt to exclusively possess another human being.

you never really know what another human being is capable of. i'm a person that openly admits this most people don't want to so they preach about trust and observe the behavior of their partner and decide to trust them. the thing is in this world your partner can compartmentalize many or all of their bad behavior and purposely keep it away from you. many a man marries a woman he trust completely and also has no idea of what she's really doing behind his back.


There will always be cheaters. We can't stop this. We CAN however take steps to prevent this from happening. First by only dating females with decent character who have pursued a career and are doing something with their life. Second by not letting yourself be overly possessive and paranoid. This type of behavior will actually drive her away. Thirdly, pay attention to your relationship. Some people are great at starting relationships, but don't know how to keep them going. Take care of her needs, and when I say needs I don't mean being a provider. I mean knowing your chick and the things that specifically make her happy.

Taking these steps will reduce the chance of her cheating by a huge margin. For me so far, its reduced it completely. Its like wearing a condom. Not guaranteed to prevent it completely, but pretty damn safe.
define decent character when all you really know about another person is what they expose you to. you don't really know another person's character and if they set out to deceive you about it they have a high probability of success. sure over the long term the probability goes down an unforeseen circumstances and happenings change what you see but by that point this person could have fraud you into a relationship, child, or marriage.

it should be common sense to you but nobody opens the door when they know the shooter is waiting for them on the other side. saying a person has good character is something said in hindsight if things work out. the thing is you have to take the risk and your ability to minimize that risk is very small.
 
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