I mostly agree. However, many posters are expressing how dealing with these entitled women can make dating seem like a headache. Plus,for some (myself included),they are mainly disturbed by the harsh reality that they cannot show respectfulness to a woman in any instance because it is categorized as simping (there is an extreme difference but women do not care about it) although we were taught as boys that women want to be treated with respect,which many us internalized as something positive only to be despised most of the time and to notice how guys who treat women like trash are highly revered by them.
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I mostly agree. However, many posters are expressing how dealing with these entitled women can make dating seem like a headache. Plus,for some (myself included),they are mainly disturbed by the harsh reality that they cannot show respectfulness to a woman in any instance because it is categorized as simping (there is an extreme difference but women do not care about it) although we were taught as boys that women want to be treated with respect,which many us internalized as something positive only to be despised most of the time and to notice how guys who treat women like trash are highly revered by them.
you do understand that this simping has corrupted women in general? i mean if you just wanna fukk around that's fine but the moment you decide to look for something serious you gotta deal with these same women that are juggling 10 or so guys in their cell phones and on facebook. you come home from a hard day's work and kiss your wife and she just had some other dude's dikk in her mouth because she's so impulsive and so used to having it all that she's fukking around behind your back just for the sake of doing it and doesn't feel any remorse about it.
just because you're not simping doesn't mean they don't expect you to. if you won't simp the next guy will so she's got you and him on deck. these women are turning men from people into utilities in their lives. human wallets and favor machines and the fact that you refuse to simp just means you can't be her only dude. she's got simps you just don't know them or see them.
there is no bright side to the general corruption of women. its like in the post-feminism movement world women have to deal with a generation of men that don't know how to be real men and simp well men have to deal with a generation of women that for the most part aren't wife material. entitled sluts and whores that will fukk around on the drop of a dime and lack self discipline.
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You must be dating/wifing some ratchet ass females. Women don't respect simps, now why the hell would any girl of mine, much less a wife, fukk around on me for some lame she doesn't respect? The point is she DOES respect me because I'm not a simp.Females don't respect a simp. They do, however, tend to respect me. I can't relate to what you're saying at all. To me, simp behavior has been a blessing and likely gotten me a lot more females than I would have if more guys had my self-confidence. Maybe its not the simps, but something else in your own relationships that would cause the scenarios you're describing. I've never had a female screw around on me with a simp since I stopped being one myself.
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kicked out of the team over some p*ssy
That dude is stupid. It is crazy how some athletes still do dumb shyt that has been done many times before. These nikkas gotta always learn the hard way even though they have the option of avoiding this type of fukkery.
Rocket Scientist
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Is it me or would I rather not have a female im dating have a FB,Twitter. Im not sayin all women are attention seekers. I dont know what it is but women with FB somehow or another they make it their world.
i can already see this is an ego thing for you. you're better than the simps and beyond that you're putting all simps in the same boat.
Females don't respect a simp. They do, however, tend to respect me. I can't relate to what you're saying at all. To me, simp behavior has been a blessing and likely gotten me a lot more females than I would have if more guys had my self-confidence. Maybe its not the simps, but something else in your own relationships that would cause the scenarios you're describing. I've never had a female screw around on me with a simp since I stopped being one myself.
a nikka with more paper than you can step to your chick and trick on her and fukk your bytch like its nothing. its some shyt you never see or know about because you ain't around her 24/7 and any time she's not with you you don't know what the hell she's doing.
these chicks are juggling all these men on their cell phones, facebook, and twitter. deception has reached new heights and its easy for a chick to fukk around on you and not get caught. unless you have access to all those things whenever you want to see them you can't really say or know if you've been cheated on or not. the men these women fukk with they exist in the facebook, in the twitter, on the cell but outside of that there's no trace in her day to day life.
you think a woman cheating on you always boils down to respect? sometimes it does but many times she cheats because of her and it has nothing to do with you. you could be the perfect man and do everything right and still get cheated on. the fact that the next man will simp and trick on your chick means she can have you as her main dude and a simp or a trick or several of them on the side to fill other roles and none of yall have to know about each other.
you wouldn't necessarily know about her twitter. nikkas online step to your girl on some random twitter account you don't know about cause she never told you she had it and dm her offering all types of simpery. you drop your chick off at home for the night and she's on twitter talking to the next guy and he's picking her up. he's from the next town over and she's at some fancy restaurant with him and he's blowing all types of dough on her and if he's a decent looking respectable dude she's probably sliding to the hotel to fukk him.
my grandmother and grandfather didn't have this shyt. a plethora of simps and tricks that can exist in a blind spot of online social networking sites and cell phones. these chicks are having inaudible conversations with people who's existence can't be traced. there's no more numbers on a piece of paper in the pocket while washing clothes. people don't have to put any real type of legwork into cheating these days a silent text can alert the next nikka she's almost ready to be picked up while she's in the car with you on the way home. a facebook poke or a twitter dm contains the phone number. there's no paper trail these other guys literally exist in blind spots you can't see in life.
watch the show on MTV called Catfish and tell me your girl couldn't set up a fake fb account with a fake name but her real picture and meet guys online who will gladly simp and trick on her and maybe even get a chance to hit that.
Females don't respect a simp. They do, however, tend to respect me. I can't relate to what you're saying at all. To me, simp behavior has been a blessing and likely gotten me a lot more females than I would have if more guys had my self-confidence. Maybe its not the simps, but something else in your own relationships that would cause the scenarios you're describing. I've never had a female screw around on me with a simp since I stopped being one myself.
Of course females do not respect simps. But, my question for you is that is there any justification for woman to cheat on a man who is not a simp but has treated her well? Because I personally know guys who were not simps but treated the women with whom they had serious relationships with decency and found out later that these women were cheating behind their backs and basically threw away their relationships for some truly no-good dudes who did not a fukk about them at all.
Females don't respect a simp. They do, however, tend to respect me. I can't relate to what you're saying at all. To me, simp behavior has been a blessing and likely gotten me a lot more females than I would have if more guys had my self-confidence. Maybe its not the simps, but something else in your own relationships that would cause the scenarios you're describing. I've never had a female screw around on me with a simp since I stopped being one myself.
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Lil' Kartwheel
The Chicken Box Man
I just starting my smoke session so bear with me if I get off track...
Over the years, so much has been said about the male ego. How "fragile" or "over-inflated" it is. How men are weak because of it. For the simps, old school men and youngins reading this post, that's a lie and the world shows you otherwise.
Unlike men, women will always try to put themselves in the best light whenever possible (consciously or unconsciously). A man can catch a L and no amount of ego or saving face will mitigate his situation. Thus, we as men are forced to mature in order to overcome our personal obstacles.
For example, being a cuckold will NEVER be acceptable. You'll never see men show pride about being fukked over due to his wife being fukked by some other cat. No parades, no movies with happy endings. We know this is a huge L and try to avoid it (as we should).
On the other hand, women will flip any and every loss into a victory. And every time, this to save their egos, pride and sense of self from shame.
You got Larry Holmes looking females trying to be "cougars".
You got teen moms who call themselves "mature" for having a "burden" at such a young age (because having kids and not being able to take care of them is a hallmark of irresponsibility).
You got plenty of females quoting Proverbs 31 when in reality, they're more akin to the woman in Ecclesiates 7:26.
It's one thing to be able to take an "L" and grow from it (like men do). The man you are now is better than the man you were 5 years because of it and I know the older heads in this thread agree with it. Now fellas...Do y'all know a woman that took a L and humbled herself voluntarily?
Single mother = strength, independence
Reckless woman = free spirit
Spinster = Wise, comfortable in her own skin
There's nothing wrong with catching a loss every now and then. It helps you grow. Unfortunately, the female ego refuses to accept losses (or even a tie or draw) and you end up with what we have today: Women who never grow up mentally or emotionally enough to see their own flaws and improve on them.
Over the years, so much has been said about the male ego. How "fragile" or "over-inflated" it is. How men are weak because of it. For the simps, old school men and youngins reading this post, that's a lie and the world shows you otherwise.
Unlike men, women will always try to put themselves in the best light whenever possible (consciously or unconsciously). A man can catch a L and no amount of ego or saving face will mitigate his situation. Thus, we as men are forced to mature in order to overcome our personal obstacles.
For example, being a cuckold will NEVER be acceptable. You'll never see men show pride about being fukked over due to his wife being fukked by some other cat. No parades, no movies with happy endings. We know this is a huge L and try to avoid it (as we should).
On the other hand, women will flip any and every loss into a victory. And every time, this to save their egos, pride and sense of self from shame.
You got Larry Holmes looking females trying to be "cougars".
You got teen moms who call themselves "mature" for having a "burden" at such a young age (because having kids and not being able to take care of them is a hallmark of irresponsibility).
You got plenty of females quoting Proverbs 31 when in reality, they're more akin to the woman in Ecclesiates 7:26.
It's one thing to be able to take an "L" and grow from it (like men do). The man you are now is better than the man you were 5 years because of it and I know the older heads in this thread agree with it. Now fellas...Do y'all know a woman that took a L and humbled herself voluntarily?
Single mother = strength, independence
Reckless woman = free spirit
Spinster = Wise, comfortable in her own skin
There's nothing wrong with catching a loss every now and then. It helps you grow. Unfortunately, the female ego refuses to accept losses (or even a tie or draw) and you end up with what we have today: Women who never grow up mentally or emotionally enough to see their own flaws and improve on them.
Men do the same thing everyday b.
Men cheat, women cheat.....sometimes for no explainable reason at all
Cant explain the unexplainable
Exactly. In my opinion, any woman that has a facebook or twitter account for seeking attention and validation for strangers cannot be taken seriously because a woman doing so indicates that she has a narcissistic personality,resulting in her getting caught up in own false hype and not having any regard for anyone else.
Son you are speaking so much truth right now. To use famous female examples, Superhead is still showing a lack of class in the media, on her twitter page, clowning guys for marrying her after throwing drunk tirades on twitter, and then not owning up to it or apologizing to her son.
As much as I stan for her music, Lauryn Noelle Hill is still sounding like some mad preacher women for not taking responsibility to her past actions. Even if it took place when you were 17 own up to it, and stop talking all this nonsense about someone being a "pawn".
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Alot of us are hesitant in here to use our own mothers as examples but I look at my own mother and things you just stated and what was said in this thread in the past prove to me so many things. That post someone put several pages back about how women mature earlier than us men, but have that maturity cap as early as 18 years old is so true.
My mother is 29 years older than me and I honestly feel sometimes like I talk to a little girl.
I have to say as I said before that female entitlement is a joke; Even when its a joke, I CRINGE whenever I hear female peers talk about how they are "spoiled" with a smile like they are being cute.
Lil' Kartwheel
The Chicken Box Man
I grew up in a single mother home. My mother is 52 and is still trying to use the same tactics that used to work in her 20s : Do whatever she wants, damn everybody else and scream your way out of any non-intimate situation) She's fallen off like a Panasonic AA battery (Literally going into a deep funk before turning 50 and ending up turning to "Jesus" and cats). It's pitiful to see the crash and burn up close. This is a woman who still gets hype over Hello Kitty. I love my mother but these are the results of using the current female playbook.
Son you are speaking so much truth right now. To use famous female examples, Superhead is still showing a lack of class in the media, on her twitter page, clowning guys for marrying her after throwing drunk tirades on twitter, and then not owning up to it or apologizing to her son.
As much as I stan for her music, Lauryn Noelle Hill is still sounding like some mad preacher women for not taking responsibility to her past actions. Even if it took place when you were 17 own up to it, and stop talking all this nonsense about someone being a "pawn".
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Alot of us are hesitant in here to use our own mothers as examples but I look at my own mother and things you just stated and what was said in this thread in the past prove to me so many things. That post someone put several pages back about how women mature earlier than us men, but have that maturity cap as early as 18 years old is so true.
My mother is 29 years older than me and I honestly feel sometimes like I talk to a little girl.
I have to say as I said before that female entitlement is a joke; Even when its a joke, I CRINGE whenever I hear female peers talk about how they are "spoiled" with a smile like they are being cute.
Delusion, confusion and possibly an old contusion.