Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m 21 and not tryna date dozens of women just to find one i vibe with. I’m pretty sure I’m aromantic asf :russ:I be all hyped for the date, then the enthusiasm dies down and my attitude is permanently :unimpressed:for the rest of the time being. Thought I could live like an average guy for a while but the shyt is a farce,I guess. Just fuxking girls is my sweet spot I guess, I can’t see myself benefiting from relationship life :unimpressed:
 

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I’m 21 and not tryna date dozens of women just to find one i vibe with. I’m pretty sure I’m aromantic asf :russ:I be all hyped for the date, then the enthusiasm dies down and my attitude is permanently :unimpressed:for the rest of the time being. Thought I could live like an average guy for a while but the shyt is a farce,I guess. Just fuxking girls is my sweet spot I guess, I can’t see myself benefiting from relationship life :unimpressed:

Your 21.. you supposed to feel like that....

shyt kinda changes as you get older
 
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Cot dayum I fell in the trap. Been dating my girl for over a year. I was good at first and still kept other options but it’s been a year and damn I’m attached to her brehs. She’s been so good to me, I caught feelings for real:wow:. But now I’m starting to overreact like what if she ends up playing me...I just realized my trust issues are very deep. How do I even deal with that? And I’m a fkkn hypocrite too because I got a bunch of girls I talk to just because of that fear. I just refuse to put my trust in a girl. She’s literally been nothing but good to me.(I’ve been treating her just as good so it ain’t that).
 

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my tinder flooded with big chicks in my likes (not matching with them) lmfao. I'm not even really on here for anything just wanted to peep the landscape.

Breh, without fail the first woman to like me on an online profile is always a fat white chick

The second like is always a mediocre looking, nerdy white girl

The finer women don't usually start matching with me until like day three or four, lol.
 

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How do I get over my approach anxiety? I've been single since December after 5 years. I haven't been in the field since and I'm not even sure what I'm doing anymore.
approach in places where people are actually doing things where you can comment/start convo around the thing being done.

Festivals, Gym, Fitness events, etc etc.

I think purely walking up to people in the streets in this day and age isn't worth it, and grocery store can be hit or miss because if they aren't attracted to you, you will come off as bothering them while the stuff I mentioned earlier brings people who are 'in to' the hobby together so it would just be won't person interested in something talking to someone else interested in the same thing, thus the convo is natural. Also join meet up groups if there are things that interest you. Main thing is being in proximity of people around a common interest. This generates the best convo.
 

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approach in places where people are actually doing things where you can comment/start convo around the thing being done.

Festivals, Gym, Fitness events, etc etc.

I think purely walking up to people in the streets in this day and age isn't worth it, and grocery store can be hit or miss because if they aren't attracted to you, you will come off as bothering them while the stuff I mentioned earlier brings people who are 'in to' the hobby together so it would just be won't person interested in something talking to someone else interested in the same thing, thus the convo is natural. Also join meet up groups if there are things that interest you. Main thing is being in proximity of people around a common interest. This generates the best convo.
Most of the meet ups now are virtual. Trying to be more face to face. But that is probably hard now.
 
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