Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This is the last time I'm going to argue this point before yall start thinking I work for the app companies. nikkaz. Are. fukking. Off. Apps. Just because some of your are not doesn't mean everybody is doomed to be unsuccessful on them.

I did double digits (all attractive) last year just off Hinge. That's right, off one app.

Getting better profile pics and upping your conversation game would do wonders for some of y'all, or you could just fall in to self-defeatism :hubie:

Yeah, I'm not the dating app advocate I eat a lot more from real life interactions, but yeah I just see it as another avenue.
Doesn't need to be one or the other.
 

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How do I get over my approach anxiety? I've been single since December after 5 years. I haven't been in the field since and I'm not even sure what I'm doing anymore.

Nothing has really changed...trust me. Be agendaless, be awesome, be gone. Talk about yourself, be witty, and focus on everything but vagina in front of her. Secondly, with covid running rampant, the best places are Starbucks/Parks, if you have a doggy, is as pie, if they have a dog, engage slowly, but always give attention to the animal.....lie as usual; "Oh yeah, my grandma who died had one of these"...from there move in. Don't see it as approach/game, see it as just socializing, because thats what it is essentially, you don't just teleport into p*ssy, have a real/fake conversation, and find pockets to be witty/charming in them. To play it safe, stick with the dogs/coffee shops angle, they're already gonna chat you up, the rest is doing it repeatedly.
 

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Nothing has really changed...trust me. Be agendaless, be awesome, be gone. Talk about yourself, be witty, and focus on everything but vagina in front of her. Secondly, with covid running rampant, the best places are Starbucks/Parks, if you have a doggy, is as pie, if they have a dog, engage slowly, but always give attention to the animal.....lie as usual; "Oh yeah, my grandma who died had one of these"...from there move in. Don't see it as approach/game, see it as just socializing, because thats what it is essentially, you don't just teleport into p*ssy, have a real/fake conversation, and find pockets to be witty/charming in them. To play it safe, stick with the dogs/coffee shops angle, they're already gonna chat you up, the rest is doing it repeatedly.
I actually prefer dogs more than people. So that isn't an issue
 

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This is the last time I'm going to argue this point before yall start thinking I work for the app companies. nikkaz. Are. fukking. Off. Apps. Just because some of your are not doesn't mean everybody is doomed to be unsuccessful on them.

I did double digits (all attractive) last year just off Hinge. That's right, off one app.

Getting better profile pics and upping your conversation game would do wonders for some of y'all, or you could just fall in to self-defeatism :hubie:
How do you converse with boring women?
 

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I know any time a woman asks me why I'm on here (the dating app) it's gonna ruin my momentum and kill the vibe. Wtf answer are these hoes looking for, I'm not gonna say a relationship
 

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I know any time a woman asks me why I'm on here (the dating app) it's gonna ruin my momentum and kill the vibe. Wtf answer are these hoes looking for, I'm not gonna say a relationship
If it fits, just saying you aren’t out much from a nightlife perspective so it’s a way to meet women.

Simple to the point, likely applies to them, doesn’t indicate you are looking for a relationship and not a lot of pushback they can give.
 

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This is the last time I'm going to argue this point before yall start thinking I work for the app companies. nikkaz. Are. fukking. Off. Apps. Just because some of your are not doesn't mean everybody is doomed to be unsuccessful on them.

I did double digits (all attractive) last year just off Hinge. That's right, off one app.

Getting better profile pics and upping your conversation game would do wonders for some of y'all, or you could just fall in to self-defeatism :hubie:
I used hinge for a month and it was like fishing with a grenade, with the shutdown even woman were shooting their shots. Like breh said have pictures of you doing cool stuff that will have them reach out first. Been with my girl I’ve meet on there since November.
 

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How do you converse with boring women?

TBH if a chick is boring to talk to through text or in person, it's probably not going to improve.

I bush them in the initial phase. All the effort you put into trying to keep the conversation alive could be spent on a woman who wants to actually mirror your interest.
 

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I'll keep it funky, I been smashing alot of 5's and 6's. These dimes are either flaky as hell or require too much time invested

Cliche as it is, just gotta keep self-improving. Specifically your cover page (physique, attire, status) and mouthpiece (charisma, dialogue, how interesting and masculine you come across).

If you running through 5s/6s with minimal effort but 7s/8s are flakey.. that just let's you know you're currently about a 7 to the females in your area. And most females want to date up.
 

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This plant job full of bytches. Have gotten some Snapchats. Need to get the remainder of my bytches. Then I’m make an exit to a better job. Get my shyt. Get to nuttin on these bytches :demonic:
 
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