Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Not really the thread to be posting it In but it's very active and always good advice In here

I've realised over the past year I need to add value to my life/skill set. What is the best way to do that? I need to increase my income
 

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Not really the thread to be posting it In but it's very active and always good advice In here

I've realised over the past year I need to add value to my life/skill set. What is the best way to do that? I need to increase my income
As a lazy but relentless breh. Any self taught career switch will take about 6months or plus. No shortcuts but the streets and that’s a trap!
 

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I’m going to upgrade my life and kick bytches to the curve.
 

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I simped on the weekend and also week after of Valentine’s Day. I have been heart broke since. Forcing myself to be a stone cold b*stard to these hoes.
I go ignant and
ijuhsbenuttinonthesebeeches :wow::mjgrin::hubie:
 

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Is tinder gold worth it?

Depends on your situation. Most valuable feature is you can change your location to swipe anywhere. So if you travel a lot on business trips for example (especially abroad) and you want to line things up in the places you're going days or weeks in advance... it can be worth it.

However, whether you're swiping right on everything like a crack addict or meticulously following some algorithm theory, if you ain't already matching with bad females (or any females) based on your profile.. gold ain't gonna change that. Nor make them talk more.
 

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Matched with an overweight chick (I swipe fast and her first couple pictures passed my quick eye test) and she initiated contact. Even though I'm a dikk to rude folks, I'm try my best to be nice and respectful to those who aren't, plus I hate when some chick ignores my initial message, so I don't like doing it to others. I also figured we'd just text for like a week and then she'd stop after she realized wasn't going anywhere, but...

...it's been a month now.

We haven't hung out and I actually haven't even offered, but she's hecka nice, no kids, has a good sense of humor and hasn't been pushy about meeting up. I would totally date her if she lost weight, so how can I go about encouraging her to get serious (she currently "works out" and "is on a diet" - meaning she's not serious) about doing so? I'm athletic myself and being in-shape is a top priority for me in a woman. Help me out, brehs *and brehettes.

Don't lie to us brother

You matched with an averaging lookin cow and entertained her because that's the best you could do.
We don't care about self-improving her in here brother, we trying to self-improve you :ufdup:
 

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Matched with an overweight chick (I swipe fast and her first couple pictures passed my quick eye test) and she initiated contact. Even though I'm a dikk to rude folks, I'm try my best to be nice and respectful to those who aren't, plus I hate when some chick ignores my initial message, so I don't like doing it to others. I also figured we'd just text for like a week and then she'd stop after she realized wasn't going anywhere, but...

...it's been a month now.

We haven't hung out and I actually haven't even offered, but she's hecka nice, no kids, has a good sense of humor and hasn't been pushy about meeting up. I would totally date her if she lost weight, so how can I go about encouraging her to get serious (she currently "works out" and "is on a diet" - meaning she's not serious) about doing so? I'm athletic myself and being in-shape is a top priority for me in a woman. Help me out, brehs *and brehettes.
If she’s gotta go through a major physical change for you to even date her than what’s the point? Seems unfair to her and ripe for a let down for you.
 

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Go hiking on a first date

Lmaooo My man. :myman: All our outings could involve physical exercise. Maybe she'll get the hint. :lolbron: This is great advice, on a serious note. I can't believe I didn't consider it.

Fat women lie about being on a diet all the time. Ur heading down a dead end path

She told me a couple times she finished working out and also what she has made for dinner (healthy meals.) She needs a personal trainer, though, because I can tell from how she says things, she's one of those folks who doesn't know she needs to be doing ten times what she's doing now in order to lose and keep the weight off.

Don't lie to us brother

You matched with an averaging lookin cow and entertained her because that's the best you could do.
We don't care about self-improving her in here brother, we trying to self-improve you :ufdup:

Lol Chill, breh :whoa:

But nah, for real, I'd like to get married, but I'm not necessarily geeked about the prospects out here. This chick seems reserved and down-to-earth so far, though. She's already told me she "works out" and eats heathily, so I'm forcing her to do something she's not already doing, just trying to figure out a way to kick it to the next gear.

Is she your only current prospect?

The only one at the moment who I believe could be taken seriously.
 
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...how will I meet her if I don't go on a date with her?
she's waiting on you to man up and ask her out.

Do both of yourselves a favor and cut it off. Shes not going to start working out just to please you my guy :mjlol: you're stringing her along because she's your only option and you've convinced your self that if she changes this one thing about her you'd date her(how you've come to this determination without ever meeting her in person is beyond me). You're teetering on "I think I can do better" and "this is all I've got". It's actually kind of pathetic tbh :francis: stop wasting her time.
 

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she's waiting on you to man up and ask her out.

Do both of yourselves a favor and cut it off. Shes not going to start working out just to please you my guy :mjlol: you're stringing her along because she's your only option and you've convinced your self that if she changes this one thing about her you'd date her(how you've come to this determination without ever meeting her in person is beyond me). You're teetering on "I think I can do better" and "this is all I've got". It's actually kind of pathetic tbh :francis: stop wasting her time.

She's already working out.

Have you been reading my posts at all or are you trolling for shyts?
 
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