Matched with an overweight chick (I swipe fast and her first couple pictures passed my quick eye test) and she initiated contact. Even though I'm a dikk to rude folks, I'm try my best to be nice and respectful to those who aren't, plus I hate when some chick ignores my initial message, so I don't like doing it to others. I also figured we'd just text for like a week and then she'd stop after she realized wasn't going anywhere, but...
...it's been a month now.
We haven't hung out and I actually haven't even offered, but she's hecka nice, no kids, has a good sense of humor and hasn't been pushy about meeting up. I would totally date her if she lost weight, so how can I go about encouraging her to get serious (she currently "works out" and "is on a diet" - meaning she's not serious) about doing so? I'm athletic myself and being in-shape is a top priority for me in a woman. Help me out, brehs *and brehettes.