Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Not really the thread to be posting it In but it's very active and always good advice In here

I've realised over the past year I need to add value to my life/skill set. What is the best way to do that? I need to increase my income
Take up gardening. Trying to get back into that. Are you interested in art?
 

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In fairness to @Actually6Foot3, what’s the beginning end game here? Wait until she gets to a certain size before going out with her?

Not even trolling with the question

My thought process is that In this dating/sexual climate, I think it would be foolish to pass up on a potential long-term partner who just needs to take her own health and exercise goals to the next level.
 

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My thought process is that In this dating/sexual climate, I think it would be foolish to pass up on a potential long-term partner who just needs to take her own health and exercise goals to the next level.
That’s fair and a great outlook IMO but you didn’t answer the question. The way you posed is that you would date her if she was in better shape. So back to the question. Are you waiting until she hits a certain level of fitness before actually seeing her?

Again not trolling but if you like her (which you seem to) then there has to be some action steps taken :manny:
 

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My thought process is that In this dating/sexual climate, I think it would be foolish to pass up on a potential long-term partner who just needs to take her own health and exercise goals to the next level.
if someone doesn't take their own health serious, how do you expect them to take a relationship serious? Obesity can be a sign of mental health often times too.
 

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That’s fair and a great outlook IMO but you didn’t answer the question. The way you posed is that you would date her if she was in better shape. So back to the question. Are you waiting until she hits a certain level of fitness before actually seeing her?

Again not trolling but if you like her (which you seem to) then there has to be some action steps taken :manny:

My bad, I was unclear. I have never had a relationship anyone even at risk of becoming overweight before, but I am willing to date her now if she's on board with getting in shape. I think @Lumumba's suggestion of physical activity is a good one, 'cause maybe it'll indirectly motivate her to go HAM.

if someone doesn't take their own health serious, how do you expect them to take a relationship serious? Obesity can be a sign of mental health often times too.

Very true, which is why I've never considered dating an overweight woman. Like I said earlier, though, she's already started on her own, but a lot of people don't realize that to really have the lifestyle change they want, they need a personal trainer to help. If she's receptive to that, I would take it as a good sign, so I'm trying to figure out how to broach the subject lightly.
 

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Broke up with shorty a few nights ago. She threw a brick in my shyt while I was sleep :why::snoop:

Ran out the house.. seen her punk ass running to her whip :why:

No more relationships for me for a while. The anger I feel to just punch on this bytch :whoo:
Now there's more to this story than what you posted. Why did you break up? Care to share?
 

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If she doesn't want to speak to you why would you do this? You don't want to be one of those guys that people talk about being a creep or get a restraining order on you.
He has to be trolling:dead::dead::dead:

He can't be serious:heh:
me doing that is really that bad? I’m desperate for a cute that likes me too not just lust. I’m not saying she liked me but we vibed real well and liked a lot of the same shyt. I feel embarrassed for doing that shyt. Y’all have been merciful. I really feel low. I don’t even call my girlfriend baby anymore nor text her like that. I’m kinda over her.
 

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me doing that is really that bad? I’m desperate for a cute that likes me too not just lust. I’m not saying she liked me but we vibed real well and liked a lot of the same shyt. I feel embarrassed for doing that shyt. Y’all have been merciful. I really feel low. I don’t even call my girlfriend baby anymore nor text her like that. I’m kinda over her.
Bro i know people who have been accused of sexual harassment. It usually looks like this. We're not trying to brow beat you. We're trying to look out. If a woman calls the cops on you it's a very bad time. Be careful out here black man.
 
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