That’s fair and a great outlook IMO but you didn’t answer the question. The way you posed is that you would date her if she was in better shape. So back to the question. Are you waiting until she hits a certain level of fitness before actually seeing her?
Again not trolling but if you like her (which you seem to) then there has to be some action steps taken
My bad, I was unclear. I have never had a relationship anyone even at risk of becoming overweight before, but I am willing to date her now if she's on board with getting in shape. I think
@Lumumba's suggestion of physical activity is a good one, 'cause maybe it'll indirectly motivate her to go HAM.
if someone doesn't take their own health serious, how do you expect them to take a relationship serious? Obesity can be a sign of mental health often times too.
Very true, which is why I've never considered dating an overweight woman. Like I said earlier, though, she's already started on her own, but a lot of people don't realize that to really have the lifestyle change they want, they need a personal trainer to help. If she's receptive to that, I would take it as a good sign, so I'm trying to figure out how to broach the subject lightly.