Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Krisrunner2049]

Walk us through lol

It was pretty average for a first date. I only fuxked up on not tryna touch and kiss cuz I never felt like it was the right timing. And I learned from someone here can’t remember who so I can’t give credit but basically they said to get women to talk about themselves so that’s what I did and that worked, I wasn’t feeling the “fukk me” vibes and as a breh that unknowingly missed out on tons of p*ssy I recognize the signs that a woman wants the D, I guess I accurately sized her up, just a bookworm lil Asian girl.I’m curious to keep trying

 

[dizzy4111]

Do you care about her more than yourself? Clearly she doesn’t

I'm starting to feel like I do. I guess I wouldn't put up with what I do if I didn't. Ehhh shyt probably not the thread to get into this. I'm ashamed to talk about the low points of our relationship

 

[Ahadi]

It was pretty average for a first date. I only fuxked up on not tryna touch and kiss cuz I never felt like it was the right timing. And I learned from someone here can’t remember who so I can’t give credit but basically they said to get women to talk about themselves so that’s what I did and that worked, I wasn’t feeling the “fukk me” vibes and as a breh that unknowingly missed out on tons of p*ssy I recognize the signs that a woman wants the D, I guess I accurately sized her up, just a bookworm lil Asian girl.I’m curious to keep trying

You good.

She gotta feel comfortable at the end of the day and she probably appreciated the fact that you didn’t go hard. Next time you link she’ll be ready for you.

 

[VertigoKnight]

It was pretty average for a first date. I only fuxked up on not tryna touch and kiss cuz I never felt like it was the right timing. And I learned from someone here can’t remember who so I can’t give credit but basically they said to get women to talk about themselves so that’s what I did and that worked, I wasn’t feeling the “fukk me” vibes and as a breh that unknowingly missed out on tons of p*ssy I recognize the signs that a woman wants the D, I guess I accurately sized her up, just a bookworm lil Asian girl.I’m curious to keep trying

If she's up for a second date then most def do it near your place.

I used to find asian women very hard to read. Especially the bookworm types,(and they're usually the freakiest) they will never ever make it clear at first. Ones who I initially thought weren't feeling it were just waiting for me to make a move. Thats why I try and get us both feeling comfortable with light touching. one move I do is get her to measure her hand against mine, perfect way to get her used to you both touching.

 

[Turbulent]

Date wasn’t awful but it sure showed that it was my first time doing some shyt like that. Asian girl lucky she was cute or I woulda dipped. Should I hit her up for a second date? It was a bit awkward in the first half ngl brehs

you live and learn breh.

Wait like 5 days without contacting her at all. If she hits you up within those 5 days, invite her out again. If she doesn't reach out by day 5, hit her up and ask her out again. All this is assuming you are still interested.

 

[The ADD]

you live and learn breh.

Wait like 5 days without contacting her at all. If she hits you up within those 5 days, invite her out again. If she doesn't reach out by day 5, hit her up and ask her out again. All this is assuming you are still interested.

5 days?!

 

[Turbulent]

5 days?!

If she is interested, she will reach out before then.

 

[Apollo Creed]

If she is interested, she will reach out before then.

I wouldnt reach out after that though lol

 

[The ADD]

If she is interested, she will reach out before then.

What if she’s saying the same thing on the other side..................

I get the play to not appear too eager but five days seems wild.

 

[Apollo Creed]

What if she’s saying the same thing on the other side..................

thats the issue with these dumb ass games and modern dating. Everyone trying to one up each other.

At most dude should put a feeler out there after a day or 2 (like sharing something funny he saw or a news article) and pivot that to another meet up, if her response is dry/non existent then abort mission. If she comes back after all of that clearly she is juggling other things so i would be passive and let her do the persuing if she is serious. Dont waste energy on people who arent serious

 

[The ADD]

thats the issue with these dumb ass games and modern dating. Everyone trying to one up each other.

At most dude should put a feeler out there after a day or 2 (like sharing something funny he saw or a news article) and pivot that to another meet up, if her response is dry/non existent then abort mission. If she comes back after all of that clearly she is juggling other things so i would be passive and let her do the persuing if she is serious. Dont waste energy on people who arent serious

Ok so it’s not just me because five days makes no sense.......It’s enough time for her to:

Assume he’s not interested because like most women they imagine a guy would follow up in some form even if it’s just a text.

Think he’s playing games by waiting

Meet or make plans with someone else so delaying dudes progress.

Seems like a it’s just a recipe to not advance anything which I guess is fine if you don’t care but then why go through the trouble in the first place.....

 

[Apollo Creed]

Ok so it’s not just me because five days makes no sense.......It’s enough time for her to:

Assume he’s not interested because like most women they imagine a guy would follow up in some form even if it’s just a text.

Think he’s playing games by waiting

Meet or make plans with someone else so delaying dudes progress.

Seems like a it’s just a recipe to not advance anything which I guess is fine if you don’t care but then why go through the trouble in the first place.....

exactly.

usually the next day there should be natural communication.

if she aint reaching out, then if this is someone you feel has potential then put a feeler out there. If she doesnt reply or is dry then dead it.

nobody is that busy to go days without communication for something that is deemed a priority. Nothing wrong with being low priority in someone else's life, you just need to know where you stand and act appropriately.

 

[Turbulent]

What if she’s saying the same thing on the other side..................

I get the play to not appear too eager but five days seems wild.

it doesn't matter if she's thinking the same. If she is, you still reach out on day 5 and set up the next meet.

I see your point but one question I would ask you is, why do you see not reaching out to her for 5 days as wild but you don't see her not reaching out to you for 5 days after you took her out and gave her a great evening as wild?

 

[Apollo Creed]

it doesn't matter if she's thinking the same. If she is, you still reach out on day 5 and set up the next meet.

I see your point but one question I would ask you is, why do you see not reaching out to her for 5 days as wild but you don't see her not reaching out to you for 5 days after you took her out and gave her a great evening as wild?

why would you reach out after a week? Lol if she doesnt bother to reach out then there is nothing to see here anymore.

 

[Turbulent]

why would you reach out after a week? Lol if she doesnt bother to reach out then there is nothing to see here anymore.

To be honest, since i started doing this, i never got to the point where I have to reach out. Typically they will within the first 3 days. The reason i would reach out after about a week and try to set up a meet is so that if they reject (which i would expect at that point) like say you ask them out and they say they are busy, work, blablabla, then i can tell her cool, hit me up when you are free and forget about her. If she comes back weeks or months later, no date, straight lay up.