Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yo so I may or may not have a date set up for tomorrow. No doubt it’s scheduled I just might not show up. I never been on a date brehs :lupe:I fukk I don’t do the Joe Schmoe chivalry type shii. From what bih suggested it’s gonna be some light work, just roaming about the city but idk how to even behave on a date. I went on half a date when I was 19 and this gold digging European girl tried to have me buy drinks all night for her at this bar she made me take her to in Bev Hills, I let her order a drink and then bounced:deadrose:. What to do?
 

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Yo so I may or may not have a date set up for tomorrow. No doubt it’s scheduled I just might not show up. I never been on a date brehs :lupe:I fukk I don’t do the Joe Schmoe chivalry type shii. From what bih suggested it’s gonna be some light work, just roaming about the city but idk how to even behave on a date. I went on half a date when I was 19 and this gold digging European girl tried to have me buy drinks all night for her at this bar she made me take her to in Bev Hills, I let her order a drink and then bounced:deadrose:. What to do?

Just go for coffee, the cheapest you can find...if you drink it, if not, don't pay for anything, make sure you eat before going out, there's no excuses for spending needlessly on a stranger or even yourself. Find a park, walk around, talk, and move into flirting immediately. Behave normally, be present, be awesome , don't ruin any of it by overthinking. But also be kind of a dikk, and self amuse, she's there to jump through your hopes, not you, hers.
 

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those of yall with female friends, how do yall keep them from falling for you but still continue to hang out?


At best fukk buddies, besides that, I don't keep women friends....what do they have to teach me? What can I learn from a broad who has no foresight? There's a reason women don't play Chess.
 

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lol yea she’s said it many times that we’re friends. And I’ve told her numerous dates I’ve been on and the girls I’ve stopped talking to when they start complaining about us doing the same thing every weekend. Basically everything u shouldn’t say to a girl u really want I told her.

her issue is the last time we went out. After we got up to leave the restaurant, we passed the bar area. She was walking in front and saw all the women gaze in my direction. I didn’t think much of it cause being brolic I’ve gotten used to the stares. But on this night, after we got outside of the restaurant there was a spring in her step. Like she’s proud or something. She turns back to me and goes hun all the women back there were staring at u. I’m telling you that shirt really highlights ur muscles.

meh she’ll get over it. Told her numerous times I’m really a chill guy in every sense of the word. I just like to chill. There’s plenty of guys out there who can’t stay the fucck home. That’s what u deserve. It is what it is.

With Women it is less about what you say and more about what you do.
In her mind, you may still be going out on dates with other women, but she is the one who you always come back to.

In my younger days, I have been in a few situations where I have made it clear I didn't want it to be anything more than fwb.
However I was doing what you are doing with these women (Going out etc), which gives them hope it could be more. So now when possible I try to eradicate going out asap with girls I am not serious about.

My advice if you really don't want her to get attached is very simple, stop going out with her :manny:
 

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Just go for coffee, the cheapest you can find...if you drink it, if not, don't pay for anything, make sure you eat before going out, there's no excuses for spending needlessly on a stranger or even yourself. Find a park, walk around, talk, and move into flirting immediately. Behave normally, be present, be awesome , don't ruin any of it by overthinking. But also be kind of a dikk, and self amuse, she's there to jump through your hopes, not you, hers.
Already two steps ahead. Already told her to meet me a block away from the spot I’m gonna have pizza at beforehand:wow:and finessed it into her taking me on a tour of the city. Taking notes on everything else:salute:
 

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With Women it is less about what you say and more about what you do.
In her mind, you may still be going out on dates with other women, but she is the one who you always come back to.

In my younger days, I have been in a few situations where I have made it clear I didn't want it to be anything more than fwb.
However I was doing what you are doing with these women (Going out etc), which gives them hope it could be more. So now when possible I try to eradicate going out asap with girls I am not serious about.

My advice if you really don't want her to get attached is very simple, stop going out with her :manny:

how old are you? My observations is the pure FWB stuff mainly works for Women Under 25 and women over 36. Those in-between often (not always) seem to be in extreme survival mode trying to get married/lock a dude down
 

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how old are you? My observations is the pure FWB stuff mainly works for Women Under 25 and women over 36. Those in-between often (not always) seem to be in extreme survival mode trying to get married/lock a dude down

30. I usually date in the 24-30 range..

It's true a lot of women in that range do try to lock you down, so I'm aware that these situationships usually have a expiration date and I'm cool with that :yeshrug:
 

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So what everyone's plan now that the weather is getting warmer? Over here lockdown will finally be getting relaxed mid april after being in lockdown since mid December I already have my hinge account but have not been using it no point using it while being in hard lockdown with nothing to do. My plan is to have my account ready about a week before lockdown is relaxed so I can start building. If things go to the plan with the vaccine and lockdown restrictions this spring and summer should be next level. We have already had a couple warm days so far this year and damn near the whole city has been out
 

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So what everyone's plan now that the weather is getting warmer? Over here lockdown will finally be getting relaxed mid april after being in lockdown since mid December I already have my hinge account but have not been using it no point using it while being in hard lockdown with nothing to do. My plan is to have my account ready about a week before lockdown is relaxed so I can start building. If things go to the plan with the vaccine and lockdown restrictions this spring and summer should be next level. We have already had a couple warm days so far this year and damn near the whole city has been out

Create a new account. Start fresh and get a noob boost. Keep a small rotation (Still have to move with caution) stick to outdoor dates (rooftop / park with a bottle of wine date / the crib)

I don’t trust events yet. But we’ll what happens.
 

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So what everyone's plan now that the weather is getting warmer? Over here lockdown will finally be getting relaxed mid april after being in lockdown since mid December I already have my hinge account but have not been using it no point using it while being in hard lockdown with nothing to do. My plan is to have my account ready about a week before lockdown is relaxed so I can start building. If things go to the plan with the vaccine and lockdown restrictions this spring and summer should be next level. We have already had a couple warm days so far this year and damn near the whole city has been out

continue to grind, and get back traveling. I think 2022 will be next level everywhere, I think Late Summer/Fall will be the beginning of the new normal, but alot of women are coming out of this fat as hell lol (so I guess brehs can eat with low hanging fruit)
 

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Might not go on this date. Only reason I was down cuz it’s a little pretty Asian girl and if I hit her with the “I’m just tryna smash” I’m pretty sure she woulda unmatched like the rest of them tinder girls:russ:just wanted to see how them relationship brehs live, wanted to live the SIMPle life for a while
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