Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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it doesn't matter if she's thinking the same. If she is, you still reach out on day 5 and set up the next meet.

I see your point but one question I would ask you is, why do you see not reaching out to her for 5 days as wild but you don't see her not reaching out to you for 5 days after you took her out and gave her a great evening as wild?

5 days is too long. Strike while the iron is hot, worst case scenario is that he gets turned down day or two earlier.
 

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exactly. I think the mistake dudes make is putting too much energy into one chick. Dudes need to take heed to that 'she aint you're it's just your turn' and practice the same philosophy themselves. Main thing that hurts brehs is we tend to be laser focus on goals, and cant do things in parallel, so we put all our energy (on average) on the chick who is our goal at the time. This is why you need things to keep you occupied and productive, whether it be side projects, a roster of other women, hobbies, etc. Pretty much where you minimize your idle time where you got other stuff to worry about than if 1 chick texts you back or not.

It's a dirty game out here, and unless you are someone's fiancé (and hell even then) always assume there are other people in the picture, so don't get your soul taken. The days of disney are over (hell they never existed).

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its like a job until the offer letter is sent keep searching. All of us have had great job interviews where you thought it went well but you never heard from them, sometimes you'll send a email but you know how it goes.

The same with chicks, just because its a good convo and she laughs/giggles, y'all meet up etc. don't mean anything.

Even avg ugly chicks are talking to a bunch of different men. Sitting around and waiting for a chick will just ruin yor day, whenever your phone buzzes you hoping its her etc. nah.
 

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Anybody had a chick that sends pics of the food she cooked for dinner? I mean I compliment her and tell her it looks good. But I don't really care..why do women do this. And yes, I've said before I wanted some but she's not biting. People, including family members have asked her for food but she's real cautious since covid.
 

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Anybody had a chick that sends pics of the food she cooked for dinner? I mean I compliment her and tell her it looks good. But I don't really care..why do women do this. And yes, I've said before I wanted some but she's not biting. People, including family members have asked her for food but she's real cautious since covid.
If the food ain't gonna be for you, stop responding to the food pic texts. Just act like they never happened and if there was a convo before then go back to that
 

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This dude I know is a real life Onlyfans pimp

He has a stable of young white bytches with 50k+ followers on IG with Onlyfans. I know he’s making at least 10k a month off of it. Every girl has her own high rise.


Only know the dude by proxy but goddamn idk how the hell he pulled the shyt off and how they’re cool with him taking all the money.
 

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This dude I know is a real life Onlyfans pimp

He has a stable of young white bytches with 50k+ followers on IG with Onlyfans. I know he’s making at least 10k a month off of it. Every girl has her own high rise.


Only know the dude by proxy but goddamn idk how the hell he pulled the shyt off and how they’re cool with him taking all the money.

The targets for a pimp are girls who come from broken homes, and ultimately dumb. The smart girls become madams, but now with onlyfans, even the girls with degrees are supplying simpbait because they don't have to do much. There's hoes out there in bikinis just shaking t*ts or ass.....for money. From girls pretending to be cats, to cosplay bending and ass shaking. Its much easier now since they don't have to meet any mark who jerks off to them. Basically the standard is what its always been, except when push comes to shove, recording a video for money is easy for everyone. Regardless or person, women are horrible with money, many are either broke or go broke buying multiple purses or some dumb beauty product they don't need. So a pimp is both a manager and an accountant.
 

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The targets for a pimp are girls who come from broken homes, and ultimately dumb. The smart girls become madams, but now with onlyfans, even the girls with degrees are supplying simpbait because they don't have to do much. There's hoes out there in bikinis just shaking t*ts or ass.....for money. From girls pretending to be cats, to cosplay bending and ass shaking. Its much easier now since they don't have to meet any mark who jerks off to them. Basically the standard is what its always been, except when push comes to shove, recording a video for money is easy for everyone. Regardless or person, women are horrible with money, many are either broke or go broke buying multiple purses or some dumb beauty product they don't need. So a pimp is both a manager and an accountant.
Yeah they look like they’re in college or college age 18-21. All alt type girls those simps on twitch love.

It’s an amazing hustle tho, he has them promote each other when he brings a new girl in, has the shyt connected to some meme pages he bought to funnel in new followers, dude is living lavish
 

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Anybody had a chick that sends pics of the food she cooked for dinner? I mean I compliment her and tell her it looks good. But I don't really care..why do women do this. And yes, I've said before I wanted some but she's not biting. People, including family members have asked her for food but she's real cautious since covid.

I had one who would send me pics of Korean food she was making. I asked her when is she bringing me some.

two days before my birthday last month she invited me out for a drink and brought me two big containers of kimchi radish and some fresh spicy kimchi fried rice she'd made that day.

I was touched for real. It was delicious. I couldn't see her that weekend but the following one she brought more kimchi and her ass round to my place to hang out.

:mjlit:
 

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Deleted hinge the other day. All those chics I was mid convo with :yeshrug: chics whose numbers I got and I'm not hitting up :yeshrug:

Ghosted a chic I was suppose to see Sunday. :yeshrug: (No official plans were made, she hit me on Saturday and I was so done with this shyt I just deleted the thread and never responded. In retrospect I should be just told her scrap it, Type fukked up but I was ignoring red flags the entire convo cause I wanted to smash. Was digesting a lot of self help material including that book Declare War On Yourself that week and bushed all the BS. Too late to go back and say shyt now) plus side money and headache saved. :manny:

Deleted IG app. Only downloading on Sundays for a few hours. shyt is a time suck but igot family on their so I use it to check in.

I'm taking a real break.
 

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Deleted hinge the other day. All those chics I was mid convo with :yeshrug: chics whose numbers I got and I'm not hitting up :yeshrug:

Ghosted a chic I was suppose to see Sunday. :yeshrug: (No official plans were made, she hit me on Saturday and I was so done with this shyt I just deleted the thread and never responded. In retrospect I should be just told her scrap it, Type fukked up but I was ignoring red flags the entire convo cause I wanted to smash. Was digesting a lot of self help material including that book Declare War On Yourself that week and bushed all the BS. Too late to go back and say shyt now) plus side money and headache saved. :manny:

Deleted IG app. Only downloading on Sundays for a few hours. shyt is a time suck but igot family on their so I use it to check in.

I'm taking a real break.

Best thing to do breh.

If you're in the crib, leave your phone in another room too outside of before going to bed, or if you set time to call a family member. Sometimes you catch yourself in thirst mode and feel disgusted and have to abort all missions because you are setting yourself up for something bad/not worth it.
 
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