Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Besides a girl having a life, a good personality, intelligence and looks... get a girl that has hobbies. And no, watching television, shopping, seeing friends and hanging out does not count. Some girls are underdeveloped in terms of traits such as being funny and other girls lack hobbies, passions and things they can plug their time into without being totally dependent on your hobbies/life.

If you are playing music and your girl has hobbies like painting, she can do her thing while you do yours. But if she has no hobbies, if you try writing or making music or whatever else, she might get angry both passive-aggressively and just aggressively at you for being "left out."

The choice is yours.
 

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My cousin moved this chick and her kid into his crib, only to find out she has been cheating on him :snoop: Even had niccas in his crib while he was working :damn: Smh She is still staying there until her income tax comes in FEB and she can move out. He said he became attached to her son and couldnt kick the kid out on the street like that... Talk about a weird situation smh....

Sad thing is we can't really judge, that's the thing with kids it's easy to get attached.

I've mentioned my godson on here and I love that squirt even though his momma causes me headaches and stress and it would be easy to just cut them out of my life.

And this is why you shouldn't date women with kids
 

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:snoop: I know... But he was real :ehh: about it though... Almost like he feels like he dodged a bullet :whew:

He has no kids...

Sadly he's ball less like many dudes, this is why I would never live with a chick I'm not married to. And why I would ne'er ever date someone with a kid.

She doesn't have a place to stay? Let the nikka she was smashing give her room and board
 

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Never let a chick shame you by using your kid after you stood your ground in front of an ultimatum. A chick you have a kid with could be like "Do ABC or we're done!". You reply "Listen, I love you but if that's the way you feel then do what you feel is best. I'm not even talking about ABC as long as you have this stance."

she replies: "So you'd let me leave and sacrifice your son's well-being over ABC??? you should be ashamed of yourself!!!!"

see how she flipped the script on you? this is mental 3-card molly. She now has you convinced that you're letting her go because of ABC when in fact it's your self-respect that's the real issue now. ABC is on hold for now until you solve this. Don't let her confuse your stance. Don't let other people giving advice who don't understand the distinction confuse your stance either.

This is not about pride or ego. it's about principle. and yes, sometimes your own flesh and blood's well-being will suffer (short term) over principle. In the longterm though it's for the best (even for him).

and yes, this is inspired by that other thread.
 

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Sadly he's ball less like many dudes, this is why I would never live with a chick I'm not married to. And why I would ne'er ever date someone with a kid.

She doesn't have a place to stay? Let the nikka she was smashing give her room and board

Its crazy, he "dumped" her but she has to stay an extra month until she can get a place.... I cant imagine looking at someone every day who betrayed and disrespected me like that :yeshrug:
 

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Its crazy, he "dumped" her but she has to stay an extra month until she can get a place.... I cant imagine looking at someone every day who betrayed and disrespected me like that :yeshrug:

My ex gf lives up the road from me, and goes to my church

And she cheated on me.


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1) Get her passwords. The 21st century ensures that your woman has a lengthy and detailed digital history of her thoughts, feelings and behaviours. What cannot be found in the annals of a woman’s emails, facebook messages, instant messages, online dating profiles, and text messages, is known only to God. The internet is full of discrete programs that you can use to collect her password (most people only have one) once she uses your computer. Put on some tea and spend some time delving through her past. Communications with the men in her life are obviously a priority, but don’t overlook her chit-chats with girlfriends. Do this as soon as possible in your relationship, so you will have as much time as possible to test her congruence. This exercise will teach you much about the particular girl, and even more about the general nature of how women talk and think when men aren’t in the room.

Now that you know a great deal about her, give her every opportunity possible to discredit herself. Make it easy for her to lie about anything that paints her in a negative light. On the surface, naively accept whatever answers she gives you.


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1) Get her passwords. The 21st century ensures that your woman has a lengthy and detailed digital history of her thoughts, feelings and behaviours. What cannot be found in the annals of a woman’s emails, facebook messages, instant messages, online dating profiles, and text messages, is known only to God. The internet is full of discrete programs that you can use to collect her password (most people only have one) once she uses your computer. Put on some tea and spend some time delving through her past. Communications with the men in her life are obviously a priority, but don’t overlook her chit-chats with girlfriends. Do this as soon as possible in your relationship, so you will have as much time as possible to test her congruence. This exercise will teach you much about the particular girl, and even more about the general nature of how women talk and think when men aren’t in the room.

Now that you know a great deal about her, give her every opportunity possible to discredit herself. Make it easy for her to lie about anything that paints her in a negative light. On the surface, naively accept whatever answers she gives you.


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That's why I go through a chicks phone. You can learn more about a woman reading her text messages than you can from actually knowing her. People wear different mask in front of different people and that cell phone is a collection of all of them. The average person doesn't do any housekeeping on their cell phone. It's a gold mine of info. I've never looked through a chicks phone and not discovered a lie they told me.
 

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My cousin moved this chick and her kid into his crib, only to find out she has been cheating on him :snoop: Even had niccas in his crib while he was working :damn: Smh She is still staying there until her income tax comes in FEB and she can move out. He said he became attached to her son and couldnt kick the kid out on the street like that... Talk about a weird situation smh....

Damn that's a crazy situation. Shouldn't have had her in there in the first place. I'm sure she has a place to go if he booted her right this second anyway. The whole February income tax thing is just a ploy to allow her some time to get back in his good graces. I'm sure she knows how much he cares for her child... pure evil. Make sure you tell him not to smash that anymore, he'll be in more of a world of hurt than he is now. I bet she's throwing the p*ssy at him every chance she gets.
 

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That's why I go through a chicks phone. You can learn more about a woman reading her text messages than you can from actually knowing her. People wear different mask in front of different people and that cell phone is a collection of all of them. The average person doesn't do any housekeeping on their cell phone. It's a gold mine of info. I've never looked through a chicks phone and not discovered a lie they told me.

And the church says amen
This is the truth every time I've gone through a girls phone you fjnd out everything.

To your face "I love you"

Opens up her phone "I love you ex, you know your the only one I want"

I'm a man who is in the keylogger games and acquiring passwords if necessary, if there is nothing great, my portfolio is good :smile:


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Damn that's a crazy situation. Shouldn't have had her in there in the first place. I'm sure she has a place to go if he booted her right this second anyway. The whole February income tax thing is just a ploy to allow her some time to get back in his good graces. I'm sure she knows how much he cares for her child... pure evil. Make sure you tell him not to smash that anymore, he'll be in more of a world of hurt than he is now. I bet she's throwing the p*ssy at him every chance she gets.

I wouldn't be shocked if te guy she cheated with she hollered at him if she could stay and he's like hell no on some you were just a nut to me chick.

This is what happens when women screw over decent admirable guys, she's a damn single mom and was lucky to even meet a dude who cares about her b*stard son and she ruined it.!


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