Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Illuminatos]

This can't be real. A female can't be this dumb to post something like this on Facebook.

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[MikelArteta]

Or in the words of reincar

"Women can't tell the difference between guys who just want to smash and dash and guys who actually would care about them"


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[CrossBones]

her new friends being her shoes. what a broken, pathetic, dispicable woman. I feel more sorry for the kid than her ex right now who managed to ditch her ass.

 

[DaRealness]

the problem is once you start thinking like this it will destroy your capacity to trust women.

Not necessarily, it just means you're being a realist and preparing yourself for come what may. Burying your head in the sand doesn't make it any less of a possibility.

My main point is that you should never fully emotionally and mentally invest in any person and give them your all, no matter who they are. In an ideal world I would love to meet that perfect woman that is 100% guaranteed to be loyal all the time, but that's just wishful thinking because nothing can guarantee that. People change and not always for the better.

I'm not saying be paranoid, I'm saying learn to compartmentalise to a certain extent to avoid any possible betrayal destroying you. You have to for your own mental and emotional survival.

 

[kevm3]

Why don't they have these garbage gifs and jpgs about what women need to do. It's always something a dude needs to be doing. Joint is corny.

 

[kevm3]

And then when some financial problem comes, she's going to be begging someone else for money or trying to wring more of it out of the father. This is what a simped out society does... never chastises these out of pocket women, but rather enables and encourages their behavior.

 

[kevm3]

I wouldn't be shocked if te guy she cheated with she hollered at him if she could stay and he's like hell no on some you were just a nut to me chick.

This is what happens when women screw over decent admirable guys, she's a damn single mom and was lucky to even meet a dude who cares about her b*stard son and she ruined it.!


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that's what we be trying to tell fellas here.

these broads be coming with this pity story about how they can't find decent guys and how it's so hard being a single mother... they get a decent guy, and then they go right back to screwing these 'bad boys'.

 

[DaRealness]

This will be a multi-part post. I'll write the other part later

Rule Number 1: Never operate based on what pleases a female. Operate based on your principles and your own TASTES.
We've said this a few times in this thread, but here are some aspects that are often overlooked. If you ever find yourself asking questions like, "What colognes do the ladies like? What clothes do the ladies like?", you're doing it wrong. In these scenarios you are building your self-esteem and worth based on some imagined concept of what 'women like', and thus, you aren't leading, but rather allowing yourself to be led.

First and foremost, it's impossible to recommend 'what women like' because all kinds of women like different things. That's like a woman asking a question, "What food do men like?" You can't really answer that because tastes are so varied. Second, the only way to truly be confident is to base your confidence on something that is consistent and KNOWABLE... what is knowable is what YOU like. If you base how you dress, what you smell like, etc., on some ambiguous concept as, "What women like," you will always be shifting around and never confident because you're allowing yourself to be defined by some external force. Now what you CAN do is get a recommendation from a woman, and see if you like it, and if you dig it, you get it, and if you don't, you don't. The key is to be solid in your own choices and tastes and then express them. That way you are actually catching a woman that is interested in YOU and not some 'ladies man' illusion you are trying to project. Like what you like and stop shifting around trying to follow trends on 'what the ladies think is hot.' Much more important is you being able to look in the mirror and smiling to yourself on the inside while thinking, "Man, I'm looking sharp today." That REAL confidence will actually project and the side benefit is women will pick up on it.

This is the one crucial thing that 99% of these self help books and articles never highlight to men: "Women love a man who dresses this way.....talks this way...uses this chat up line...says this...does that...eats this....hangs out there.......ad infinitum....."

It's not about what SHE wants, it's about what YOU want.

As somebody who casually studies metaphysics and Laws of Attraction, the one very basic thing you learn is that when you're a certain type of individual, you'll attract who you're supposed to attract and repel who you're supposed to repel....kind of like a Aura magnet.

If you're happy in yourself and like you for YOU, then that's what it is and any woman who can't appreciate that isn't meant for you anyway. All self improvement should be for YOU and you alone and if that right person likes that, then it's a win win situation.

I've learned many life lessons recently, many of them extremely painful, but one of those lessons is that you just have to be true to yourself no matter what pain comes along as a result. The greater the struggle, the greater the reward. I see so many frontin' ass people around me these days it's not even funny.

 

[DaRealness]

My cousin moved this chick and her kid into his crib, only to find out she has been cheating on him Even had niccas in his crib while he was working Smh She is still staying there until her income tax comes in FEB and she can move out. He said he became attached to her son and couldnt kick the kid out on the street like that... Talk about a weird situation smh....

Sorry, but if that was me, then that kid would just have to be shyt out of luck. Life's a bytch. Maybe she can then explain to her child why they are temporarily on the street living like Mr Wendell....better yet she can move in with one of the dudes she was cheating on your cuz with.

Letting the next dude slide up in her while in another man's home is the pinnacle of disrespect. That bytch should go to hell and be enslaved by Satan for all eternity for that.

 

[MikelArteta]

that's what we be trying to tell fellas here.

these broads be coming with this pity story about how they can't find decent guys and how it's so hard being a single mother... they get a decent guy, and then they go right back to screwing these 'bad boys'.

The nice decent guy is friendzoned or just a safety.

 

[wtfyomom]

this t shirt is why society is fuccked, can you imagine the reverse of this t shirt? the man would be called a chouvinist pig. foh just like when somebody says "woman are smarter than man" everyone claps FOH Woman are the dumbest creatures on Earth. Id trust a male dog before a woman.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

What do y'all think about last night that Alabama QB's girl becoming famous over night because she was shown to the world on national tv? She went from 500 twitter followers to about 250,000. She was immediately followed by hoards of NFL, NBA, MLB players and Darnell Dockett was openly and privately hitting on her on twitter. Also Lebron followed her then unfollowed her once he saw the shyt storm it was gonna create . Now, their relationship is fairly new, do you think with her "new found fame" (ppl want to interview her meet her ect) their relationship will last? Or is it just a matter of time? I'm not sure if I want someone who just automatically got threw into the spotlight while I was with her brehs. I would proceed with caution because who's to say that the person I met pre "fame" will be the same person post "fame". I just wanted to get your thoughts on that.

 

[philmonroe]

What do y'all think about last night that Alabama QB's girl becoming famous over night because she was shown to the world on national tv? She went from 500 twitter followers to about 250,000. She was immediately followed by hoards of NFL, NBA, MLB players and Darnell Dockett was openly and privately hitting on her on twitter. Also Lebron followed her then unfollowed her once he saw the shyt storm it was gonna create . Now, their relationship is fairly new, do you think with her "new found fame" (ppl want to interview her meet her ect) their relationship will last? Or is it just a matter of time? I'm not sure if I want someone who just automatically got threw into the spotlight while I was with her brehs. I would proceed with caution because who's to say that the person I met pre "fame" will be the same person post "fame". I just wanted to get your thoughts on that.

I think you gotta see and if it changes you know what to do otherwise I think you being insecure honestly. What you want some chick that looking like Fiona so no dude want her? shyt its a ton of those out there lol.

 

[kevm3]

If that bama qb falls off, she's gone in the wind. Whenever a woman feels she is bigger than the man she is with, she gets ghost.