Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah 15 mins before is some flagrantly disrespectful shyt.

You hit me up a few hrs before to rearrange, ok. I know early and can do something else.
But she had all day to let you know. And she thinks so little of you, that she pulls this.

A woman will usually spend most of the day readying herself for the date. For her to say fuxk it with 15 mins to go, meant she either was never coming or someone gave her a better invite. Either of those options is not a good place to be.

The fact she thought so little of your time would push her to bushes status for me.
 
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Yeah 15 mins before is some flagrantly disrespectful shyt.

You hit me up a few hrs before to rearrange, ok. I know early and can do something else.
But she had all day to let you know and she thinks so little of you that she pulls this.

A woman will usually spend most of the day readying herself for the date. For her to say fuxk it with 15 mins to go meant she either was never coming or someone gave her a better invite. Either of those options is not a good place to be.

The fact she thought so little of your time would push her to bushes status for me.

yeah thats a case of breh was a back up incase what she really wanted to do didnt shake
 

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Come on mane, she canceled with you 15 minutes before ... on Valentines Day. You know whats good, cancel shawty :camby:

To cancel only 15 min before it seems like she was juggling a few guys and the guy she wanted she wasn't sure he would say yes. And he prob hit her up with a WYD come through? text and then she cancelled.
 

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All this.

You see this is the shyt I'm talking about.

Nah, cancelling a date 15 minutes before is disrespectful and a HUGE red flag. You take the time out to get dressed and prepare, for what? The fukk was there for her to do on a Sunday during a pandemic why she had to cancel at the last minute? :comeon:

I used to be the same way at one point - giving the benefit of the doubt, not wanting to look sensitive and being the "oh ok I understand" nice guy type doing all types of mental gymnastics trying to justify it on their behalf etc despite what my gut was telling me.....and each and every time it didn't work out. Ain't no reset button for this.

fukk Wednesday. The date was for today. I might have work or studying to do.

It's not about being 'HOH' or "insecure", it's about self respect and boundaries. You try pulling that shyt right before a job interview and tell them you ain't coming 15 minutes before but you can do Wednesday instead and 9 times out of 10 they'll tell you to kick rocks.

Give people an inch and they'll take a yard. And no, it's not some tactic to make them beg to give them another chance. It's things like this that set a negative precedent and shows you their character and you better pay attention to it and not sweep it under the rug.

If she was really interested, nothing would have got in the way, especially not no damn 15 minutes before.

And yes, you have to be zero tolerance.

women want you to be confused because in confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt - lord scarf
 

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I was a zero tolerant dude before. Then I realized in dating that the zero tolerance chicks always were hella insecure, and it made me reevaluate how I move.

...Eventually I realized I was insecure AF and was just chopping off women before they had a chance to hurt me or my ego. No bueno.

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come on my nikka :skip: that bytch straight up disrespected you and you know it.
 

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Anyone see anything wrong with this?

Keep in mind I'm turning 30 this year and she 41.

For me personally, I'm peeping out a few subtle contradictions as well as some presumptuousness regarding my age. And a little bit of hypergamous thirst.
 

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Anyone see anything wrong with this?

Keep in mind I'm turning 30 this year and she 41.

For me personally, I'm peeping out a few subtle contradictions as well as some presumptuousness regarding my age. And a little bit of hypergamous thirst.

You gotta be in a corona drought bruh:mjlol:

She not even worth the brainpower unless you practicing
 

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Just had a shawty cancel on me ~15 minutes b4 the date, when I tell her I'm heading to the venue.

That's the way the game goes sometimes :francis:
bytches aint shyt man

i remember i had a lunch plan with a girl years ago for noon and confirmed the night before.
i was at the venue and messaged her to know where i was seated and then she told me she couldnt make it due to a work meeting. lol...bytches man
 

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She rescheduled for Wednesday so I'm keeping my mind clear and assuming the best. For a second, I felt frustrated but aint no point in assuming the worst and reacting poorly when a flake happens. I've projected my own insecurities into similar situations before and ended up looking like a lame.

If it happens again, I probably will delete the #, but she gets a pass for now (even tho it's sus to do it last minute)

Females do that flake bullshyt fam...dont stand for it...unless they bytch mom in the hospital hesd cracked...she playn games...females talk to like 30 dudes in they phone
 

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She rescheduled for Wednesday so I'm keeping my mind clear and assuming the best. For a second, I felt frustrated but aint no point in assuming the worst and reacting poorly when a flake happens. I've projected my own insecurities into similar situations before and ended up looking like a lame.

If it happens again, I probably will delete the #, but she gets a pass for now (even tho it's sus to do it last minute)
are you still taking her out? shed be reduced to coming over to the crib at that point
 

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This dude asked some 43 year old FWB to be his wife lmaoo

Had the bytch when she was 40...bustn nuts all over her face...fukkn her ass...givn me $$$...

GMB brehs :russ::russ:
 
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