Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

I don't plan on really entertaining women till like late summer/fall...focused on this bulk (shyt sucks not being ripped but it must be done ) and getting promoted.

Its way too many logistical flaws in hooking up with bytches nowadays to bother unless they literally fall into your lap. I can't fukk with online shyt no more either, all them bytches I done dated or smashed off them shyts been off. Now that could be a me problem as well who knows.

 

[CP3.]

Anyone see anything wrong with this?

Keep in mind I'm turning 30 this year and she 41.

For me personally, I'm peeping out a few subtle contradictions as well as some presumptuousness regarding my age. And a little bit of hypergamous thirst.

She comes across as a stuck up bytch to me. Just matched and she already giving you this and that about your life without even knowing a damn thing about you?

 

[dat aint da same sandwich]

Yeah it was a family emergency line



My point is that when I only have my perception of what happened, I realize that is not the whole story. I have been the guy who felt disrespected when a woman takes to long to respond to texts or rescheduled a date... at the time I thought it was me showing how much I value my time, but was actually just me cutting people off who weren't proving themselves to me at every step of the way.

On the flipside, I've had instances where a chick ghosted me on Tinder and then I bump into her at the club and smash that night. I've had chicks that canceled on the first date when I'm actually at the venue, and then I smash the next time I saw her and she fell hard for me, etc. I wouldn't have gotten laid in the future if I overreacted in the past. Additionally, even big cities gets pretty small when you start racking up bodies, so eventually you will need your reputation to stand for itself or women will start talking down on your name when they realize their friend is thinking about going out for drinks with you. I've smashed chicks because they've heard about me moving around, and I've lost chicks when they felt like I did their friend dirty.

My point is not to be a doormat out here, but to give people the benefit of the doubt and be mature about it and you will get laid more often. I'm not in this thread trying to figure out how to date or because I don't get laid enough. I'm just in here to chop it up with other dudes out here in these streets.

 

[MikelArteta]

lol this why I'm like brehs need to get in shape and stack their bread. I dont think it will be this summer but more so 2022.

i have a feeling international travel is going to be very expensive moving forward

ah well

 

[Apollo Creed]

i have a feeling international travel is going to be very expensive moving forward

ah well

i aint tripping, keep the weirdos in the USA. Lotta bums ruining near by countries with their tom foolery lol

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Again I'm super inexperienced.

Some of the girls I've been messaging have been asking to meet up now.

What's the best place for a first date?

I've never been on a date before.

 

[Turbulent]

Again I'm super inexperienced.

Some of the girls I've been messaging have been asking to meet up now.

What's the best place for a first date?

I've never been on a date before.

depends how old you are. Also depends what your goal is.

Generally, i would say either go to a bar (not a sketchy type, more happy hour type bar) and take it from there.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

depends how old you are. Also depends what your goal is.

Generally, i would say either go to a bar (not a sketchy type, more happy hour type bar) and take it from there.

I'm 30 and my goal is just to hang out and see where it goes.

I'm not having expectations of smashing the first night or anything. I just wanna chill. Like I said I've never dated before so I want to be realistic instead of thinking I'm just gunna fukk every single girl I meet up with online after the first date.

 

[Turbulent]

I'm 30 and my goal is just to hang out and see where it goes.

I'm not having expectations of smashing the first night or anything. I just wanna chill. Like I said I've never dated before so I want to be realistic instead of thinking I'm just gunna fukk every single girl I meet up with online after the first date.

word. I'd say any place where you can hear eachother talk and maybe drink. It's kinda tough in covid times but i guess the goal is to just make sure it's not expensive, that either one can leave at anytime and that you can get to know eachother/laugh together.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

word. I'd say any place where you can hear eachother talk and maybe drink. It's kinda tough in covid times but i guess the goal is to just make sure it's not expensive, that either one can leave at anytime and that you can get to know eachother/laugh together.

Thanks man.

How does the end of dates work? I know how to talk to women I was just curious about the end?

Like how do they end

I know that sounds crazy but like I said I don't have any experience.

Meaning does it end naturally? Do you go in for a kiss? Do you walk away and shake hands?

 

[CP3.]

Thanks man.

How does the end of dates work? I know how to talk to women I was just curious about the end?

Like how do they end

I know that sounds crazy but like I said I don't have any experience.

Meaning does it end naturally? Do you go in for a kiss? Do you walk away and shake hands?

Every date is different. They just end naturally usually unless it's already pre-arranged that one of you has some place to be later on that day/night. As for going in for a kiss, usually yes if the date has gone well but it's hard to say, you just go with the flow. You'll know if you're gonna kiss believe me. You're thinking way too deep about it all bro. Just relax, chill and vibe with them and take it all as it comes.

Don't shake hands though. If the vibe isn't right for a kiss then just hug and maybe a quick peck on the cheek.

 

[Germms]

Man never settle for a woman who is trying to butt heads. Past relationships will piss me off because the bytch will try to compete or convince me of some bullshyt. So I’d just stay single. If she doesn’t assist you in your goals or move out the fukkin way while you’re grinding leave her.

Spoiler: Simp shyt

Me and my girl have a great bond. We talk about everything. She always asks me my “purpose”. What are my goals for the day/week/month. We always talking about some shyt and bouncing off ideas.

We had the marriage talk and it went smooth. She asked me how I honestly felt about it. She was just so understanding. Not trying to convince me that I should marry her or giving me the ultimatum. I feel like I got lucky woman wise. Her mindset is not regular and I can’t take advantage of a woman like this.

 

[DJSmooth]

Thanks man.

How does the end of dates work? I know how to talk to women I was just curious about the end?

Like how do they end

I know that sounds crazy but like I said I don't have any experience.

Meaning does it end naturally? Do you go in for a kiss? Do you walk away and shake hands?

Dating is trial and error. A nikka with game is just a dude with a lot of practice.

Sometimes yall don't have chemistry and you give her a hug and call it a day.

Sometimes yall have chemistry but still not comfortable with each other yet. You walk her back to her car give her a hug then tell her to text you when she makes it home.

Sometimes yall are vibing. You walk her back to her car and yall chop it up for 10 mins while she is pushed up on you staring in your face then you go in for the kiss hug then tell her to text you when she gets home.

Sometimes shorty is in your car you tell her you about to take her home and she straight up catches an attitude and says she isn't ready to go home *She was Jamaican*. That's when you know you getting some cheeks that night.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm 30 and my goal is just to hang out and see where it goes.

I'm not having expectations of smashing the first night or anything. I just wanna chill. Like I said I've never dated before so I want to be realistic instead of thinking I'm just gunna fukk every single girl I meet up with online after the first date.

I'm assuming you're not a virgin, but how does a nikka who talks to female regularly get to 30 without ever going on a date?

Like, not even in high school, not college? Even (most of them) hoes like some dining and romancing before you get the cheeks

 

[Apollo Creed]

Man never settle for a woman who is trying to butt heads. Past relationships will piss me off because the bytch will try to compete or convince me of some bullshyt. So I’d just stay single. If she doesn’t assist you in your goals or move out the fukkin way while you’re grinding leave her.

Spoiler: Simp shyt

Me and my girl have a great bond. We talk about everything. She always asks me my “purpose”. What are my goals for the day/week/month. We always talking about some shyt and bouncing off ideas.

We had the marriage talk and it went smooth. She asked me how I honestly felt about it. She was just so understanding. Not trying to convince me that I should marry her or giving me the ultimatum. I feel like I got lucky woman wise. Her mindset is not regular and I can’t take advantage of a woman like this.

brehs lotta that understanding stuff is a farce. Alot of women will olay the long game if they see the man they are with is a good one. Main thing is just make sure her actions match her words, because many women will say “everything is ok” yet inside they grow resentment every day that goes by and you havent proposed. This is usually after the honeymoon phase of a relationship has worn off and you two are used to each other.