I been there before bruh...
You gonna have to ignore the shyt tests and see where it the chips fall...
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I been there before bruh...
You gonna have to ignore the shyt tests and see where it the chips fall...
Anyone see anything wrong with this?
Keep in mind I'm turning 30 this year and she 41.
For me personally, I'm peeping out a few subtle contradictions as well as some presumptuousness regarding my age. And a little bit of hypergamous thirst.
1) she looks fat...does she have kids?
2)she 41 n askn u to be all this n that
3) just move on
This dude asked some 43 year old FWB to be his wife lmaoo
Had the bytch when she was 40...bustn nuts all over her face...fukkn her ass...givn me $$$...
GMB brehs
Damn bruh
As long as she happy
Yeah it was a family emergency lineThis I wanna know too.
Prolly one of those "family emergency" ass bytches.
Meanwhile some nikka ran through and she riding dude's face like a western.
My point is that when I only have my perception of what happened, I realize that is not the whole story. I have been the guy who felt disrespected when a woman takes to long to respond to texts or rescheduled a date... at the time I thought it was me showing how much I value my time, but was actually just me cutting people off who weren't proving themselves to me at every step of the way.
On the flipside, I've had instances where a chick ghosted me on Tinder and then I bump into her at the club and smash that night. I've had chicks that canceled on the first date when I'm actually at the venue, and then I smash the next time I saw her and she fell hard for me, etc. I wouldn't have gotten laid in the future if I overreacted in the past. Additionally, even big cities gets pretty small when you start racking up bodies, so eventually you will need your reputation to stand for itself or women will start talking down on your name when they realize their friend is thinking about going out for drinks with you. I've smashed chicks because they've heard about me moving around, and I've lost chicks when they felt like I did their friend dirty.
My point is not to be a doormat out here, but to give people the benefit of the doubt and be mature about it and you will get laid more often. I'm not in this thread trying to figure out how to date or because I don't get laid enough. I'm just in here to chop it up with other dudes out here in these streets.
She rescheduled for Wednesday when she canceled. It is definitely possible that she flakes again for the record, but fwiw, in my experience, girls that reschedule as they flake are interested in linking up fwiw.
As for your suggestion about making her come to the crib.... To me, it's about probabilities. Maybe it's because I don't spend a lot of time getting to know women before I invite them out for drinks, but very few of the women I meet are interested in coming to the crib for a first date, and so when they feel like that's the only option for us to hang out (it sounds almost like a punishment for flaking in this context), it was pretty low probability when I did it years ago.
When you break it down, my guess is that most women flake because they aren't sure how attracted they are to you, something else came up, or that they dunno if they will have a good time. If they feel those things about a public link-up, chances are they feel even more uncertainty about meeting you directly at the crib and so it's really a low probability hail mary. FWIW, you will weed out a lot of chicks that aint DTF ASAP, but there are girls that might have needed a little convo and drinks before making it to the crib that you will miss out on.
If we do link up Wednesday, we are going for drinks at a bar that is a five minute walk from my crib. She doesn't know the bar is that close to my crib, but usually after a few drinks, I mention it and then invite her for a night cap and see what happens
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Yeah it was a family emergency line
My point is that when I only have my perception of what happened, I realize that is not the whole story. I have been the guy who felt disrespected when a woman takes to long to respond to texts or rescheduled a date... at the time I thought it was me showing how much I value my time, but was actually just me cutting people off who weren't proving themselves to me at every step of the way.
On the flipside, I've had instances where a chick ghosted me on Tinder and then I bump into her at the club and smash that night. I've had chicks that canceled on the first date when I'm actually at the venue, and then I smash the next time I saw her and she fell hard for me, etc. I wouldn't have gotten laid in the future if I overreacted in the past. Additionally, even big cities gets pretty small when you start racking up bodies, so eventually you will need your reputation to stand for itself or women will start talking down on your name when they realize their friend is thinking about going out for drinks with you. I've smashed chicks because they've heard about me moving around, and I've lost chicks when they felt like I did their friend dirty.
My point is not to be a doormat out here, but to give people the benefit of the doubt and be mature about it and you will get laid more often. I'm not in this thread trying to figure out how to date or because I don't get laid enough. I'm just in here to chop it up with other dudes out here in these streets.
I was going to write this to another post in here, but since it was your dilemma....Breh I have had the same situations where I have been ghosted or have been flaked on. I bump into them next time and I end up smashing...
But that really isn't the point. In my experience it's just not worth the trouble in the end.
Once they display flakiness I find that is usually a fixed character trait on their part. At some point that creeps back up and I'm not trying to deal with that.
It's up to you though breh...It's a matter of principles for me.
The possibility of getting laid doesn't outweigh the disrespect of flaking 15 Mins before a date on Valentines Day for me.
Yep. I been saying summer 2021 is going to be the for the books. There will be a party every got damn day, flights and hotels will be full, and everyone is going to be outside
Would she have flaked if it was trey songz or Chris brown
people will flake on a McDonald’s interview but they will walk through snow and sleet for a senior director at kpmg
people will flake on a McDonald’s interview but they will walk through snow and sleet for a senior director at kpmg
lol this why I'm like brehs need to get in shape and stack their bread. I dont think it will be this summer but more so 2022.Yep. I been saying summer 2021 is going to be the for the books. There will be a party every got damn day, flights and hotels will be full, and everyone is going to be outside
Stand her up.
Would she have flaked if it was trey songz or Chris brown
people will flake on a McDonald’s interview but they will walk through snow and sleet for a senior director at kpmg
I remember you saying this a long time ago and It still sticks with me whenever a chick flakes on me.Cities/states already relaxing their covid restrictions, Vegas about to be open in full before April. I think you should get ready for summer 2021 breh, I don’t want you to get left out while everyone is eating
Cities/states already relaxing their covid restrictions, Vegas about to be open in full before April. I think you should get ready for summer 2021 breh, I don’t want you to get left out while everyone is eating
oh nah im going to be traveling im just saying “wide open”. I still feel things will be a bit dialed down but more open than present.
word. I think it's about trusting your gut. Just a few questions, when she cancelled, did she seem very apologetic and is she the one who brought up the rescheduling? When you guys were rescheduling, was she accommodating towards your schedule? Basically, was she going out of her way to show she knows it looks bad and that she is still very interested?Yeah it was a family emergency line
My point is that when I only have my perception of what happened, I realize that is not the whole story. I have been the guy who felt disrespected when a woman takes to long to respond to texts or rescheduled a date... at the time I thought it was me showing how much I value my time, but was actually just me cutting people off who weren't proving themselves to me at every step of the way.
On the flipside, I've had instances where a chick ghosted me on Tinder and then I bump into her at the club and smash that night. I've had chicks that canceled on the first date when I'm actually at the venue, and then I smash the next time I saw her and she fell hard for me, etc. I wouldn't have gotten laid in the future if I overreacted in the past. Additionally, even big cities gets pretty small when you start racking up bodies, so eventually you will need your reputation to stand for itself or women will start talking down on your name when they realize their friend is thinking about going out for drinks with you. I've smashed chicks because they've heard about me moving around, and I've lost chicks when they felt like I did their friend dirty.
My point is not to be a doormat out here, but to give people the benefit of the doubt and be mature about it and you will get laid more often. I'm not in this thread trying to figure out how to date or because I don't get laid enough. I'm just in here to chop it up with other dudes out here in these streets.
I don't plan on really entertaining women till like late summer/fall...focused on this bulk (shyt sucks not being ripped but it must be done ) and getting promoted.
Its way too many logistical flaws in hooking up with bytches nowadays to bother unless they literally fall into your lap. I can't fukk with online shyt no more either, all them bytches I done dated or smashed off them shyts been off. Now that could be a me problem as well who knows.
) and getting promoted. Its way too many logistical flaws in hooking up with bytches nowadays to bother unless they literally fall into your lap. I can't fukk with online shyt no more either, all them bytches I done dated or smashed off them shyts been off. Now that could be a me problem as well who knows.