Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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you matched with this ogre? :picard:
 

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What's your next move?
She rescheduled for Wednesday so I'm keeping my mind clear and assuming the best. For a second, I felt frustrated but aint no point in assuming the worst and reacting poorly when a flake happens. I've projected my own insecurities into similar situations before and ended up looking like a lame.

If it happens again, I probably will delete the #, but she gets a pass for now (even tho it's sus to do it last minute)
 

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Done with these dating apps. Match with a girl, do some back and forth talking then they go ghost all the sudden. Rinse and repeat
Their inboxes are flooded and so they do low effort messaging and turn off a lot of guys. Aint nothing else popping due to covid tho.

Clubs, bars, cold approaching are what evens the odds though. There are plenty of dudes sliding in DMs on apps but can't keep a convo going IRL. Gotta just work with what you got for the time being and fine tune what you can with your game until summertime.

I've talked to my homies about it... This summer is going to be like a movie imo. Most of the population has been stuck in the house and so people are going to be thirsty to get out there and party and turn up for months. I think it's gonna be like Spring break for adults.

Personally, I advise everyone to work on their confidence and get in shape now so that they are operating at 100% when things start popping. It'll be a once in a century season of partying. People probably haven't been this ready to turn up since the 1918 Flu or the end of Prohibition.
 

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She rescheduled for Wednesday so I'm keeping my mind clear and assuming the best. For a second, I felt frustrated but aint no point in assuming the worst and reacting poorly when a flake happens. I've projected my own insecurities into similar situations before and ended up looking like a lame.

If it happens again, I probably will delete the #, but she gets a pass for now (even tho it's sus to do it last minute)

Sounds like a solid idea. But you got some cats who have zero tolerance.

She could be playing games to see how you react, she could have genuinely had something to come up. Who knows. But if it happens again then yeah, I would cut her off as well.
 

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Sounds like a solid idea. But you got some cats who have zero tolerance.

She could be playing games to see how you react, she could have genuinely had something to come up. Who knows. But if it happens again then yeah, I would cut her off as well.
I was a zero tolerant dude before. Then I realized in dating that the zero tolerance chicks always were hella insecure, and it made me reevaluate how I move.

...Eventually I realized I was insecure AF and was just chopping off women before they had a chance to hurt me or my ego. No bueno.
 

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She rescheduled for Wednesday so I'm keeping my mind clear and assuming the best. For a second, I felt frustrated but aint no point in assuming the worst and reacting poorly when a flake happens. I've projected my own insecurities into similar situations before and ended up looking like a lame.

If it happens again, I probably will delete the #, but she gets a pass for now (even tho it's sus to do it last minute)
Nah breh :ufdup: cancel with 15 min means someone better hit her up :ufdup: have some self respect
 
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