Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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For some females its "outta sight outta mind"

Everything was all good when you met her in person because you could use all yo weapons to attract her and keep her attention. But when not in person you couldnt create that same energy, that momentum you need to get her to agree to the first kick it session.

Unless you're already high on her priority list, she's not gonna make plans for you in the future cause she know she'll most likely cancel for something else she thinks she'd rather be doing, since you havent established your true value yet

To get past this roadblock of attaining the first kick it session all you gotta do is call her, chop it up for a few min and if she at the crib just be like "You mind being seen? I was in your neck of the woods I could stop by for like five minutes just to say wassup".


85% success rate. She'll most likely be cool with it since she aint making any major commitment and only sacrificing 5 min of her time. But if you handle yours that 5 min will turn to 15 and that 15 will turn to 30 and make sure you set up round 2 before you dip :smugdraper:
 

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Make sure your aura is
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"When it comes to sex.With women,less is more.The slower you go the more turned on she'll get,so take your time and build up the anticipation.She'll love it in the end."

"I don't chase after women! I don't beg, I don't try to please them. Guys are always worried if they're good-looking enough. My attitude is hey, "My dikk is better than his dikk. Taste them both--you'll see!" Guys, just let the women worry about their own looks. They're good at it. Looks mean nothing. It's how you make a woman FEEL that is important. And they want a strong guy. They want a MAN, not a p*ssy that is worried about his looks."

"If you still want her, then you first need to remember the golden rule: Treat a lady like a whore, and treat a whore like a lady. If a woman is so good looking, with her t*ts hanging out, she is acting like a whore. So treat her like the whore that she is. Remember, every woman is a whore except for two of them: Your mother and your sister."

"Women are people too (believe it or not), and as people, we all value those who value us... genuinely value us, not expecting something in return."
 
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Defining Success with women part 1

"Choosing how we define success with women is vitally important. If
you choose the wrong way to define success for yourself, then the
months or years of effort you go into achieving that goal will go to
waste.

And we’re not just talking about the metric in which we’re going to
put a vast amount of time and effort into, we’re talking about the
health of our emotional lives. Women and relationships are one and
the same with our emotional health, and so the way in which we
perceive women and relationships is going to be reflected in our
emotional well-being.

If you choose to believe “success” with women is determined by
which woman chooses you or how much money you can provide…
well, then there’s a good chance you’re going to be quite lonely
followed by ending up with the nearest woman capable of tolerating
you for a lifetime.

If you choose to believe “success” with women is a lay-count, or
other statistical data, then your love life will become just as
objectified as the women you meet… and although you’ll have the
quantity of interactions to back you up on paper, all emotional
quality will be lost, along with your happiness.

I define success in a qualitative way: maximizing happiness with
whichever woman (or women) for each individual."

Success = Maximizing happiness with whichever woman/women we
prefer
 
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Defining Success with women part 2

This may seem like an obvious statement, but the implications are actually quite profound. For most of the men in the world, their “success” with women is defined by:

- Never being rejected.
- Dating a woman who is more attractive than his friends’
girlfriends.
- How many women they can approach or have a date with.
- Quantity of women rather than quality of women.
- If she fits the stereotype of what “beauty” is.
- If she’s the kind of woman you’ve been raised to think you should
date.

When we define success as finding the woman/women who will
maximize our happiness, our approach takes a completely new light.
Instead of seeking for a woman to select us, instead of racking up
numbers, instead of winning bragging rights, instead of avoiding
rejections — our success is defined by screening through as many
women as possible until we find the ones we enjoy.
 

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If you gotta rotation but still selling the dream to #1

When you with the main chick and another chick call while you in front of her, dont let it keep ringing and raising suspicion. Just press the "ignore" while pickin the phone up like you pressed talk

To win even further you could make the phone conversation about buying some school clothes for your less fortunate lil cousin or something
 

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someone mentioned it but its true never compliment, never write a comment or like a picture on their fb wall, instagram twitter anything thats for simps and thirsty dudes stay in the shadows.

years ago i was a simp nice guy ill always remember listening to tom leykis and him saying these words "do the opposite of whatever your mind is telling you", if your mind is telling you to say sorry don't, if your mind is telling you to call her or text her to see how she's doing DON'T.

be unreliable :smugfavre:

a few weeks ago brehs this annoying chick was on me like crazy, she made plans for us on a tuesday evening, i didn't even call that i wasn't going to make it, didn't text all day, all i did is get a text "where are you?", and i'm like home watching the game half hour later :smugdraper: and i got hit with the "I thought we had plans"

i'm like nah you had plans i never said i was going and you didn't text me all day, then this chick deletes me from fb, tells me she is no longer going to wait on me and is going to reactivate her online dating account, all i said is coo

want to know what happaned a week later brehs?
 
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One tip I could give you guys is:

When you guys go out on a date with a chick, set your phone to alarm with your ringtone at certain times.So for example,you got a date with a chick tonight from 9:00pm-12:00am.

You can set your alarm/reminder to go off at 10:05,10:45,11:12...ect.

Now when the alarm goes off pick up your phone like your expecting an important call,and pretend like your talking to someone.

So for example:

*Alarms goes of with your regular ringtone*

*You pick up phone*

You:Hello

You:Hey what's up man long time no talk.

You:Ay you,I'm pretty busy right now can I call you back

*Hang up*

By doing this, it does two things.

1.Makes it seem like your a naturally busy guy that people like

and

2.Makes her think that she's actually important enough to focus on because you told every one that called you that you're doing something important(i.e. spending time with her)

If you guys are thinking you'll get caught.YOU WON'T...unless you put your phone on speaker.lol
If you're still nervous just pick up the phone and walk a little distance away from her like you don't want her to hear what you're saying,but still close enough so that she can hear you.It and continue with the steps mentioned above.
 

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Don't think that non-black women won't like you simply because you're black and they're not either a slut, fat, ugly or a mixture of the 3. All women thirst.

Do not engage women in mind games. Shut her shyt down and don't get sucked into that.

Let her know that YOU are in charge of the relationship and not her. YOU run the show. You love having her around but you don't NEED her. Never make a woman feel like your whole world would collapse without her, unless it literally would (and yes you simps, I do mean more than emotionally)

Your priorities > hers at all times. Unless you're married to her and she's a damn good wife, your priorities should always transcend hers. Never let your dreams get crushed by her plan. "B-B-B-buttt... She's moving away and I may never see her again! I have to go with her". Stfu, there are probably at least a dozen women around you who have just as good of, if not a better personality than she does, are just as good looking as she is or better and will love you just as good or better than she ever could.

Don't simp a woman. For any reason. Ever. There's a difference between having manly respect and simply being a bytch.
 

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One tip I could give you guys is:

When you guys go out on a date with a chick, set your phone to alarm with your ringtone at certain times.So for example,you got a date with a chick tonight from 9:00pm-12:00am.

You can set your alarm/reminder to go off at 10:05,10:45,11:12...ect.

Now when the alarm goes off pick up your phone like your expecting an important call,and pretend like your talking to someone.

So for example:

*Alarms goes of with your regular ringtone*

*You pick up phone*

You:Hello

You:Hey what's up man long time no talk.

You:Ay you,I'm pretty busy right now can I call you back

*Hang up*

By doing this, it does two things.

1.Makes it seem like your a naturally busy guy that people like

and

2.Makes her think that she's actually important enough to focus on because you told every one that called you that you're doing something important(i.e. spending time with her)

If you guys are thinking you'll get caught.YOU WON'T...unless you put your phone on speaker.lol

or do the **** if you don't have hot harlot friends, i recommended this to my boy with no game and it worked for him

create a fake fb page using a hot girls pic, use it to write on your wall

get the "whose that" are you really going to spend the day with rebecca from a chick you are talking to, she will feel special that you are spending the day with her

deep down she knows shse not as hot as rebecca so she will give a blow job or intercourse to try and draw you in

yep it has worked for my boy :smugdraper:
 

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Don't think that non-black women won't like you simply because you're black and they're not either a slut, fat, ugly or a mixture of the 3. All women thirst.

Do not engage women in mind games. Shut her shyt down and don't get sucked into that.

Let her know that YOU are in charge of the relationship and not her. YOU run the show. You love having her around but you don't NEED her. Never make a woman feel like your whole world would collapse without her, unless it literally would (and yes you simps, I do mean more than emotionally)

Your priorities > hers at all times. Unless you're married to her and she's a damn good wife, your priorities should always transcend hers. Never let your dreams get crushed by her plan. "B-B-B-buttt... She's moving away and I may never see her again! I have to go with her". Stfu, there are probably at least a dozen women around you who have just as good of, if not a better personality than she does, are just as good looking as she is or better and will love you just as good or better than she ever could.

Don't simp a woman. For any reason. Ever. There's a difference between having manly respect and simply being a bytch.

"no woman has the magical p*ssy" - tom leykis
 
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or do the **** if you don't have hot harlot friends, i recommended this to my boy with no game and it worked for him

create a fake fb page using a hot girls pic, use it to write on your wall

get the "whose that" are you really going to spend the day with rebecca from a chick you are talking to, she will feel special that you are spending the day with her

deep down she knows shse not as hot as rebecca so she will give a blow job or intercourse to try and draw you in

yep it has worked for my boy :smugdraper:

Kudos to you my man.The only problem is......I don't have a facebook :to:.
I've seen to many dudes get busted,caught,and aired out because of that facebook non-sense.Can't mess with it.I actually prefer to keep it old school.You find out about me when we chill and hang out,or you call.Other than that,you ain't getting no info.

A lot of these females want your facebook and twitter to spy and keep tabs on you,and I ain't down with that.lol
 

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someone mentioned it but its true never compliment, never write a comment or like a picture on their fb wall, instagram twitter anything thats for simps and thirsty dudes stay in the shadows.

years ago i was a simp nice guy ill always remember listening to tom leykis and him saying these words "do the opposite of whatever your mind is telling you", if your mind is telling you to say sorry don't, if your mind is telling you to call her or text her to see how she's doing DON'T.

be unreliable :smugfavre:

a few weeks ago brehs this annoying chick was on me like crazy, she made plans for us on a tuesday evening, i didn't even call that i wasn't going to make it, didn't text all day, all i did is get a text "where are you?", and i'm like home watching the game half hour later :smugdraper: and i got hit with the "I thought we had plans"

i'm like nah you had plans i never said i was going and you didn't text me all day, then this chick deletes me from fb, tells me she is no longer going to wait on me and is going to reactivate her online dating account, all i said is coo

want to know what happaned a week later brehs?
:laff:

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that's right came crawling back at 1am expecting a apology like im some simp

NOPE, see when you have a bullpen you can always designate one for assignment if the era and attitude is to high and never look back :win:

"Because you are...Bye" :dead:


Reincar the gawd
 
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