Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[SATAN]

I know, so I'm asking, how does he tell a chick trying to be sexy for him he's not interested in seeing that

You don't tell her you're not interested in that


Just say some shyt like, let's wait til we see each other in person

 

[Apollo Creed]

It seems that women nowadays have no patience or communication skills. To be honest they dont seem to have any understanding of what it takes to build and sustain a relationship either.

At the first sight of conflict or an incongruence of thoughts/beliefs ...most women are ready to keep it moving rather than communicating how they think, feel or what they want and need. It's honestly a shame. I have lost many women with whom we could have had a real good relationship due to their inabilities to communicate and them thinking that men are mind readers or jesters. the truth though, is that without communication and compromise (including putting aside egos) no relationship can survive. Unfortunately, these girls are too narcissistic and even damaged to understand this.

Life

the narcissism is real and crazy that nobody calls this out. It's alarming how many woman in our generation are like this. The case study done on current social media in 50 years will be hilarious.

 

[Ohene]

the narcissism is real and crazy that nobody calls this out. It's alarming how many woman in our generation are like this. The case study done on current social media in 50 years will be hilarious.

what was your old screename

 

[Ohene]

It could also be down to end of year babble.

New year, new me shyt women tell themselves before they fall back into their usual habits once January ends.

Similar story. I was chatting to a woman, the convo became very sexual, initiated by her. Then she straight up stops chatting.I didnt sweat it. And didnt follow up or chase.

Just yesterday I see her on Tinder with an updated long ass profile. Talking about how she has dignity and self worth and how in the new year she wants to make it happen and shes only on Tinder for a serious relationship from now on.

I chuckled and swiped left.

damn bro...this shyt is so predictable at this point. i'm not even going to tell yall my story. thse girls are so fickle and the new year always comes wit this bs

 

[360dagod]

I pulled a nice jawn at the store a few days before Christmas. So we talk a few times and we FT like normal and everything was going well, I really liked ole girl.

Last night she FT'd me in a robe and after a little chatting, she was showing me the goods. Her body is ... I make it a point to never talk about sex, so this was a pleasant surprise.

This morning I get the text saying something came over her and this wasn't what she wanted and how she was going to go with her gut and she didn't want to give an explanation.

Wtf just happened?

facetiming can be another "illusion" that women use to manipulate situations to their benefit....

You think your somewhere when you can be potentially right where the next nikka is...

You can better gauge interest when you keep it old school...

Phonecall/no facetime.....

She want facetime, its person to person or nothing...

It's another form of technology that successfully allows women to play mind fukk while the man sits there potentially reading the wrong play

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I'm in a slump mentally rn. I feel like I peaked with a chick I was seeing for a while and it's ruined the game for me because everyone else I talk to or match with just can't compete

Dont even get me started with my relationship from 2020 that recently ended.


fukk...she was my homie lover friend too. Everything i wanted and it ended just like that.


Everyone damn sure
Pales in comparison. Thats the sucky part. Ppl
Keep saying a better one is out there... but that vibe, connection wont ever be the same. 1 billion women or not... some shiit is just once in a lifetime. And this is coming from a nearly 40
Year old
Breh who’s been dating since his mid 20’s.


Damn.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dont even get me started with my relationship from 2020 that recently ended.


fukk...she was my homie lover friend too. Everything i wanted and it ended just like that.


Everyone damn sure
Pales in comparison. Thats the sucky part. Ppl
Keep saying a better one is out there... but that vibe, connection wont ever be the same. 1 billion women or not... some shiit is just once in a lifetime. And this is coming from a nearly 40
Year old
Breh who’s been dating since his mid 20’s.


Damn.

think about every wrong or bad thing she did to you in the relationship. If there are none then you wouldnt have broken up.

 

[VertigoKnight]

damn bro...this shyt is so predictable at this point. i'm not even going to tell yall my story. thse girls are so fickle and the new year always comes wit this bs

I swear the universe has a sense of humour and is always listening.

Same chick messaged me out of nowhere tonight.

Haven't spoken to her since beginning of December.

Kept it very dry with my replies. I think she sensed the vibe was different. I wished her a good evening and kept it moving.

These chicks think they can pop back up out of nowhere and men will somehow just forget they were MIA for weeks.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

facetiming can be another "illusion" that women use to manipulate situations to their benefit....

You think your somewhere when you can be potentially right where the next nikka is...

You can better gauge interest when you keep it old school...

Phonecall/no facetime.....

She want facetime, its person to person or nothing...

It's another form of technology that successfully allows women to play mind fukk while the man sits there potentially reading the wrong play

Facetime can be valuable if used right. It serves two purposes:

1.) Making sure the chick is not fat
2.) Making sure she's comfortable enough to meet up, especially if the first time is at your place or hers.

The problem is not Facetime, but something @VertigoKnight and others have pointed out: the chicks that talk the most freaky shyt are usually pump fakers. The real freaks move in silence.

 

[Guvnor]

Brehs I need serious advice. How does one know when it’s time to let a relationship go?

I mean me and shorty not having sex cause she wanna wait till marriage which already is a big deal but I decided to keep things going cause I like her and she’s like my best friend. However recently shyt just been all bad, she even sent me a video of a podcast she did and was like if you don’t like it don’t say anything. I’m like so I can’t even offer a critical opinion or feedback. Am I bugging or should I just let her go.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

A guy's prime years should be in the age range between 25-45 years.
I get why the older dudes are so successful now. Money is not the reason, experience is.
You play in the league long enough to see yourself become an all-star.
God bless the brehs who settle down at an early age due to being tied down or kids.
But salute to the brehs who face rejection after rejection and continue to try.

Experience is fukking key. In my 20s,

I've seen "lesbians" get pregnant by the most random dudes.

I've seen homies talk to girls I thought they could never get but actually pull.

I've seen girls get into relationships, have a kid, then split up with the dude after.

I've seen girls I thought I would be attracted to forever fall off at an early age.

I've seen girls get with dudes you'd never expect.

I've seen my homies be "just friends" with a girl who is taken but end up hooking up

I've seen myself struggle with women in one location but thrive in another town.

I've seen some of the prettiest most innocent faces do some wild things

Every year there is a new crop of college students

Every year there are new faces at the bar.


You should get enough experience to the point you're comfortable in your own skin.

That way, if you're single with no kids like myself, you'll be 25 plus going where you want doing what you want whenever you want.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Brehs I need serious advice. How does one know when it’s time to let a relationship go?

I mean me and shorty not having sex cause she wanna wait till marriage which already is a big deal but I decided to keep things going cause I like her and she’s like my best friend. However recently shyt just been all bad, she even sent me a video of a podcast she did and was like if you don’t like it don’t say anything. I’m like so I can’t even offer a critical opinion or feedback. Am I bugging or should I just let her go.

when you become indifferent insstead of wanting to fight for your relationship its over. And if chick is talking wild on a podcast then that shows she has no respect for you and you need to dead it. Sticking around shows weakness which will keep you in a state of never having respect. If yall had sex in the past and now all of a sudden she doesnt want sex anymore then its really over. Marriage changes nothing and many people have LESS sex after marriage.

 

[Apollo Creed]

A guy's prime years should be in the age range between 25-45 years.
I get why the older dudes are so successful now. Money is not the reason, experience is.
You play in the league long enough to see yourself become an all-star.
God bless the brehs who settle down at an early age due to being tied down or kids.
But salute to the brehs who face rejection after rejection and continue to try.

Experience is fukking key. In my 20s,

I've seen "lesbians" get pregnant by the most random dudes.

I've seen homies talk to girls I thought they could never get but actually pull.

I've seen girls get into relationships, have a kid, then split up with the dude after.

I've seen girls I thought I would be attracted to forever fall off at an early age.

I've seen girls get with dudes you'd never expect.

I've seen my homies be "just friends" with a girl who is taken but end up hooking up

I've seen myself struggle with women in one location but thrive in another town.

I've seen some of the prettiest most innocent faces do some wild things

Every year there is a new crop of college students

Every year there are new faces at the bar.


You should get enough experience to the point you're comfortable in your own skin.

That way, if you're single with no kids like myself, you'll be 25 plus going where you want doing what you want whenever you want.

A mans prime doesnt start till he is 30, and is pretty much 30-55 if he continues his trajectory.

people confuse athletic prime with manhood.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

A mans prime doesnt start till he is 30, and is pretty much 30-55 if he continues his trajectory.

people confuse athletic prime with manhood.

I mean prime years with women.

didn’t want to say 45+ because it’s not socially accepted to be that dude up there in age out there having fun— even though it shouldn’t be that way.

 

[Action Mike]

Brehs I need serious advice. How does one know when it’s time to let a relationship go?

I mean me and shorty not having sex cause she wanna wait till marriage which already is a big deal but I decided to keep things going cause I like her and she’s like my best friend. However recently shyt just been all bad, she even sent me a video of a podcast she did and was like if you don’t like it don’t say anything. I’m like so I can’t even offer a critical opinion or feedback. Am I bugging or should I just let her go.

Bro. No sex, no cooperation, no criticism.

Your walking on eggshells and as a man it's doesn't sound like it'll end well.

She dictating the rules, its unnatural.

If you don't have a plan, you are just part of someone else plan.