Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[SATAN]

I pulled a nice jawn at the store a few days before Christmas. So we talk a few times and we FT like normal and everything was going well, I really liked ole girl.

Last night she FT'd me in a robe and after a little chatting, she was showing me the goods. Her body is ... I make it a point to never talk about sex, so this was a pleasant surprise.

This morning I get the text saying something came over her and this wasn't what she wanted and how she was going to go with her gut and she didn't want to give an explanation.

Wtf just happened?

Why did you have her show nudes over FT

Should've waited to see her in person. She got all the validation she needed, so she got bored

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

How I was in the spring/early summer is how I’m tryna be all 2021. Had my first car and I was up Nikkas tryna grind so mf hard with this Tesla job, Tony Hawk gone look at me and say nikka I can’t keep worrying about these females p. Like @TradePascalSiakam says, it’s the same song and dance. Meet a bytch, y’all talk, here comes the flaky ass shyt. Rinse and repeat Maybe there are those special women out there but I don’t care about finding them, it’s all about me from here on out

 

[Apollo Creed]

This chick I met on Bumble on monday throwing the p*ssy at me.

But I hardly even made an effort with her, I just know if I have sex with her, I'll have that horrible moment of clarity, afterwards where I don't want her even touching me.

This will be the second chick, I've had to turn down this week that was intent on fukking. Matched with a sexy columbian chick Christmas eve on Tinder.

The only good thing this one did, was because of covid, I always ask whose in a person's bubble and she told me her close contacts for the last week or two.

She told me she'd 'seen' i.e fukked two guys already that week. Bet the week before was similar.



I'm not trying to end the year with covid or chalymidia, or something worse, so nope.

She then messaged asking if she could come see me. Didn't even answer her, the audacity. I noticed yesterday she unmatched me on Tinder.

I've been very careful the last year in terms of the females I spend time with. Covid ain't no joke and that chick seeing guys willy nilly, naw cant be me.

are you in a major city?

 

[Apollo Creed]

So I swiped right on this chick because she had nice tiddies and she likes salsa dancing. Then after swiping right I decided to look her up on social media.

This woman has the most red flags I've ever seen.

• Weird colored dyed hair that she dyes a different color weekly
• Weird makeup style
• Lots of visible random tattoos
• TWO nose piercings
• Tongue piercing
• Single mom
• Her child is only 3 months old
• She's still posting on social media daily about her breakup with her baby's father
• She has a TikTok
• She has 75,000 followers on TikTok and 4million likes
• She's a "K-pop stan"
• She was still making TikToks daily while pregnant
• Less than 6 months ago before her breakup she was talking about how much she loves her boyfriend, turns out he's a frail cac

I'm gonna start looking women up before I swiped on them. At least she doesn't have an OnlyFans

EDIT: UPDATE she has an OnlyFans

volume swipe, dont even read the bio (outside of looking to see if its a transgender lol). Only do your research once they match and initiate convo.

 

[VertigoKnight]

are you in a major city?

I'm in Vancouver which is kind of a major city.

But there are more single women here than men.

That's what a lot of chicks here dont realise. Dating favours the males here especially if you have options.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm in Vancouver which is kind of a major city.

But there are more single women here than men.

That's what a lot of chicks here dont realise. Dating favours the males here especially if you have options.

issue is there are more men than women on the app, and Men still "chase" which creates delusion on the side of Women. They lower their urgency because in their mind a "better man" is only a "swipe" away.

 

[CP3.]

I'm in a slump mentally rn. I feel like I peaked with a chick I was seeing for a while and it's ruined the game for me because everyone else I talk to or match with just can't compete

 

[Apollo Creed]

I'm in a slump mentally rn. I feel like I peaked with a chick I was seeing for a while and it's ruined the game for me because everyone else I talk to or match with just can't compete

go trick over seas for a week to get your mind right lol. Spend some time alone also and outline some goals. It's not that other women can't compete, you're just still emotionally attached to your ex/chick you were seeing. Depending how long you were with her it may take a few weeks-months.

If you still fresh from the situation, I wouldn't be messing with women what so ever for a few weeks. Just reflect, get your mind right, and set some goals, also get used to being alone so you dont feel thirsty for companionship. The reason for that is that thirst can have you trying to rush into a situation that could end up a bad deal.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I'm in a slump mentally rn. I feel like I peaked with a chick I was seeing for a while and it's ruined the game for me because everyone else I talk to or match with just can't compete

Stop comparing and keep looking for a compatible cutie or baddie. U got this breh.

 

[Uno Venova]

Why did you have her show nudes over FT

Should've waited to see her in person. She got all the validation she needed, so she got bored

I mean it sounds like she volunteered. What’s he supposed to do stop her?

 

[Apollo Creed]

We follow each other on ig and she stated she's out until 2021 and something about certain people not coming with her on her journey. These chicks are wishy washy as hell

like someone else said maybe an ex came back lol.

 

[SATAN]

I mean it sounds like she volunteered. What’s he supposed to do stop her?

He has a voice

 

[Uno Venova]

He has a voice

I know, so I'm asking, how does he tell a chick trying to be sexy for him he's not interested in seeing that

 

[Ohene]

It seems that women nowadays have no patience or communication skills. To be honest they dont seem to have any understanding of what it takes to build and sustain a relationship either.

At the first sight of conflict or an difference of thoughts/beliefs ...most women are ready to keep it moving rather than communicating how they think, feel or what they want and need. It's honestly a shame. I have lost many women with whom I certainly could have had a real good relationship due to their inabilities to communicate and them thinking that men are mind readers or jesters. the truth though, is that without communication and compromise (including putting aside egos) no relationship can survive. Unfortunately, these girls are too narcissistic and even damaged to understand this.

Life

 

[VertigoKnight]

I pulled a nice jawn at the store a few days before Christmas. So we talk a few times and we FT like normal and everything was going well, I really liked ole girl.

Last night she FT'd me in a robe and after a little chatting, she was showing me the goods. Her body is ... I make it a point to never talk about sex, so this was a pleasant surprise.

This morning I get the text saying something came over her and this wasn't what she wanted and how she was going to go with her gut and she didn't want to give an explanation.

Wtf just happened?

It could also be down to end of year babble.

New year, new me shyt women tell themselves before they fall back into their usual habits once January ends.

Similar story. I was chatting to a woman, the convo became very sexual, initiated by her. Then she straight up stops chatting.I didnt sweat it. And didnt follow up or chase.

Just yesterday I see her on Tinder with an updated long ass profile. Talking about how she has dignity and self worth and how in the new year she wants to make it happen and shes only on Tinder for a serious relationship from now on.

I chuckled and swiped left.