Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So I've been dating the 30-year-old for about a month now. Still haven't made it official. But dang, ol' girl is putting in some serious work.

I have to work on Christmas and I can't go home to see my fam. She lives about an hour away from me but she still offered to come over because she doesn't want me to be alone on Christmas :wow: :noah: :to:

Things like that go a long way for me.

I aint sprung though :birdman:


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Sounds like a winner so far. That would make a good impression on me too, but just remember not to get attached too quickly just yet as it's still early days in the relationship.
 

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its not a deal breaker...but i will NOT open the door on the way out to see how she reacts...and if she flip ima just be like "you didn't say thanks when i did it the first time, i though u had it" :manny:

1st impressions are key too though, a female just has to make a good enough impression that i want to call her again or see her again. I don't think you can gauge enough from one meeting. Iv'e met girls who made slightly awful first impressions that turned out pretty cool....

sometimes people don't feel like dealing with the social bullshyt, you may catch a female on that day it happens.

I see your point,but usually in this day and age all it takes is 1 date to know if you wanna see that person again.Its a short window and both parties know how far they wanna go. As for the door thing to each its own, if a woman has no social skills whats the point :manny:
 

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I see your point,but usually in this day and age all it takes is 1 date to know if you wanna see that person again.Its a short window and both parties know how far they wanna go. As for the door thing to each its own, if a woman has no social skills whats the point :manny:

Exactly....I tell you man its hilarious as hell to see certain girls talk about an introverted/shy girl not having social skills......but that shy/introverted girl could end up saying thank you with a smile if you do them a favor or open a door for them.

While the girl with "social skills" who acts like her shyt don't stink does the complete opposite.
 

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Exactly....I tell you man its hilarious as hell to see certain girls talk about an introverted/shy girl not having social skills......but that shy/introverted girl could end up saying thank you with a smile if you do them a favor or open a door for them.

While the girl with "social skills" who acts like her shyt don't stink does the complete opposite.

Thats exactly type of women I run into it seems :laugh: introverted/shy girls are usually the best women. Social women the more they talk,the more lies and character flaws. Its amazing how backwards things are :laugh:
 

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This Lola Monroe pregnancy situation is just embarrassing. :snoop:

These clowns never learn about not to wife about strippers,ex strippers, prostitutes, ex prostitutes, upscale models,etc. Hoes are gonna be hoes, and wait to see what happens in all three relationships(Kanye and Kim, Amber and Wiz, and Lola and Los). I saw several stories the past couple of days that Kim is "allegedly" pregnant and waiitng for the right time to say so. I really hope this negro Kanye would not be that stupid and the stories were just rumors. If they are then you heard it here first....

But damn can these guys ever learn? You jerk off the ones like Lola, fukk them,etc and leave it at that. NEVER EVER get them pregnant or marry them. Why can't guys understand that. Women in those types of fields CANNOT and SHOULD NOT ever be taken seriously in a relationship. This is a very dangerous cycle of making these helpless children grow up in unstable environments.
 

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This Lola Monroe pregnancy situation is just embarrassing. :snoop:

These clowns never learn about not to wife about strippers,ex strippers, prostitutes, ex prostitutes, upscale models,etc. Hoes are gonna be hoes, and wait to see what happens in all three relationships(Kanye and Kim, Amber and Wiz, and Lola and Los). I saw several stories the past couple of days that Kim is "allegedly" pregnant and waiitng for the right time to say so. I really hope this negro Kanye would not be that stupid and the stories were just rumors. If they are then you heard it here first....

But damn can these guys ever learn? You jerk off the ones like Lola, fukk them,etc and leave it at that. NEVER EVER get them pregnant or marry them. Why can't guys understand that. Women in those types of fields CANNOT and SHOULD NOT ever be taken seriously in a relationship. This is a very dangerous cycle of making these helpless children grow up in unstable environments.
whats all this about?
 

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Thats exactly type of women I run into it seems :laugh: introverted/shy girls are usually the best women. Social women the more they talk,the more lies and character flaws. Its amazing how backwards things are :laugh:

I wouldn't necessarily agree with that. Shy girls are no different than extroverted social girls in my opinion, and in fact, you have to watch them even more carefully because many shy girls give off the impression of being very sweet, etc.

Social girls are easy to gauge in that sense, they tell on themselves. Shy girls you gotta crack open the shell, so to speak.
 

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Real talk... Your 30s is almost like your golden age. You would think that the late 20s, early 30s is when you start 'getting old', but really, if you kept up with yourself, you got your education, your money in hand, your physique is proper and your conversation skills and life experiences have improved dramatically.

You are really at the mid-section of female attention. You got all the women hitting their 30s rushing to find someone and all the girls in their 20s seeing that you got it going on and want to see what you're about. It's really crazy the attention you'll start receiving when you start putting the pieces together.

If you've been focused on getting it together, your opportunities will definitely be there.
 

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I just dropped this science on FB and I got the women heated. But these chicks need to know and do better for the 2013. Men will always win. The funny thing is the more arrogant and obnoxious I am about it, the more attracted women are to me. It's crazy.

My name should be the elephant in the room. A woman's best chance of getting married is between the ages of 21 and 26. But this is where a woman is at her peak in terms of attention, so many might have a boyfriend, but she isn't trying to settle down, especially if a lot of dudes are checking for her. Most women in their 20s vy for the attention and are always trying to upgrade. On the opposite, men in their 20s have the hardest time attracting good women because we aren't established, and the only thing we could really rely on is our looks or our mouth piece, which eliminates 80% of us. As we get older, we accomplish more, which boosts our confidence, which makes us seem more appealing to the opposite sex. Now that we're in our 30s, these same women want us to wife them after they've been ran thru and had a string of bad relationships and children. After that other dude or dudes you stayed fukking with in your 20s used up your looks and took away your market value. Most women in their 30s are ready to settle down and have kids if they don't already. Most men in their 30s realize that women are lining up to be with them, so they don't feel the need to settle. So now you have professional players who will bed you but never wife you. Now here's the kicker. If you would have given this man the time of day in his 20s, he would have respected your loyalty, wifed you, and you would have had him. The problem is that too many women want the finished product as well. A man respects the women who grinds with him to the top. The one who tries to meet him there simply gets invited to his bedroom. This is the game, and us as men will always win at the end because the older we get, the more options we have (especially if we're successful), while for every year older a woman gets past 30, her window of opportunity closes. So if you get or got a good man, you better stick with him, because the longer a man remains single when he's older, the less likely he's gonna wanna commit or see the need to.

These broads can never win.
 

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I got a ? for yall brehs. When out on a date and you open a door for a female and she doesnt say thank you, is that an automatic deal breaker? How much is 1st impression a factor to some of yall?

Ive never been on a date, where I open a door for the woman, and she didnt say thank you
 
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