Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Females cheat because they want to & because they have low impulse control..

Has nothing to do with how "good or bad" your dikk game is, in her mind there's always someone/something "better" anyway so don't let your ego get bruised because of their slutty behavior..

Pretty much but they will guilt trip you into the sex wasn't good, small dikk all those other shaming cheating tactics they used to hide their slorish ways
 

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Paraphrasing but I believe @Turbulent said it best: it will always be made to be the man's fault no matter what. I got fam going through a situation like this right now. The man provided for his fiance, help raised her seed from another relationship, and was rewarded with disloyalty and the sullying of a good name he built over the years.

What's so scary about it was how well his girl played the good girl role. The typical shy, laid back introvert type. Had almost the whole family fool aside from me(the inner cynic inside always have me like :beli: just didn't fully buy it ) and a few others. This girl even had my grandma and aunt head twisted with her act. They sitting up here questioning whether it was really my cousin's fault for their split, suggesting he did something foul despite the overwhelming proof in front of them that he was on the up and up :dwillhuh:

But I must admit, looking back all the signs pointing to trouble were there. She was raised around nothing but women, with no strong father figure, male mentor, etc in sight. Almost all of her friends had kids, again with no man in their life. The friends would often try to make little snide remarks in the beginning, but dropped that shyt once they realize he was the type that was going to check them :birdman: Also the girl in question went out her way to prove that "she wasn't like that" but looking on things from the outside it felt kinda forced instead of natural femininity. Can't really explain it :ld:

To wrap it up, this situation along with some of the gems dropped in this thread has really made me take notice that a lot of women(and people in general for that matter) will rationalize bad behavior on their part, to make themselves feel better about whatever dirt they have, or are about to commit. Even in the cases where no clear rationale exist for their actions, some have no qualms about creating their very own :duck: to push forward the agenda they have. I'm getting a firsthand crash course on that, just hate that it had to involve a member of the fam :to:

I really could have used this thread a few years ago. Would have possibly saved me from a couple of small L's, but hey you live and you learn :manny:
exactly. They'll never let little details like facts and reality get in the way of their agenda or soil their precious reputation.
 
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I just dropped this science on FB and I got the women heated. But these chicks need to know and do better for the 2013. Men will always win. The funny thing is the more arrogant and obnoxious I am about it, the more attracted women are to me. It's crazy.



These broads can never win.

SO eloquent,. My nikka, who proofread that shyt for you :why:?
 

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Is it always the fault of the guy if the girl cheats?

A lot of homies will say shyt like, "you ain't hold it down in the bedroom, bruh".

What if you held your own in the bedroom (and you know this for a fact), but she still cheated...and with a girl no less. :huhldup:


Had me feeling a combination of :noah: and :ohhh:
You came to the right thread for help with your type of problems. Of course its not always your fault but why are you asking silly questions like a chick? I'm always down with helping others but unless this is a joke (if so my bad) you can't be that simple. Its usually a mix of both parties being at fault.
 

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You came to the right thread for help with your type of problems. Of course its not always your fault but why are you asking silly questions like a chick? I'm always down with helping others but unless this is a joke (if so my bad) you can't be that simple. Its usually a mix of both parties being at fault.

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Is it always the fault of the guy if the girl cheats?

A lot of homies will say shyt like, "you ain't hold it down in the bedroom, bruh".

What if you held your own in the bedroom (and you know this for a fact), but she still cheated...and with a girl no less. :huhldup:


Had me feeling a combination of :noah: and :ohhh:


many lesbians have unresolved concepts of self and self image. it starts in childhood, so dont think its your fault. as a result a lot of lesbians have undiagnosed borderline personality disorder, which is reflected in what we know about their unstable relationship patterns. my advice dont is feel bad about her being a lesbian. it reveals some underlying issues revolving around her ability to create a stable self image. just be glad you dont have to be the one to sort those problems out with her now
 

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Is it always the fault of the guy if the girl cheats?

A lot of homies will say shyt like, "you ain't hold it down in the bedroom, bruh".

What if you held your own in the bedroom (and you know this for a fact), but she still cheated...and with a girl no less. :huhldup:


Had me feeling a combination of :noah: and :ohhh:
there's no justifiable reason for being a whore other than the fact that you're a whore.

in other words its NEVER your fault somebody cheats. if they had any personal integrity they wouldn't cheat they'd confront you about whatever was causing their issue and deal with the problem either with you or by leaving you.

people commonly cheat (which is a selfish activity they wanted to do anyway) and blame the person they're with for it. this is a coping mechanism for people who are shytty people and need to find some type of way to justify their shytty behavior.

in reality anybody that cheats on someone else is a shytty person period. that's the real reason they cheat.
 
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