Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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African_brehda said:
How do y'all usually escalate shyt when she's back at your crib? :mjlit:
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For me, I had already escalated with her so much before we got to the crib, that she just starts kissing me as soon as I close the door.

Here's the OG's input on this

7:40 for the greatest point, but watch the whole vid.

Also check out FITXFEARLESS on YouTube, he talks about it a lot, too.
 
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so had my outing with the turkish girl.

Was kind of weird, haven't associated with a white chick since like 2014. She's turkish but looked extremely white like blonde hair blue eyes and she was thick like oatmeal :ehh:.

Met at like 530 and left like 8, just talked about random stuff and ate. Got a dirty look from a couple black chicks today and I was like :dahell: for like 6 years I never dated, or even associated out of my race. Last year met over 50 women and all were black and none dowered out so

Prob won't see her again as she's muslim and she told me she was married before (to a black guy :mjlol;) and is still very close to her ex husband.

Sri Lankan chick i met back in january messaged me today going to try and do lunch one day this week

One thing I've realized that I guess is good is that bak in the day a first date or outing i'd be so nervous and scared and thinking about to say, if its going to flop will i hear from her again and all this malarkey etc.

Now because I've met so many women in my life, been on so many dates etc. it's just natural.
 
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All the men at my church we meet once a month to just discuss men thing. It's a small church so like 15 men, and like 12 of em were married.

Everyone of em said their greatest fear is their marriage failing, that it's a big struggle. That they come hom efrom work and many times just want to lie on teh couch watch tv and go to sleep but their wives just nag em and make meaningless arguments.

I'm not saying this to speak out against marriage etc. as they are still married and love their wives etc., but just to say be thankful in any situation you have. I'm single and while sometimes the thoughts of relationships,marriage, kids come into my mind I'm not accountable to anyone but myself. If I come home form work and want to hop right into bed and watch a tv show for the next ten hours I can.

Sometimes we want this and that but forget to appreciate what we do have brehs
 
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Lord Scarf said:
All the men at my church we meet once a month to just discuss men thing. It's a small church so like 15 men, and like 12 of em were married.

Everyone of em said their greatest fear is their marriage failing, that it's a big struggle. That they come hom efrom work and many times just want to lie on teh couch watch tv and go to sleep but their wives just nag em and make meaningless arguments.

I'm not saying this to speak out against marriage etc. as they are still married and love their wives etc., but just to say be thankful in any situation you have. I'm single and while sometimes the thoughts of relationships,marriage, kids come into my mind I'm not accountable to anyone but myself. If I come home form work and want to hop right into bed and watch a tv show for the next ten hours I can.

Sometimes we want this and that but forget to appreciate what we do have brehs
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I'm wondering in situations like these when did these individuals get married.....perhaps too young or prior to taking care of the things most men naturally get out of the way.

I'm happily married and have been so for a long time, and primarily due to being ready. All the single things I got out of the way prior to getting married, so really I just ready to focus on that partnership, which is what marriage basically is. Licensed partnership.
 
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Lord Scarf said:
All the men at my church we meet once a month to just discuss men thing. It's a small church so like 15 men, and like 12 of em were married.

Everyone of em said their greatest fear is their marriage failing, that it's a big struggle. That they come hom efrom work and many times just want to lie on teh couch watch tv and go to sleep but their wives just nag em and make meaningless arguments.

I'm not saying this to speak out against marriage etc. as they are still married and love their wives etc., but just to say be thankful in any situation you have. I'm single and while sometimes the thoughts of relationships,marriage, kids come into my mind I'm not accountable to anyone but myself. If I come home form work and want to hop right into bed and watch a tv show for the next ten hours I can.

Sometimes we want this and that but forget to appreciate what we do have brehs
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Yep, that peace of mind is so satisfying.

Sometimes I say to myself do I want to be doing this bachelor thing for a while? And sometimes I yearn for that one woman then I remember my previous marriage and all the issues in that and push that idea to the side. It's going to take a very special woman to change that.

It's rare the woman who can just let a man just chill and relax and not have to be doing anything. But that's usually where the disconnect begins as she looks at him as 'boring'. Despite her not actually wanting to do anything herself

Just back from Hong Kong where I was on my own time, could do and go where I wanted when I wished. Had my own itinerary. Didnt have that argument that every couple has whilst on holiday. Met a different woman every night for dinner and let them show me the city.
 
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Silkk said:
Wow....This chick got a crazy amount of real estate in your head lol
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Why y'all nikkas act too cool on a message board? I came in here to chat, giving y'all the play by play.:gucci:

Cali_livin said:
@CarmelBarbie @Silkk @360dagod @Lord Scarf

Came into work to drop something off (7 day a week industry) co-worker said "Hey" I said "Hey :unimpressed:" Kept it pushing.
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UPDATE: Before I left....she comes up to me "hey I just want you to know, I'm talking to someone right now. :troll:"

I said, "well that's great. :skip:"

:mjlol: Asking me all these irrelevant personals every day like we homies then want to be on some funny shyt.:pachaha:

Glad to hear. :blessed:
 
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Cali_livin said:
Why y'all nikkas act too cool on a message board? I came in here to chat, giving y'all the play by play.:gucci:


UPDATE: Before I left....she comes up to me "hey I just want you to know, I'm talking to someone right now. :troll:"

I said, "well that's great. :skip:"

:mjlol: Asking me all these irrelevant personals every day like we homies then want to be on some funny shyt.:pachaha:

Glad to hear. :blessed:
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Its not being too cool.....I legit told you that shyt a few posts back. Find another chick.

You feeding her ego & free attention. Unfortunately you work with her & gotta deal with her every day.
 
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Cali_livin said:
Why y'all nikkas act too cool on a message board? I came in here to chat, giving y'all the play by play.:gucci:


UPDATE: Before I left....she comes up to me "hey I just want you to know, I'm talking to someone right now. :troll:"

I said, "well that's great. :skip:"

:mjlol: Asking me all these irrelevant personals every day like we homies then want to be on some funny shyt.:pachaha:

Glad to hear. :blessed:
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I kind of agree with everyone else bring a cuter girl around. You get a cute chick and she will prob fall in line when she sees it.
 
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