Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CarmelBarbie]

aint that some bullshyt breh

some random chick i stopped seeing back in april has been trying to slide in my dm's these 2 months talking about
"why did we stop talking lol hehe, you met me at my worse"

im like this bytch here
now she in my inbox today talking about can i help her take "photo's" for her gram

told the bytch yeah sure, but its gonna cost ya


will report back tomorrow afternoon

don’t you have a gf? Lmao

 

[mortuus est]

Spoiler: Text from girl i havent spoken to in ages

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[mortuus est]

don’t you have a gf? Lmao

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[CarmelBarbie]

its not about that, its more he gives the vibes of he likes white women

chicks around my way will let it be known they dont fuk with you if you "look" like you date white women or the type to date white chicks

he's aura isnt black enough for them

I see, but never knew anyone that correlated that with whether someone went to an hbcu. A lot of us can tell when brehs date ww, they give off a vibe. Still, that doesn’t explain why he gets pegged in the “clean up/jump through hoop” category. When we think a breh doesn’t date bw, we just wont fukk with them.

 

[mortuus est]

I see, but never knew anyone that correlated that with whether someone went to an hbcu. A lot of us can tell when brehs date ww, they give off a vibe. Still, that doesn’t explain why he gets pegged in the “clean up/jump through hoop” category. When we think a breh doesn’t date bw, we just wont fukk with them.

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[Ahadi]

tbh ive seen it with younger women like early 20s but it happens

breh should be alright tho by what he posted seems like he would be a catch , no chick is turning down a decently dressed breh for nothing , breh cant even get a art hoe , he lookin shady in all them garments , he need a polo and black jeans

That’s a great idea. I’ll make sure I have loud on me at all times, the blinkie tucked, Amiri Jeans, With a moncler bubble & some a polo shirt. Oh yeah and a Henny bottle poking out my jacket.




See when that user posted that “bw like you to be a certain stereotype” I didn’t think he was trolling at all. But again, I’m in NYC. Everyone on here seems to be living in the South. Which I’m sure is a different experience.

 

[mortuus est]

That’s a great idea. I’ll make sure I have loud on me at all times, the blinkie tucked, Amiri Jeans, With a moncler bubble & some a polo shirt. Oh yeah and a Henny bottle poking out my jacket.

kneega you cant even pull art hoes and them hoes broke and you dressed out here like you work in wells fargo

 

[SATAN]

That’s a great idea. I’ll make sure I have loud on me at all times, the blinkie tucked, Amiri Jeans, With a moncler bubble & some a polo shirt. Oh yeah and a Henny bottle poking out my jacket.

Honestly, a polo and black jeans is my go to fit. I wear short sleeved stretch polos with a black slimfit undershirt. If you're in good shape, the muscles be poppin and you'll get a lot of attention from women.

A polo and dark colored pants ain't gotta be expensive, I get Alfani polos and henleys from Macy's.

 

[Ahadi]

kneega you cant even pull art hoes and them hoes broke and you dressed out here like you work in wells fargo

Nah. Corporate joints are usually my bag, but they’re always thinking about 5-10 year plans. Not ready yet.

 

[Ahadi]

Honestly, a polo and black jeans is my go to fit. I wear short sleeved stretch polos with a black slimfit undershirt. If you're in good shape, the muscles be poppin and you'll get a lot of attention from women.

A polo and dark colored pants ain't gotta be expensive, I get Alfani polos and henleys from Macy's.

This turned into a job interview. If that’s what it takes, I don’t want the fukking job.

 

[SATAN]

This turned into a job interview. If that’s what it takes, I don’t want the fukking job.

I wore the fit to my job interview, too.

I got the job

 

[mortuus est]

Nah. Corporate joints are usually my bag, but they’re always thinking about 5-10 year plans. Not ready yet.

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[Ahadi]

I wore the fit to my job interview, too.

I got the job

I will say, when I grew my hair out, had curls I did “exude more blackness”

 

[African_brehda]

How do y'all usually escalate shyt when she's back at your crib?

 

[Astroslik]

Normally I’ve been outcasted or considered not black enough cause I didn’t go to an HBCU.

I would like to think so lol. I tend to look in the mirror a lot and care about my looks. I get the “handsome” compliment. Maybe a flirty “you’re dangerous” here and there, but not cute or sexy. I’m 6FT on the dot. 160lb / soccer player build & dress fly all the time. (Turtleneck, knit sweaters, dress pants/ripped jeans it varies)

Minus the trench coat

I can’t differentiate the market that well. I know I can’t pull hood joints. My best bet is artsy girls, but even then that gets kinda difficult sometimes. The women are in my age range. I’m 27.

A couple of women before said they didn’t think they were good enough or I’m intimidated cause I have my shyt together. I’ve also hear when I’m in a suit for a big meeting or a presentation day, they’ll assume I don’t date black women. Oh I’m in NYC btw.

Those are insecure/low self esteem black women.

Run far away.