Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Majestic

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Brehs, I wanted to meet up with this bytch last week, but she had to cancel cuz she has classwork to do within a deadline so I said cool and moved it to next week. In the process of doing so she invited me to an art show that displays her work. So went there and saw that she invited her other friends too. ok cool. she showed me her works too and told me she had to go get her friend and said I should look at other peoples work and at the end she invited me to go clubbing with her friends. so we go clubbing and I didn't get the feel that she liked me. Spoke to me a few times, but hardly gave me eye contact when we was all dancing. Should I cancel our next meeting cuz I ain't about wasting my time in 2020?
 

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I just hope I don't see anyone coming in this thread crying when they find out they girl cheated :lolbron:

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Fair enough
 

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I been cheating all year fam. 3 kills since New year's. Chic from hinge is in the bathroom as we speak. First link smash:yeshrug:

Wifey wants to have a "sit down" later today to talk about our relationship. I'm breaking it off. I haven't smashed her in bout 2 months. She's "busy with school" bytch I have needs :manny:
She's been fuccing somebody else those last 2 months. So you doing the right thing
 

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ok fellas i need some advice. I got a new lady im seeing and we decided to be exclusive like last week.. (First adult relationship where I actually kinda give a fukk about them). The problem is I went out with my boys last weekend and got drunk drunk, like back in college drunk, and I made out with some random from LA that was visiting...

Now for a while I was contemplating telling my new lady about it but thought better of it and decided to take it to the grave and just be more careful in the future.

Now my question yall...am I doing the right thing here? :win:

Throw away everything in your mind that you’ve seen on tv as a kid when it comes to women. Shyt like that, stays with you to the grave. Never bring up no bs like that. She will hold that over your head forever.
 

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Brehs, I wanted to meet up with this bytch last week, but she had to cancel cuz she has classwork to do within a deadline so I said cool and moved it to next week. In the process of doing so she invited me to an art show that displays her work. So went there and saw that she invited her other friends too. ok cool. she showed me her works too and told me she had to go get her friend and said I should look at other peoples work and at the end she invited me to go clubbing with her friends. so we go clubbing and I didn't get the feel that she liked me. Spoke to me a few times, but hardly gave me eye contact when we was all dancing. Should I cancel our next meeting cuz I ain't about wasting my time in 2020?

She’s indirectly telling you she’s not interested. “Go look at other ppl a work” = Go talk to other ppl.

Move on & keep talking to other women.

My mantra is “IF YOU DONT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH A WOMAN, ITS A NO”
 

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I been cheating all year fam. 3 kills since New year's. Chic from hinge is in the bathroom as we speak. First link smash:yeshrug:

Wifey wants to have a "sit down" later today to talk about our relationship. I'm breaking it off. I haven't smashed her in bout 2 months. She's "busy with school" bytch I have needs :manny:
How Breh? :wtf:



Chick pulled that "im tired" shyt on me 2 nights in a row and I had to :camby: her ass, bytch go play with somebody else :camby:
 

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I really need to take wavier pics for these sites. I get called beautiful IRL but im not conveying in online at all lol
 

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Brehs, I wanted to meet up with this bytch last week, but she had to cancel cuz she has classwork to do within a deadline so I said cool and moved it to next week. In the process of doing so she invited me to an art show that displays her work. So went there and saw that she invited her other friends too. ok cool. she showed me her works too and told me she had to go get her friend and said I should look at other peoples work and at the end she invited me to go clubbing with her friends. so we go clubbing and I didn't get the feel that she liked me. Spoke to me a few times, but hardly gave me eye contact when we was all dancing. Should I cancel our next meeting cuz I ain't about wasting my time in 2020?

Don’t cancel. You said she had other friends there so she was probably just mingling and trying to see how you move. Meet up with her next week and push the envelope a little bit. If the opportunity presents itself, give her a little light touch to gauge what she’s on. Maintain eye contact with her, whether or not it seems to make her a little uncomfortable. Just enjoy whatever it is y’all do. If the vibe isn’t there, then cut it.
 

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ok fellas i need some advice. I got a new lady im seeing and we decided to be exclusive like last week.. (First adult relationship where I actually kinda give a fukk about them). The problem is I went out with my boys last weekend and got drunk drunk, like back in college drunk, and I made out with some random from LA that was visiting...

Now for a while I was contemplating telling my new lady about it but thought better of it and decided to take it to the grave and just be more careful in the future.

Now my question yall...am I doing the right thing here? :win:
Hell to the naw, don't tell her shyt.
 

Majestic

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She’s indirectly telling you she’s not interested. “Go look at other ppl a work” = Go talk to other ppl.

Move on & keep talking to other women.

My mantra is “IF YOU DONT KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH A WOMAN, ITS A NO”
To be fair she had to stay where her work was and answer questions on what people asked her and she could not got anywhere else. I didn't like the vibe I was getting from her or maybe I'm just overthinking it. The thing with her is what she replys back to my IG messages very quickly, has viewed all my stories so far and even commented on one of them. I just can't read her. what to do....
 

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Don’t cancel. You said she had other friends there so she was probably just mingling and trying to see how you move. Meet up with her next week and push the envelope a little bit. If the opportunity presents itself, give her a little light touch to gauge what she’s on. Maintain eye contact with her, whether or not it seems to make her a little uncomfortable. Just enjoy whatever it is y’all do. If the vibe isn’t there, then cut it.
think i might cancel on her, i was kinda annoyed with the bullshyt she pulled :francis:
 
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