Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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For me, it means I’m not that interested. I’ll put it this way, when I’m feeling a dude, I just can’t help it, if he goes a few days without contact, I’m going to throw some bait to make sure he’s still interested. The goal is to stay on his mind, like he is on mind. Dating rules get modified and then later abandoned. When I’m lukewarm or not interested, I won’t ever initiate first. The caveat is that this depends on communication frequency. For example if you text every couple of days, there’s never a need for me to initiate first because I know based on how often you text me, that your going to reach out soon at some point anyway. In that case, if I like you, but don’t want to show my hand, i can hold off because I know your going to hit me up. But if 4 days have gone by and I haven’t sent you any contact, there’s no date planned, etc., and you have contacted me either? Chances are that I’m not really interested and your someone I’m talking to out of boredom, or when I run out of options. If I never try to see what your schedule is like, I’m slow to respond when you ask me out on dates, I never initiate contact, even when several days have passed without communication, and you have a feeling that somethings not right with it. Trust that feeling. If you feel like your doing too much, and not getting anything back, that’s your conscious letting you know—pay attention to that feeling and move on.

In general, of course it’s expected for the men to initiate first, but pay attention to how often y’all talk, how quick she responds, especially to dates, and throw tests in there every now and then. Let a few days pass without communicating. See if she hits you up. :yeshrug: Fall back every now and then, and act like your not interested, almost scaring her into thinking that you not feeling her like she thought and see how she responds. If she hits you up with a silly text days later but doesn’t inquire about kicking it or plays a game when you try to set something up, your probably being used for ego boost. But if she’s hitting you up and trying to see what your schedule is like, and whatnot... I mean you have a feeling breh, trust it.


I could write a dissertation on what was said here. I believe this type of thinking is the reason why I'm not even interested in deal with the so-called dating world. I don't know if or when I will return to it. If a women dosent hit me up about another date or whatever ...I'm nonchalant so I could care wither a women text back or not. Especially if I'm the one that constantly entertaining you the women. I think now that im mid 30 I have no time or will to deal with the trivial things that women try to pull off . I'm not interested in giving you an ego boost ...I'm not interested in being entertainment to etc. I'm just grateful I can see past all the BS.
 

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ill be in london next week (im from europe though and have been in london before) how can i best eat? ill probably be out in camden most likely and only out to party for one day how can i best eat @VertigoKnight

Sorry breh missed this post. Had too many notifications.

Depending what kind of chicks you're looking for Camden may not be the spot. It's more touristy than anything.

My old hood Peckham is popping. You can get a train straight to South London. Check and see if Bussey Building are having any events a lot of the students chicks from Goldsmith uni and camberwell art college pull up there.

Easy layups all night long. Seen them posh sophie's all over the brehs there and plenty of amazing looking sistas as well. And no bad vibes.

For day and early evening spots see if Frank's rooftop bar is still open. Again a place that attracts lots of different and friendly women and no dikkheads. Can chill whilst looking out over London.

Outside of those. I'd say Dalston and shoreditch are worth checking but those places are a bit more more spread out.
 

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i was in a situation like this. i called the girl out for her lack of initiation and it turned out there was lukewarm/hesitant...but she told me WHY she was
also, it turned out she was just used to the guy being the aggressor

6 months later and its serious/we dating

@Atlrocafella ...go with what @CarmelBarbie said. However, before you give up just call the chick out and see how she reacts. If she reacts like a bird, keep it moving. If she fixes up, she could be a real one.
Good looking out to you and @CarmelBarbie on the insight. Haven’t heard from her since Saturday, but I’ll see what’s up by Wednesday if I haven’t heard anything.
 

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Give women your number brehs, it's a great upfront filter. The interested ones will reach out, trust me.

That method varies...:patrice:

You want to at least have the opportunity to potentially put the ball in your court..
If the bytch dont pick up, that's fine...

But to let her decide when she cant even figure her own emotions, you might have missed out because she simply second guessed herself...
 

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Good looking out to you and @CarmelBarbie on the insight. Haven’t heard from her since Saturday, but I’ll see what’s up by Wednesday if I haven’t heard anything.



I think the club/lounge dates where you can get as physical as possible provide the best return on investment..where if she sweated and felt freaky, you have a good chance of her hitting you up..


These bytches wanna thot and you gotta provide the vibe..:ld:
 

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That method varies...:patrice:

You want to at least have the opportunity to potentially put the ball in your court..
If the bytch dont pick up, that's fine...

But to let her decide when she cant even figure her own emotions, you might have missed out because she simply second guessed herself...

I'll admit that I'm using this method when I already got two women in my roster, but the call return rate is actually very high for me, above 50%. Giving your number is avery unique line that does so much in terms of making you stand out in the eyes of today's woman who's bombarded with attention on social media.
 

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Sorry breh missed this post. Had too many notifications.

Depending what kind of chicks you're looking for Camden may not be the spot. It's more touristy than anything.

My old hood Peckham is popping. You can get a train straight to South London. Check and see if Bussey Building are having any events a lot of the students chicks from Goldsmith uni and camberwell art college pull up there.

Easy layups all night long. Seen them posh sophie's all over the brehs there and plenty of amazing looking sistas as well. And no bad vibes.

For day and early evening spots see if Frank's rooftop bar is still open. Again a place that attracts lots of different and friendly women and no dikkheads. Can chill whilst looking out over London.

Outside of those. I'd say Dalston and shoreditch are worth checking but those places are a bit more more spread out.
Not looking for specific type of woman any women really. He reason i said camden is because i have thing i need to do there late in the afternoon so it kinda makes sense to go out there.
Thanks for the recommendation anyway ill see what my friends im meeting up with say
 
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This is also why men lie when talking to women. When in conversation you always have to talk about things that interest WOMEN . The effort is never really reciprocated. I say this because I don't ant women that are ... Hilarious...I don't know any women that philosophical. I'm always amazed that a man has to be this list of things and he can NEVER say the wrong thing are the woman's vagina drys up . It interesting cause all I heard was how SURFACE men are ....
 

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I'll admit that I'm using this method when I already got two women in my roster, but the call return rate is actually very high for me, above 50%. Giving your number is avery unique line that does so much in terms of making you stand out in the eyes of today's woman who's bombarded with attention on social media.

How many have you closed/hung out with?
 
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Y'all gotta stop trying to be perfect for these women cause they not perfect themselves. Nobody is going to say the perfect words or have the most intriguing conversation. As men don't take that shyt as a slight to you. Women at times can be frankly unreasonable.
 

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If it’s me naw I ain’t giving you shyt unless you sucking on some big meat and giving some p*ssy....pause...naw. I changed my mind. Just like you (her, she) did. I ain’t giving you shyt, kiss my ass get the fukk off my line and go fukk yourself! Why you gotta call me in a crisis? Who the fukk am I? Capt Save a Ho?
:mjtf:

Eh? You have a great point. I guess...for me...I’d have whipped out my dikk and let it catch some air and be like hey, it ain’t gonna suck itself! :usure:

This may sound harsh but imma give some advice from a mans perspective. From 12-4 am only a few things are happening. We can acknowledge you and your story but please know. We want to fukk.

My current lady would come over at 9-4 and every single time I’d end up with a long hard ass dikk. Waving that mf like a scepter or baton in her face. She jacking me off but not putting out. Won’t suck it. So ok. 3. Magic number. If we don’t fukk in 3 heavy petting episodes I’m dumping it. We fukked on the fourth. She insisted to come over and I’m like hey, you not ready for anything physical so stop coming this late. I did give her the cold shoulder because I’m like hey, we too mf old for this! We fukking or what? I didn’t say that but she knew that because of the vibe, we was mutual. What you saving it for? Who? When? The worms? I’m special and if you claiming me then let’s be real.

That was 6 months ago. I love this woman. And we fukk like jack rabbits! She ain’t no hoe and we mesh flow like water. Communication, I know y’all be like I don’t want to be a pimp and dump but if he got that potential to be the dude, is he like everybody else or is he special?

:unimpressed:

Your penis descriptions are killing me :mjlol:
 
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