Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Yea i usually cold approach or get comfortable with a chick on fb.
Those dating sites are hell
So she Said “I was making a joke lol nvrm” I said “oh your suppose to be a comedian? Where’s the Netflix special at?” She follows up with “lol I’m only doing live shows at the moment” then I say “lemme find out” and then she goes “I’m booked for weeks lmao” I responded with a& trash.
She’s still flirting and joking with you breh. It’s a semi test, trying to see how much you’ll persist. If you fall back and don’t say anything else to show that you still interested she’ll probably come back and say she’s joking again. But if you continue the flirting, and show her you really trying to see her, your showing your hand—so to speak, showing that your an easy mark. You responded right. Next time don’t do the trash. The shrug was enough.
You’re a mind reader lol. She came back with a “haha i was joking. But I’m currently in Argentina for Months atm”
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@CarmelBarbie let me ask a quick question 
, If the woman never initiates contact with the man(even after the first date), does that mean she’s not really interested like that? Or is it because she believes the dude should always reach out first?
I’m of the mindset that communication goes both ways, I can’t keep reaching out, checking on you and you don’t return the same. Makes me feel like I’m doing to much and I begin the process of sending you to the bushes.
, If the woman never initiates contact with the man(even after the first date), does that mean she’s not really interested like that? Or is it because she believes the dude should always reach out first?I’m of the mindset that communication goes both ways, I can’t keep reaching out, checking on you and you don’t return the same. Makes me feel like I’m doing to much and I begin the process of sending you to the bushes.
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@CarmelBarbie let me ask a quick question
I’m of the mindset that communication doesn’t both ways, I can’t keep reaching out, checking on you and you don’t return the same. Makes me feel like I’m doing to much and I begin the process of sending you to the bushes.
For me, it means I’m not that interested. I’ll put it this way, when I’m feeling a dude, I just can’t help it, if he goes a few days without contact, I’m going to throw some bait to make sure he’s still interested. The goal is to stay on his mind, like he is on mind. Dating rules get modified and then later abandoned. When I’m lukewarm or not interested, I won’t ever initiate first. The caveat is that this depends on communication frequency. For example if you text every couple of days, there’s never a need for me to initiate first because I know based on how often you text me, that your going to reach out soon at some point anyway. In that case, if I like you, but don’t want to show my hand, i can hold off because I know your going to hit me up. But if 4 days have gone by and I haven’t sent you any contact, there’s no date planned, etc., and you have contacted me either? Chances are that I’m not really interested and your someone I’m talking to out of boredom, or when I run out of options. If I never try to see what your schedule is like, I’m slow to respond when you ask me out on dates, I never initiate contact, even when several days have passed without communication, and you have a feeling that somethings not right with it. Trust that feeling. If you feel like your doing too much, and not getting anything back, that’s your conscious letting you know—pay attention to that feeling and move on.
In general, of course it’s expected for the men to initiate first, but pay attention to how often y’all talk, how quick she responds, especially to dates, and throw tests in there every now and then. Let a few days pass without communicating. See if she hits you up.
Fall back every now and then, and act like your not interested, almost scaring her into thinking that you not feeling her like she thought and see how she responds. If she hits you up with a silly text days later but doesn’t inquire about kicking it or plays a game when you try to set something up, your probably being used for ego boost. But if she’s hitting you up and trying to see what your schedule is like, and whatnot... I mean you have a feeling breh, trust it.
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When you try to do right thing you get bad results
When you act grimey you get positive results
U going after the wrong trype of girls.
Women like that is women u want to stay away from
You right..For me, it means I’m not that interested. I’ll put it this way, when I’m feeling a dude, I just can’t help it, if he goes a few days without contact, I’m going to throw some bait to make sure he’s still interested. The goal is to stay on his mind, like he is on mind. Dating rules get modified and then later abandoned. When I’m lukewarm or not interested, I won’t ever initiate first. The caveat is that this depends on communication frequency. For example if you text every couple of days, there’s never a need for me to initiate first because I know based on how often you text me, that your going to reach out soon at some point anyway. In that case, if I like you, but don’t want to show my hand, i can hold off because I know your going to hit me up. But if 4 days have gone by and I haven’t sent you any contact, there’s no date planned, etc., and you have contacted me either? Chances are that I’m not really interested and your someone I’m talking to out of boredom, or when I run out of options. If I never try to see what your schedule is like, I’m slow to respond when you ask me out on dates, I never initiate contact, even when several days have passed without communication, and you have a feeling that somethings not right with it. Trust that feeling. If you feel like your doing too much, and not getting anything back, that’s your conscious letting you know—pay attention to that feeling and move on.
In general, of course it’s expected for the men to initiate first, but pay attention to how often y’all talk, how quick she responds, especially to dates, and throw tests in there every now and then. Let a few days pass without communicating. See if she hits you up.
I fell back from a chick because I was working and tbh I was in good shape and getting so much female attention I put shorty on the back burner.
She then texted me all dramatically like
"Well it was nice knowing you, sorry I upset you
"I was "
"I text her back that I was just busy then she said she got a hotel room and wants to drive me to the coast because it was my birthday
Cel 510 kid ados forever
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She did u a favor if she like that negative energy and u positive its never gonna work.
Keep ur positive energy for a woman that will appreciate it.
For me, it means I’m not that interested. I’ll put it this way, when I’m feeling a dude, I just can’t help it, if he goes a few days without contact, I’m going to throw some bait to make sure he’s still interested. The goal is to stay on his mind, like he is on mind. Dating rules get modified and then later abandoned. When I’m lukewarm or not interested, I won’t ever initiate first. The caveat is that this depends on communication frequency. For example if you text every couple of days, there’s never a need for me to initiate first because I know based on how often you text me, that your going to reach out soon at some point anyway. In that case, if I like you, but don’t want to show my hand, i can hold off because I know your going to hit me up. But if 4 days have gone by and I haven’t sent you any contact, there’s no date planned, etc., and you have contacted me either? Chances are that I’m not really interested and your someone I’m talking to out of boredom, or when I run out of options. If I never try to see what your schedule is like, I’m slow to respond when you ask me out on dates, I never initiate contact, even when several days have passed without communication, and you have a feeling that somethings not right with it. Trust that feeling. If you feel like your doing too much, and not getting anything back, that’s your conscious letting you know—pay attention to that feeling and move on.
In general, of course it’s expected for the men to initiate first, but pay attention to how often y’all talk, how quick she responds, especially to dates, and throw tests in there every now and then. Let a few days pass without communicating. See if she hits you up.
yep
print this out and pin it to the fridge brehs