breh, you're starting this thing off badly, man. if u go on a date with a chick, and u expressed interest via flirting, touching, etc, u really shouldnt be second guessing urself after said date is over. its in a woman's nature to reach out to a guy she likes after a date.Good looking out to you and @CarmelBarbie on the insight. Haven’t heard from her since Saturday, but I’ll see what’s up by Wednesday if I haven’t heard anything.
People used to laugh me out the room when I would say ...NVM
He works on Wall Street.
He can wipe his ass with that money.
Yeah, as you get older your patience gets shorter and shorter. You enjoy your own company to.I could write a dissertation on what was said here. I believe this type of thinking is the reason why I'm not even interested in deal with the so-called dating world. I don't know if or when I will return to it. If a women dosent hit me up about another date or whatever ...I'm nonchalant so I could care wither a women text back or not. Especially if I'm the one that constantly entertaining you the women. I think now that im mid 30 I have no time or will to deal with the trivial things that women try to pull off . I'm not interested in giving you an ego boost ...I'm not interested in being entertainment to etc. I'm just grateful I can see past all the BS.
Mann listen
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he’s a professional golf player now.
we hung out again, Saturday. had a few drinks, good conversation etc etc
i straight up told him the next day “look, i’m into you.. let’s go on a real date” and he said he was into it
but it’s clear he has a roster of women he’s entertaining. it’s obviously he’s just looking for fun, so i’ll go along since i just left a terrible relationship 2 months ago and something casual is probably a better idea anyways.
She never had a problem. She was just playing hard to get. As she discovered she was one of many, she resigned to her fate.Okay, that further proves my point.
And second, so you’re okay with being on his roster?
What’s the problem again?
I use to feel a type of way of not getting the feedback I wanted but I stopped stressing. Reading a few books from the list a few of you guys put up, I had the concept of energy being reciprocated all fukked up. You give your energy to someone, your tank is empty but you have to refill it yourself.
My issue is where do I cut my losses? I like to give my all with but if interest isn’t there. I immediately it toss to the bushes which I feel is my issue. My patience gets thin trying to get a girl into a setting where she gets comfortable to be open but you can’t force that. I’m lost brehs