Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Chef]

What books you reading, breh?

Quiet: The Power of Introverts
Rebel Buddha
Unlearn

 

[Max.]

worked*

he’s a professional golf player now.

we hung out again, Saturday. had a few drinks, good conversation etc etc

i straight up told him the next day “look, i’m into you.. let’s go on a real date” and he said he was into it

but it’s clear he has a roster of women he’s entertaining. it’s obviously he’s just looking for fun, so i’ll go along since i just left a terrible relationship 2 months ago and something casual is probably a better idea anyways.

Damn this was kinda sad tbh

 

[360dagod]

Okay, that further proves my point.

And second, so you’re okay with being on his roster?

What’s the problem again?

Status and perception will overpower

 

[Astroslik]

Status and perception will overpower

shyt is a cheat code, no rules to abide by .

 

[360dagod]

I use to feel a type of way of not getting the feedback I wanted but I stopped stressing. Reading a few books from the list a few of you guys put up, I had the concept of energy being reciprocated all fukked up. You give your energy to someone, your tank is empty but you have to refill it yourself.

My issue is where do I cut my losses? I like to give my all with but if interest isn’t there. I immediately it toss to the bushes which I feel is my issue. My patience gets thin trying to get a girl into a setting where she gets comfortable to be open but you can’t force that. I’m lost brehs

Breh...

I'm hella reserved and introverted with people I dont know...

That shyt only works in a work environment where you can chip off and play the long game..

You gotta come out gunning...it takes more energy because it's not our style...

Whatever you gotta do to warm up, then you gotta do it

You can show the reserved side later ...

Women tend to associate quiet with "dark"and arrogant..so you are already in the "hole"..

Low energy dates is pretty much the death punch...

You gotta run and gun

 

[MikelArteta]

This chick I know :bandea:

Be loyal brehs

 

[Balla]

Yeah this is how women operate. They will fukk a nikka that don’t give them shyt, but give the cuffin nikka a headache.

Keep thinking y’all gotta pay for dates n shyt.

bytches not loyal.

 

[Balla]

nikkas daughters don’t even love them.

I just saw a YouTube video of Floyd with his daughter, and this one chick commented that God gave herself the wrong dad

Can’t believe this shyt

 

[VertigoKnight]

Met with the black university lecturer from Toronto on Saturday, Delicious in person. Slim, toned and well built. And can hold a conversation.

Her fam is from St Lucia mine is from Barbados. So we vibed and flirted from the off and just chilled at the beach most of the day. Had my sunglasses on scoping her tittys out. Went back to her hotel room so she could change her shoes and we played around before we went to dinner. Came back afterwards for a shower and then got down to it.

Love dealing with women who come with clear intent. She's going to be busy here, but when she has downtime she wants to 'hang out' as much as she can before she flies back.

Happy to oblige.

 

[Sinnerman]

This dentist lady is probably the first "dime" I've ever dated and all the props I've been getting when we go out together is hilarious

 

[Jhoon]

This dentist lady is probably the first "dime" I've ever dated and all the props I've been getting when we go out together is hilarious

The woman with the ex husband randy?

 

[Data-Hawk]

Okay, that further proves my point.

And second, so you’re okay with being on his roster?

What’s the problem again?

What's funny is him having a roster makes him even more attractive.....lol

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

Nikka might have to cut off my poly thing We used to fukk with each other heavily, then outta nowhere she started becoming distant. I know she be working and shyt so that’s why I don’t press the issue but, it still didn’t/doesn’t feel right. She ain’t my girl but she was fasho a viable candidate. Has a great relationship with her dad, she can cook, she a freak, thick in all the right places, goes to the gym, and wants to give me kids Like damn nikka I thought I scored with her but, I think it’s because she still 18 and ain’t tryna be in nothing serious. But damn, that’s an L. Throw away a possibly great future with a nikka who’s down for you to thot it up brehs

 

[Jhoon]

What's funny is him having a roster makes him even more attractive.....lol

At this point in her life she’s most attracted to drama.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Nikka might have to cut off my poly thing We used to fukk with each other heavily, then outta nowhere she started becoming distant. I know she be working and shyt so that’s why I don’t press the issue but, it still didn’t/doesn’t feel right. She ain’t my girl but she was fasho a viable candidate. Has a great relationship with her dad, she can cook, she a freak, thick in all the right places, goes to the gym, and wants to give me kids Like damn nikka I thought I scored with her but, I think it’s because she still 18 and ain’t tryna be in nothing serious. But damn, that’s an L. Throw away a possibly great future with a nikka who’s down for you to thot it up brehs

How older are you breh compared to her?

You can't be expecting to lock down an 18yr old in this day and age.

Plus always trust your gut, sounds like she's on the way out of messing with you. I've had similar situations and ignored what my body was telling me.

Maybe you need to pull the trigger first and dump her so at least she doesn't get to end this.