Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

Quick question.

So I’m talking to a Egyptian girl on IG. We speak for a bit, then I proceed with telling her how I’m interested to learn about her & her Egyptian side & drop my number. I didn’t read the DM, but she said “is that the amount....”

Right now, I’m bushing her because she didn’t shoot the text. Should I open the DM? Or just pretend I didn’t read it. As of now she’s going hard looking at all my vacation stories.

 

[DaRealness]

Spittin some facts but she on astro-shea butter tip.

If she wasn't worth listening to I wouldn't even post her videos.



She said a lot of the shyt I been saying in here.

 

[360dagod]

I hadn’t left my house yet when she was changing up the times, so I didn’t really have a problem with it yet.

But we finally settled to meet at 9:30. I call her at 9:45 to see where she’s at and I get no answer. I call and text her again at 9:55 and still get no answer. At this point I’m like this bih stood me up.

Soon as I leave the restaurant and hop in my car to pull off, she calls me apologizing and says she 15minutes away and begs me to not leave.

One part of my brain told me to say fukk her and dip off, the other part told me to stick around and see what’s up, so I went with the latter. Ended up being a goodnight overall and she invited me over to her place later today to make up for the lateness

Lol I would have been heated something serious

 

[Abraxus]

So I got this redhead pawgs number I have a lab/class together with on Tuesday..she straight up told me she has a boyfriend but that we can study together.

Ok whatever, I need help with the shyt and she understands it anyways so I wasn’t too disappointed. So Wednesday we got dinner and went back to her room (private room) and she showered and had on nothing but a towel on for like 10 whole minutes around the kid. She eventually went in her closet and out on some tiny shorts and a t shirt..studying together and her boyfriend called her and she told him she was with her suitemate. Long story short I stayed and studied with the bytch until like 11:30 at night. I don’t know if she was choosing on the kid or not. I think I fukked up by not making a move. Does it sound like she was choosing?

I feel like all my ineptitude with women has came back since school has started again and my brain can only handle but so much shyt.

It doesn’t help that my main three homies got girlfriends now and don’t alley oop me p*ssy anymore/ don’t wanna go out and pick up bytches anymore.

Think I’m just gonna focus on these grades and worry about women later.

She definitely ‘chose’ you and remember, dump that nice guy shyt! Straight up. If she that comfortable around you to do that she can see herself either sucking you off or blowing her back out. YOU put her in the zone and didn’t strike, that’s a foul! You gotta redeem yourself now. She got a man but lying and giving you the green light? Take it! You don’t want that rep of being too nice cause they will equate that with soft. Naw, bytch not me! Even if she turned you down (which she won’t) you made your intentions clear! We either fukking as fukk buddies, friends with benefits or she’s your jump off! You’ve been warned!

 

[360dagod]

I'm gonna make some noise this fall...


Keep hitting those streets and keep the vibes positive

 

[George Gooney]

Quick question.

So I’m talking to a Egyptian girl on IG. We speak for a bit, then I proceed with telling her how I’m interested to learn about her & her Egyptian side & drop my number. I didn’t read the DM, but she said “is that the amount....”

Right now, I’m bushing her because she didn’t shoot the text. Should I open the DM? Or just pretend I didn’t read it. As of now she’s going hard looking at all my vacation stories.

Read the DM. then tell us what she said. Pending on her answer will determine whether or not to bush her.

 

[360dagod]

Quick question.

So I’m talking to a Egyptian girl on IG. We speak for a bit, then I proceed with telling her how I’m interested to learn about her & her Egyptian side & drop my number. I didn’t read the DM, but she said “is that the amount....”

Right now, I’m bushing her because she didn’t shoot the text. Should I open the DM? Or just pretend I didn’t read it. As of now she’s going hard looking at all my vacation stories.

I used to make the same mistake of "toying around"...

We seem to have the same overanalyzing issue

I was making 30 moves to get to something that I could have gotten in 3...and trying to micromanage

You go straight for the number brody...

Dont tell her you wanna know more about her Egyptian side...tell her you wanna get to know her period and go for the number..

 

[Abraxus]

Why not get a room?

If it’s me naw I ain’t giving you shyt unless you sucking on some big meat and giving some p*ssy....pause...naw. I changed my mind. Just like you (her, she) did. I ain’t giving you shyt, kiss my ass get the fukk off my line and go fukk yourself! Why you gotta call me in a crisis? Who the fukk am I? Capt Save a Ho?

 

[Abraxus]

Nah man... the only thing I can think of is being in court and the judge asking why I made those sexual choices.


I can hear it now


"Just because she was in a towel means she wanted you to make a move?"


I'm not making any moves


I need more signs.

Like her "accidently" letting her towel slip down a little.

She talking about sexual things while we studying

She flirting

Playing with her hair and other body cues....


I just don't trust the u see me in a towel for 5 mins so it's safe to assume u wanna fukk type shyt.


Women out here wearing shyt that reveals more than a towel ever could


I'm not doing it in this pc world

Nope

No

Eh? You have a great point. I guess...for me...I’d have whipped out my dikk and let it catch some air and be like hey, it ain’t gonna suck itself!

 

[Youseenmywork]

Huh? Do you guys consider the fwbs you have or one night stands romantic? People have sex with people they have no real feelings for all the time. The only difference in this case is that this was an ex of mine that I already had sex with, that I’m friends with now. I can’t have sex with men I don’t know very well, so it was nice to be able to have relations with someone I trust for that particular week. But no, there’s no romantic feelings on my end. I enjoy his company, but I’m back home now and I’m good with leaving things as they are and just being friends. I don’t know how that makes me sound like an old white man but ok lol.

I see you. You didn't want add another body to yo count so you went smashed an ex. Did you drive or fly ? This goes into a spiritual theory that I have that women if honest can't go LONG periods without male attention. This why I always say social media to me is really for women . It's for women to get their fix. I actually have been using social media less and less .

 

[Abraxus]

i need advice from men..

i met this guy off of Bumble, he was pursuing and putting kinda pressure on me to meet up and hang out, even though I was hesitant also because i’m financially strapped. he insisted anyways and offered to pay. and realized i probably shouldn’t be on a dating app since i’m trying to heal from my ex and our abusive relationship that was traumatizing to me. We made plans to hang out then i explained my situation to him and he appreciated my honesty but still encouraged me to at least give it a chance and told me not to over complicate things.

So we met up at a local bar, had a few drinks. We hit it off really well in my opinion, he was kind, a gentleman, funny, easy to talk to. He worked in finance on wallstreet and left that to become a golf pro. Were kinda opposites in terms of upbringing. But still had a lot in common. Anyways, about 12 he asked me if i was up for learning black jack because he mentioned he’d teach me prior to meeting up.

We ended up playing black jack until like 3:30-4 am, after we sat in his car and talked for awhile.

We flirted, kissed. etc he wanted to take it further and go back to his place and “watch a movie” but i stopped that and knew what it was he wanted. And i wasn’t trynna to sleep with him as casual sex isn’t my thing and i hold myself to higher standards now. Anyways, so i had him bring me to my car, thanked him for taking me out and we split ways..

and texted him a couple hours ago, wishing him a nice day at work. no response, before we hung out, he was the one texting me, getting no responses, kinda not taken seriously given my ex situation etc..

am i overthinking this? or over complicating it?

i was really into him. someone who had to convince me to even go out, but i really ended up enjoying my time with so if he dubs me i’ll be disappointed

i’ll let him pursue me. if he’s interested in seeing me again he’ll show it but it’s hard to not wonder what i did wrong or maybe i’m just being insecure or anxious

This may sound harsh but imma give some advice from a mans perspective. From 12-4 am only a few things are happening. We can acknowledge you and your story but please know. We want to fukk.

My current lady would come over at 9-4 and every single time I’d end up with a long hard ass dikk. Waving that mf like a scepter or baton in her face. She jacking me off but not putting out. Won’t suck it. So ok. 3. Magic number. If we don’t fukk in 3 heavy petting episodes I’m dumping it. We fukked on the fourth. She insisted to come over and I’m like hey, you not ready for anything physical so stop coming this late. I did give her the cold shoulder because I’m like hey, we too mf old for this! We fukking or what? I didn’t say that but she knew that because of the vibe, we was mutual. What you saving it for? Who? When? The worms? I’m special and if you claiming me then let’s be real.

That was 6 months ago. I love this woman. And we fukk like jack rabbits! She ain’t no hoe and we mesh flow like water. Communication, I know y’all be like I don’t want to be a pimp and dump but if he got that potential to be the dude, is he like everybody else or is he special?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I see you. You didn't want add another body to yo count so you went smashed an ex. Did you drive or fly ? This goes into a spiritual theory that I have that women if honest can't go LONG periods without male attention. This why I always say social media to me is really for women . It's for women to get their fix. I actually have been using social media less and less .

Yeah I didn’t want to add on to my body count or create a new soul tie. Me and him broke up on good terms and I know he wanted to, and so did I, we’re both grown. And I flew. He paid for my plane ticket.

As for your theory. I’m not on any social media, outside of LinkedIn. I haven’t been on social media since 2012.

 

[Ahadi]

I used to make the same mistake of "toying around"...

We seem to have the same overanalyzing issue

I was making 30 moves to get to something that I could have gotten in 3...and trying to micromanage

You go straight for the number brody...

Dont tell her you wanna know more about her Egyptian side...tell her you wanna get to know her period and go for the number..

Same. Yeah for the next time I’m just gona just short cut and just quit with the extra steps. I deleted the DM. So I don’t know what she said, but I know that she didn’t text me so I guess it’s bushes

 

[Ahadi]

Read the DM. then tell us what she said. Pending on her answer will determine whether or not to bush her.

Deleted the DM yesterday. I left my number and didn’t get a text so I guess it’s bushes.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Quick question.

So I’m talking to a Egyptian girl on IG. We speak for a bit, then I proceed with telling her how I’m interested to learn about her & her Egyptian side & drop my number. I didn’t read the DM, but she said “is that the amount....”

Right now, I’m bushing her because she didn’t shoot the text. Should I open the DM? Or just pretend I didn’t read it. As of now she’s going hard looking at all my vacation stories.

You didn’t even read the entire dm and already over analyzing it? Why not just read it? Unless your scared that your pickup line didn’t work the way you wanted it to, I don’t see why you wouldn’t just see what she said? You’re funny.