Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If y’all have a main shorty y’all consistently bussin down, better not fukk that up. Really ain’t shyt out here.

U mean wifey material or a chick in general ?

I really do believe a man should have a chick at all times and still get with women on the side to not end up empty handed.
 

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Met up with the nurse again
What’s crazy we work for the same network just different hospitals . Went out for dinner was there from 430 to 830, raps game started and she invited me over to her place to watch it.

Chick drives a brand new Lexus owns a swanky condo. Watched the game and then I was going to take a Uber home but she offered to drive me home. So she drove me home.
 

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Excellent video right here. This is an extension of my earlier point. If she doesn't LUST for you, then bounce. Too many dudes content with simply being 'liked' at best.
 

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When chicks aren't into you, just bush and move on. There's no 'playing hard to get' or "I'll get back to you on that" when she is really feeling you. They don't flake on you, waste your time, take a whole day to respond to a text etc. You know when someone is into you and there's been recent examples of that in this very thread just like how there has been examples of dudes who are dealing with chicks who are just not interested.

This isn't aimed at anyone in particular, I mention this because I forwarded the link of that black dude who got played by some Russian chick recently and this woman I know laughed and said, yeah, that woman clearly ain't feeling that dude and you can tell from the plain facial expressions and the body language. No chick who is remotely into a dude is gonna have her arms down to her sides and not even bother to smile for a picture.

If you have to doubt or second guess, then deep down you already know the answer. You know what your gut is telling you. The problem is, dudes are giving the benefit of the doubt (which I never do anymore) and still pursuing and then end up getting burnt when they could have just deaded it earlier on. Men give away their time and attention way too freely without making chicks earn it and that somewhat devalues you.


Yup
print this out, screen shot it and read and read it over again.
 

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I make it a point now that I don't text after a date unless she does first, I don't chase, I don't validate a woman I haven't slept with yet. And even after I do it's very rare.

Yup I’m the same if a woman is into you she will always get back to you first.

Those who are not you won’t hear from there again .

And I’m perfectly ok with that .
 

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God threw me some damn bones last night :wow:



:mjcry: women on a mission , beautiful feeling
 
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There is nothing more unattractive than a man who has female friends who doesn't know their boundaries.

Last night a female friend of a guy we are both friends with tells me how much dude likes me. I'm like "I have known dude for 10 years. If he was interested it seems like he would have said something by now." She continues "He just doesn't know how."

:gucci: Doesn't know how? This dude has had like 3 girlfriends since I have known him and plenty of in betweens.

I like her but she really needs to keep her nose out his business. If I was interested, just the fact that she felt it was okay to interject herself into a situation like that would have turned me off. How am I suppose to be in a relationship with you but you letting another female run you like she ya momma?
 

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There is nothing more unattractive than a man who has female friends who doesn't know their boundaries.

Last night a female friend of a guy we are both friends with tells me how much dude likes me. I'm like "I have known dude for 10 years. If he was interested it seems like he would have said something by now." She continues "He just doesn't know how."

:gucci: Doesn't know how? This dude has had like 3 girlfriends since I have known him and plenty of in betweens.

I like her but she really needs to keep her nose out his business. If I was interested, just the fact that she felt it was okay to interject herself into a situation like that would have turned me off. How am I suppose to be in a relationship with you but you letting another female run you like she ya momma?


Sorry to burst your bubble but there is no such thing as a male friend every male friend if given the chance would smash.

Male friends are just guys who have smashed and want to smash again and guys who haven’t smashed but want to smash
 

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Sorry to burst your bubble but there is no such thing as a male friend every male friend if given the chance would smash.

Male friends are just guys who have smashed and want to smash again and guys who haven’t smashed but want to smash

Well the validity of the title isn't what's up for debate. Wanting to smash is your business. Wanting to smash and letting the person you wanna smash fukk up opportunities for you to smash or build with other women is just foolish.
 

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bro how many dates have you gone on in the past 2 weeks:gucci:

Haha I cant even keep count breh. Tbh this date was actually pretty good in the end. She was a bit quiet throughout the week. But she told me she's just started working a new job that plus jetlag from Hong Kong.

But she was on form last night, very cute and bubbly arranged to meet next week. I got so engaged in talking to her didnt even examine the goods too closely.

I should maybe pause my dating accounts for a while, as each time I check them more chicks have matched or liked me.

:russ:
 

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Would it be scummy to smash my mans ex? :patrice:


brodie still be talking about getting back with her and shyt, but she’s a bad bytch and feeling a young nikka :wow:
 
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