Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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How do you guys start the conversation when these chicks have nothing in their profile? I usually try to ask about something in their pictures. It's just annoying sometimes because of the extreme lack of effort on their part.
Ask them why they don’t have nothing in their profile in a playful way
 

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Bro thank you for saying this cause I’ve been feeling like a c00n for saying this :snoop:

West African women (Specifically Nigerians) have a way of making West Indians seem inferior and have way too many variables I refuse to deal with.

Have little to no desire to even converse with them let alone pursue them if I’m being honest :yeshrug:


The funny thing no offense is their country is inferior
 

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Bro thank you for saying this cause I’ve been feeling like a c00n for saying this :snoop:

West African women (Specifically Nigerians) have a way of making West Indians seem inferior and have way too many variables I refuse to deal with.

Have little to no desire to even converse with them let alone pursue them if I’m being honest :yeshrug:

Don't feel any type of way, because they make their own stance very clear. Getting married to them especially is way out the question.

I prefer black women of Caribbean/Latin descent, so anything else is a non issue. I have dated other African women in the past though.

How do you guys start the conversation when these chicks have nothing in their profile? I usually try to ask about something in their pictures. It's just annoying sometimes because of the extreme lack of effort on their part.

I don't. If they can't be bothered to make any effort, neither will I. :yeshrug: That alone is a red flag.
 
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Just brushed my last vet before my rebuild. Time to refresh finally .

Looking for a generational #1 pick that I can give the max.

Summertime Chicago approaching :wow:
 

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Brehs remember your first heartbreak?

I remember I was like 22 and thought my life was over :heh:. I remember crying feeling immense emotional pain googling how to get your ex back and literally begging with gifts and cards. Accepting the friendship offered and I think I was down in the gutter for almost a year. I couldn't fathom how a woman I was with for like 2 years who i talked to every day could just stop cold turkey. I remember when i was her "friend" and she was talking about how this guy is chick looked like my ex but was from another dimension it seemed.

I can look back 12 years later and laugh and be thankful that ish taught me so much from never accepting "friendship" aka demotion, never beg, never cry just accept it.
 

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How do you guys start the conversation when these chicks have nothing in their profile? I usually try to ask about something in their pictures. It's just annoying sometimes because of the extreme lack of effort on their part.

Ask them what they like doing for fun? Are they in to travelling? Vacations? Where have they been, or want to go? Plans for this summer ?

U know travelling is the popular thing among females these days, so stick close to that subject, it will make u interesting:shaq:
 

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Was it really easier dealing with women a decade or two ago?

I hear from some older dudes that women didn't really flake as often nor have their noses up in the air as much.
 

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Was it really easier dealing with women a decade or two ago?

I hear from some older dudes that women didn't really flake as often nor have their noses up in the air as much.

Yeah because prior to social media and dating apps they weren't getting hundreds of likes and DMs from a ton of simps gassing their heads up all the time, so their options were way less - therefore they had to make some effort at least. Nowadays you got halfway decent looking chicks who think they are 1992 Halle Berry status because of thirsty lames online and deliberately flake and leave dudes hanging for shyts and giggles.

The game is totally different to what it was.
 

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So my dinner date with the Taiwanese chick went very well. Probably the easiest first date I've had in a while. Chick is even more beautiful in the flesh. And her body
is :wow: I swear I can't mess around with women who don't know what a gym or healthy eating is anymore I'vee been spoiled living here.

had to behave myself when I first saw her. Her ass was looking right in her jeans.

We prepped the meal together. Ate then made out and talked for 5 hrs. She messaged when she got home that she loved the evening and wants to see me again when I'm free.

I wanna put this chick through her paces. But I'm prepared to take it easy and not rush her.
 

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Brehs remember your first heartbreak?

I remember I was like 22 and thought my life was over :heh:. I remember crying feeling immense emotional pain googling how to get your ex back and literally begging with gifts and cards. Accepting the friendship offered and I think I was down in the gutter for almost a year. I couldn't fathom how a woman I was with for like 2 years who i talked to every day could just stop cold turkey. I remember when i was her "friend" and she was talking about how this guy is chick looked like my ex but was from another dimension it seemed.

I can look back 12 years later and laugh and be thankful that ish taught me so much from never accepting "friendship" aka demotion, never beg, never cry just accept it.


My og PAAG was my one. Chick straight up changed on me. Not gonna lie I simped her a bit too much after the power dynamics shifted and she went from really chasing me to me overchasing her. And we know that turns a woman off very quickly and it did her. I cringe at some of the things I did to get her back. Never again.

Last time I chatted to her last year when she messaged out of the blue wanting to chat and go for coffee as 'friends'. She said I broke her heart and the guy she'd been seeing a few months after me, also fukked her over.

But feelings do fade, a few times I wanted to message her. But nope I've met better women since then. I just think ego makes you want someone who has thrown you away. So it intensifies things. There are chicks I fukked last year I couldn't even remember their names now. But that chick stood out as we had pretty intense times together.

I still care for her but the intensity of love I had or thought I had for her has faded.
 
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Get stood up for the first time in your life brehs :laff:

Ended up salvaging the night by heading to another bar and picking up a pawg. I wanted to stop going out of my race,but fukk it she has nice thighs and I'm feeling insecure :dead:

And right on time, I get the apology text :camby:

My motto these days is #stressfreedating
 
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