Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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When chicks aren't into you, just bush and move on. There's no 'playing hard to get' or "I'll get back to you on that" when she is really feeling you. They don't flake on you, waste your time, take a whole day to respond to a text etc. You know when someone is into you and there's been recent examples of that in this very thread just like how there has been examples of dudes who are dealing with chicks who are just not interested.

This isn't aimed at anyone in particular, I mention this because I forwarded the link of that black dude who got played by some Russian chick recently and this woman I know laughed and said, yeah, that woman clearly ain't feeling that dude and you can tell from the plain facial expressions and the body language. No chick who is remotely into a dude is gonna have her arms down to her sides and not even bother to smile for a picture.

If you have to doubt or second guess, then deep down you already know the answer. You know what your gut is telling you. The problem is, dudes are giving the benefit of the doubt (which I never do anymore) and still pursuing and then end up getting burnt when they could have just deaded it earlier on. Men give away their time and attention way too freely without making chicks earn it and that somewhat devalues you.
 
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Always amusing seeing women pop back up who disappear on you. Was chatting to this chick on Bumble two months ago asked for her number, no reply. Deleted her ass.

This week I check my Hinge and she's liked me, pretends we haven't interacted before, the difference in how she's acting is noticeable. I message her, she messages straight back, asked for her number no hesitations in giving it to me.

Just like my viet/german chick another women who popped back up and was no longer playing games getting the same vibe from this one. Straight on with the flirty innuendo talk She's a mixed white Asian chick 5'1 tattoo artist. I'm going to attempt to smash this weekend she's basically let me know her Saturday night is clear. We'll see.

Told her I have a date tonight after she asked what I was doing. I know that bristled her. But she's being compliant.

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DaRealness said:
When chicks aren't into you, just bush and move on. There's no 'playing hard to get' or "I'll get back to you on that" when she is really feeling you. They don't flake on you, waste your time, take a whole day to respond to a text etc. You know when someone is into you and there's been recent examples of that in this very thread just like how there has been examples of dudes who are dealing with chicks who are just not interested.

This isn't aimed at anyone in particular, I mention this because I forwarded the link of that black dude who got played by some Russian chick recently and this woman I know laughed and said, yeah, that woman clearly ain't feeling that dude and you can tell from the plain facial expressions and the body language. No chick who is remotely into a dude is gonna have her arms down to her sides and not even bother to smile for a picture.

If you have to doubt or second guess, then deep down you already know the answer. You know what your gut is telling you. The problem is, dudes are giving the benefit of the doubt (which I never do anymore) and still pursuing and then end up getting burnt when they could have just deaded it earlier on. Men give away their time and attention way too freely without making chicks earn it and that somewhat devalues you.
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Pretty much. Gut feelings never lie.

A woman should be making it as easy as possible for you and her to get together if she likes you.

The one I cooked for this week. Made the path as easy as possible for me to see her. No nonsense. And she was a delight. Both enjoyed each others company.

I make it a point now that I don't text after a date unless she does first, I don't chase, I don't validate a woman I haven't slept with yet. And even after I do it's very rare.
 
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DaRealness said:
When chicks aren't into you, just bush and move on. There's no 'playing hard to get' or "I'll get back to you on that" when she is really feeling you. They don't flake on you, waste your time, take a whole day to respond to a text etc. You know when someone is into you and there's been recent examples of that in this very thread just like how there has been examples of dudes who are dealing with chicks who are just not interested.

This isn't aimed at anyone in particular, I mention this because I forwarded the link of that black dude who got played by some Russian chick recently and this woman I know laughed and said, yeah, that woman clearly ain't feeling that dude and you can tell from the plain facial expressions and the body language. No chick who is remotely into a dude is gonna have her arms down to her sides and not even bother to smile for a picture.

If you have to doubt or second guess, then deep down you already know the answer. You know what your gut is telling you. The problem is, dudes are giving the benefit of the doubt (which I never do anymore) and still pursuing and then end up getting burnt when they could have just deaded it earlier on. Men give away their time and attention way too freely without making chicks earn it and that somewhat devalues you.
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What you’re saying is exactly true.

But to play Devil’s Advocate, when it’s been a long time and no ones into you at the moment, sometimes when you finally see someone you want you’re more prone to being on the attack instead of being more laidback.

However, still agree; you gotta know when to cut the mission, fast.
 
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BalmainReyes said:
What you’re saying is exactly true.

But to play Devil’s Advocate, when it’s been a long time and no ones into you at the moment, sometimes when you finally see someone you want you’re more prone to being on the attack instead of being more laidback.

However, still agree; you gotta know when to cut the mission, fast.
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True, we're only human. But one thing I've learned in life is that no matter how hard you try and force things, if it's not meant to be it just won't happen.
 
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xzenothunder said:
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aye

could y'all tell me if I'm ugly or maybe even Black-Pearl could chime in? I've been having trouble with women my entire life and expected it would be easier once I got my life together,

I make 110k in the Midwest,
I own my own home and vehicles
I have a bachelors degree in computer science
no debt
I play guitar and do shows every month
I also travel frequently


I haven't had sex in 2 years, Dating apps are pretty much obese black women and the cute ones are ghetto/super young or have kids. I never meet women at my shows and the ones that do show interest are usually big.

Now I'm not in top physical condition I'm exactly 15 pounds overweight but I'm not down to date an obese chick. Every dating book I've read touts "confidence" but I have no reason to not be confident in myself given my accomplishments and the circumstances I came from.

So the only logical deduction I could make is that I'm physically unattractive, hell the last date I was on we got drunk and she called me ugly(not jokingly). so yeah.




we all have the hands were dealt and I'm cool with the unfiltered truth. At least I can drop bands on cool toys and be fulfilled otherwise.

Thanks for any input y'all
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I know I'm late but you're a cutie. I prefer men a little more clean cut but you're a handsome guy.
 
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