Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’ve been talking with this lady I met on a dating app, but she always asks how my experience with other women on this dating app. She also tells me about other guys she meets on this dating app. I just want to tell her straight up I’m interested in her, but I don’t want to spook her off. :mjcry:, when you go through a drought the simping wants to come out so hard.
 

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Idk bruh, I think it’s cuz all the dudes be gassing them up tbh. They have mad matches n shyt.

And they fickle, I’m not saying all, but some.
Yep you hit the hammer on the nail. You’re competing with 100s of other guys with online dating, so if they giving you the cold shoulder it’s not your fault. Imagine a guy having his pick of 100s of women. He would never settle for one unless she’s special, and even then he’ll never really settle. You might do better with dating offline.
 

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Yep you hit the hammer on the nail. You’re competing with 100s of other guys with online dating, so if they giving you the cold shoulder it’s not your fault. Imagine a guy having his pick of 100s of women. He would never settle for one unless she’s special, and even then he’ll never really settle. You might do better with dating offline.

I mean I do both, but the thing with online dating with me tbh most of these chicks don’t look that good and I haven’t really invested in my profile, so I'm not too heavily invested in it.

It’s just annoying when a girl on your dikk literally one day then the next it’s like it never happened, but I’m used to it now. Never really did the online thing and I think the apps are the worse when it comes to simps gassing bytches.

It makes me want to get better at it, but I will focus more on going out again and use this as a supplement.
 

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I mean I do both, but the thing with online dating with me tbh most of these chicks don’t look that good and I haven’t really invested in my profile, so I'm not too heavily invested in it.

It’s just annoying when a girl on your dikk literally one day then the next it’s like it never happened, but I’m used to it now. Never really did the online thing and I think the apps are the worse when it comes to simps gassing bytches.

It makes me want to get better at it, but I will focus more on going out again and use this as a supplement.

It’s not just online dating it’s real life at all, women change Iike the wind that’s why you don’t put stock in them.

@kevm3 had a great quote a while back dealing with women now a days is like carrying a snake in your backpack you can never be comfortable always looking over your shoulder and never know when it may slither away
 

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Yep you hit the hammer on the nail. You’re competing with 100s of other guys with online dating, so if they giving you the cold shoulder it’s not your fault. Imagine a guy having his pick of 100s of women. He would never settle for one unless she’s special, and even then he’ll never really settle. You might do better with dating offline.

She may laugh and giggle and You may be Harrison Barnes but the next swipe could be Kevin Durant and suddenly your in friggin sacramento
 

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That feeling when you have a date and you don't feel like going :beli:

She's cute though :ehh: I'll let y'all know how that goes
 

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LOL wasn't it a couple of months back when I stated I don't fukk with Nigerian chicks especially because there's just too many dynamics I simply refuse to deal with. I've never had the desire to fukk with them.

If they don't wanna deal with Jamaican men I'm more than cool with that. I just wish there was a higher selection of (good) Caribbean women in the UK.

Bro thank you for saying this cause I’ve been feeling like a c00n for saying this :snoop:

West African women (Specifically Nigerians) have a way of making West Indians seem inferior and have way too many variables I refuse to deal with.

Have little to no desire to even converse with them let alone pursue them if I’m being honest :yeshrug:
 

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How do you guys start the conversation when these chicks have nothing in their profile? I usually try to ask about something in their pictures. It's just annoying sometimes because of the extreme lack of effort on their part.
 
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