Oh lol. The way you worded it was wild.sadly no, she works In the building across the street from me, so I would see her every once in a while, usually while I was with my own group. Today was the first chance I got to say something to her.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.
Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.
We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two
And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.
She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday
Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming
Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags
Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop
I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam
I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.
Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.
I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh
The wage of simping is emotional death
Those on glass houses shouldn't throw stone.
So i went to call this bytch n it said its a google number n i had to say my name before the call gets made?
Is that normal
Is that normal
Example
The True HD
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Shyt long, posted a thread but fukk them I know my nikkas in here are here to talk game. Let's discuss.
Ight, so if there's a 9 or 10 you run into, chat up n she tells you she has a boyfriend how do yall handle the situation? ( I dont befriend women w fiance's/husbands unless its through a mutual friend, keep my distance)
Say cool, KIM & Forget about her? Say fukk her nikka n try to bag n smash? Get her #/social and stay in touch waiting for her man to slip up? Befriend her n get w her homegirls w the possibility to double back in the future? There's angles....
Now mind you, I may only be talking to the good lookin brehs..... for most nikkas once that statement is uttered their game goes from 100-0. Real ones know sometimes it's just a statement that has to be made, basically only a problem if you see it as one. Not sayin you gotta be on some homewrecking shyt but it doesn't have to end the convo. Frame is game... sparked up convo w a dime at the gym (I know most you nikkas won't ever approach here - she don't wanna be bothered, wrong setting, blah blah - more for me timing is everything just be casual --- Ass stupid fat and natural wow!, I asked if she ever been to DR or MIA while glancing at the ass, she said no but been to Atlanta, here there blah blah.... she ain't get the knife joke) and was tryna seal the deal w an instadate right after the gym when she mentioned her lil boyfriend. For me it all depends on how long a girl been w her nikka how I'll maneuver, she told me 2 years so I'm like damn that's some time.... but is he on his Ps n Qs?
"Yeah, ahaha, he says he don't wanna lose me"
(Bytch I dont care what he sayn!) That's all well and good but u know actions speak louder than words so it's not what he sayn but what he's showin u....
Talked for a lil longer then I just ended the convo n finished my workout. Claims she's there all the time but I'm there 5/6 days a week n never seen her, but I never go at the time I went so there could be truth to it. Shyt with that ass all natural n the workouts she was on, I dont doubt it much... choosing signals were there so Ima just grab the IG/Snap n see what time brings....
Talk to me.
Ight, so if there's a 9 or 10 you run into, chat up n she tells you she has a boyfriend how do yall handle the situation? ( I dont befriend women w fiance's/husbands unless its through a mutual friend, keep my distance)
Say cool, KIM & Forget about her? Say fukk her nikka n try to bag n smash? Get her #/social and stay in touch waiting for her man to slip up? Befriend her n get w her homegirls w the possibility to double back in the future? There's angles....
Now mind you, I may only be talking to the good lookin brehs..... for most nikkas once that statement is uttered their game goes from 100-0. Real ones know sometimes it's just a statement that has to be made, basically only a problem if you see it as one. Not sayin you gotta be on some homewrecking shyt but it doesn't have to end the convo. Frame is game... sparked up convo w a dime at the gym (I know most you nikkas won't ever approach here - she don't wanna be bothered, wrong setting, blah blah - more for me timing is everything just be casual --- Ass stupid fat and natural wow!, I asked if she ever been to DR or MIA while glancing at the ass, she said no but been to Atlanta, here there blah blah.... she ain't get the knife joke) and was tryna seal the deal w an instadate right after the gym when she mentioned her lil boyfriend. For me it all depends on how long a girl been w her nikka how I'll maneuver, she told me 2 years so I'm like damn that's some time.... but is he on his Ps n Qs?
"Yeah, ahaha, he says he don't wanna lose me"
(Bytch I dont care what he sayn!) That's all well and good but u know actions speak louder than words so it's not what he sayn but what he's showin u....
Talked for a lil longer then I just ended the convo n finished my workout. Claims she's there all the time but I'm there 5/6 days a week n never seen her, but I never go at the time I went so there could be truth to it. Shyt with that ass all natural n the workouts she was on, I dont doubt it much... choosing signals were there so Ima just grab the IG/Snap n see what time brings....
Talk to me.
@The True HD It sounds like no matter what we say, you got your mind set that you want to fukk her
As for me, If a chick says she got a man I just tell her hit me up if that shyt don't work out and KIM.
As for me, If a chick says she got a man I just tell her hit me up if that shyt don't work out and KIM.
calixprynce
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this crazy ass chick really threatening me with suicide if I dont take her back 
stick yo dikk in crazy brehs
stick yo dikk in crazy brehs 
Clay Puppington
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How y'all feel / what are your experiences with messing with shorties in your social circle????
My boy invited me to the movies (i third wheel with him & his girl sometimes cause they cool as shyt) but he invited one of the friends in our lil clique
I honestly just want the draws
I'm only apprehensive cause I'll 100% see her at our get togethers in the future & I gotta play chess not checkers
My boy invited me to the movies (i third wheel with him & his girl sometimes cause they cool as shyt) but he invited one of the friends in our lil clique
I honestly just want the draws
I'm only apprehensive cause I'll 100% see her at our get togethers in the future & I gotta play chess not checkers
How y'all feel / what are your experiences with messing with shorties in your social circle????
My boy invited me to the movies (i third wheel with him & his girl sometimes cause they cool as shyt) but he invited one of the friends in our lil clique
I honestly just want the draws
I'm only apprehensive cause I'll 100% see her at our get togethers in the future & I gotta play chess not checkers
Honestly if it's just the friend who gives a fukk if anything I would go thru the whole crew of his girls friends no fukks given no issue either
Maybe cuz I was upfront bout how I was and what I wanted
MollyGalaga
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Bruh i still remember when this hoe came out of nowhere n said “im pregnant”
shyt still got me spooked
I aint ready to be having kids yet
shyt still got me spooked
I aint ready to be having kids yet
Would've never got a response from meBruh i still remember when this hoe came out of nowhere n said “im pregnant”
shyt still got me spooked
I aint ready to be having kids yet
@The True HD It sounds like no matter what we say, you got your mind set that you want to fukk her
As for me, If a chick says she got a man I just tell her hit me up if that shyt don't work out and KIM.
Just took an "L" on Thatcher front.
Up and ready to move on though, can't stay down for too long. Least the beast catches me slipping. 
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I caved and began simpin Dunno how it’s gonna work out
