Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[John Reena]

It’s that time of the year when it’s starting to get warm outside and chicks be outside half naked.





Lots of fine available single women bout to be out in droves! Time to hit up festivals, concerts, churches, picnics, weddings, parties n just be out the house PERIOD.

Time to feast!

 

[Silkk]

It’s that time of the year when it’s starting to get warm outside and chicks be outside half naked.





Lots of fine available single women bout to be out in droves! Time to hit up festivals, concerts, churches, picnics, weddings, parties n just be out the house PERIOD.

Time to feast!

Favorite time of the year

 

[ViShawn]

Thanks for the insight @ball15life it definitely gives me some perspective. I haven't dealt with weird shyt with her like that through her actions. I did think at first I wasn't her type because she has traveled a bit and dated other types of men so that intimidated me a bit.

She works with kids all day and is very smart (more educated than me), but sometimes can have those blonde/ditzy moments. I thrive on communication and it's funny you should mention that. I know my love languages are quality time, words of affirmation, and touch. Her's are strongly quality time and touch. She also does a lot of acts of service for me such as cooking (and 'ole girl actually knows how to cook), buying me stuff from her travels, and thinking of me.

I do tend to be a sucker for women who are great with words of affirmation but those women have rarely ever backed it up with something of substance. I had one ex that did... then she broke my heart.

I think because my chick works with kids combined she is a bit more reserved I've noticed some dull/boring conversations here and there. I think that I still intimidate her so she has held back but slowly I've seen her get a little more sassy. Other times she lets me go on my rants about whatever. She doesn't really text me due to her job but when we have our time together it is 100% uninterrupted. I have to realize that I'm dealing with a grown ass woman.

With her the relationship went from newness and fun, to being very comfortable and very safe with her. I don't feel complacent with her though. I feel that there is a lot to do together.

When I'm not around her I do notice myself talking about her a lot. She's gone for a week and I ruminate about our relationship being an over thinker. She told me the other night that she's glad to meet me and I feel the same b/c I feel like she's an angel.

 

[ball15life]

Thanks for the insight @ball15life it definitely gives me some perspective. I haven't dealt with weird shyt with her like that through her actions. I did think at first I wasn't her type because she has traveled a bit and dated other types of men so that intimidated me a bit.

She works with kids all day and is very smart (more educated than me), but sometimes can have those blonde/ditzy moments. I thrive on communication and it's funny you should mention that. I know my love languages are quality time, words of affirmation, and touch. Her's are strongly quality time and touch. She also does a lot of acts of service for me such as cooking (and 'ole girl actually knows how to cook), buying me stuff from her travels, and thinking of me.

I do tend to be a sucker for women who are great with words of affirmation but those women have rarely ever backed it up with something of substance. I had one ex that did... then she broke my heart.

I think because my chick works with kids combined she is a bit more reserved I've noticed some dull/boring conversations here and there. I think that I still intimidate her so she has held back but slowly I've seen her get a little more sassy. Other times she lets me go on my rants about whatever. She doesn't really text me due to her job but when we have our time together it is 100% uninterrupted. I have to realize that I'm dealing with a grown ass woman.

With her the relationship went from newness and fun, to being very comfortable and very safe with her. I don't feel complacent with her though. I feel that there is a lot to do together.

When I'm not around her I do notice myself talking about her a lot. She's gone for a week and I ruminate about our relationship being an over thinker. She told me the other night that she's glad to meet me and I feel the same b/c I feel like she's an angel.

Ah man I feel you. That one that broke your heart might have been a blessing in disguise though. It's sometimes good to go through that heartbreak, you know?

Dealing with grown women is tough lol. I was just talking to my boy about that. It's an entire different game!

And respect! Y'all really do seem like a good fit.The last two bold statements is exactly what I am striving for! Hopefully I can reach your level one day!

 

[Atlrocafella]

mad at myself for not closing the deal with this chick I been watching for a min. Ima clean it up tomorrow tho.

 

[TRUEST]

How so?

And I beg to differ. You don't know this woman. What I shared with yall is but a tip of the ice berg....

You should never ever comply with the conditions or ultimatums from a woman.

I would look in the mirror next time before you critize another man.

We are all rough around the edges and it takes different people and different situations to smooth us out.

Expecting someone to accept a version of u that can be better is like deciding to pay full price for an unfinished car.

Unless this woman is trying to make u do things which would only benefit her, I think you made a bad call here.

I’ll give u an example. In my early twenties I was a terrible dresser. But it took a girl I was dating for my fashion sense to improve dramatically. She expressed her dissatisfaction to me privately at how I looked when her and I went out to public. I could have been hot headed and thought like u. But after dating her and other females I learned quick how image matters and I changed up quick. That’s just one example.

 

[Astroslik]

We are all rough around the edges and it takes different people and different situations to smooth us out.

Expecting someone to accept a version of u that can be better is like deciding to pay full price for an unfinished car.

Unless this woman is trying to make u do things which would only benefit her, I think you made a bad call here.

I’ll give u an example. In my early twenties I was a terrible dresser. But it took a girl I was dating for my fashion sense to improve dramatically. She expressed her dissatisfaction to me privately at how I looked when her and I went out to public. I could have been hot headed and thought like u. But after dating her and other females I learned quick how image matters and I changed up quick. That’s just one example.

Changing the way you dress is nothing like changing who you are for a woman who would find something to complain/bytch about anyways

 

[TRUEST]

Changing the way you dress is nothing like changing who you are for a woman who would find something to complain/bytch about anyways

Don’t think u got the point. Someone like ol boy would have turned around on some “if u don’t like me dressing like a bum then u don’t like me for me”

 

[Sinnerman]

I'm going to start swiping left if I see "sarcasm" on a profile

 

[Silkk]

mad at myself for not closing the deal with this chick I been watching for a min. Ima clean it up tomorrow tho.

Hope this was autocorrect :youngdro:

 

[Atlrocafella]

Hope this was autocorrect :youngdro:

sadly no, she works In the building across the street from me, so I would see her every once in a while, usually while I was with my own group. Today was the first chance I got to say something to her.

 

[DaRealness]

I'm going to start swiping left if I see "sarcasm" on a profile

Exactly. It basically means the chick is rude/disrespectful and when you pull her up on it she will them turn it around on you and call you "sensitive" and make it out like you can't take a joke.

Those broads are trouble and little things like that are a huge indicator as to what you'll be dealing with.

I gotta laugh when I see these profiles with profanities and all types of rudeness and they think a grown man with any sense won't give them a wide berth.

 

[DaRealness]

Speaking of dating apps, I been checking out bumble and while there's some good looking chicks out here in Panama, there's way too many cac American ex pats on there....like A LOT.

The broads out here though. This city is similar to Miami. I'm only here til Monday morning until I leave to go to Colombia where the real fun begins.

 

[MollyGalaga]

When ya homeboy a simp ​

 

[Silkk]

sadly no, she works In the building across the street from me, so I would see her every once in a while, usually while I was with my own group. Today was the first chance I got to say something to her.

Oh lol. The way you worded it was wild.