Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Actually6Foot3

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Going in to hibernation.

Gym
Work
Saving

That's it. Not going out until New year's and any bytch I been talking to(except my main) is getting bushed. I don't have time for distractions. A breh made over 25k in the last two and a half months and I need to be even more focused. I want 125k next year minimum.
Update to this...

I paid off all my debts in January and moved into a new place yesterday. And I've cashed 24k in commissions year to date. shyt works:manny:
 

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So after a week, this girl gets texts me again after cancelling our date (talked about it here last Sunday), girl now wants to grab something to eat. I guess things didn't work out with the other dude. :skip:


How do you deal with that? You just don't reply, or you just act cordial and play along till you get to smash and ghost? :patrice:
 
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How do you deal with that? You just don't reply, or you just act cordial and play along till you get to smash and ghost? :patrice:

I'm playing it cool, she's telling me she's free all week or if that doesn't work we can do something at the weekend. I'm still talking to other girls so she's not a priority anymore. I rarely ignore texts, I'm usually straightforward about not wanting to take things forward(most of the time they take it graciously).
 

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This man really got in his bag. Hibernated and straight up got to it.
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You really are a product of your environment and the sum average of the people you hang out with. Not gonna lie Ive seen my friends once the last 6 months but in that time as I said I've paid off my debt and secured a crib. Outside of one of em the rest all still live at home and be on some bullshyt:manny:

I'm sure they'll take it negaTively but we're all pushing 30 soon. I don't have time for nonsense.
 

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:salute:

You really are a product of your environment and the sum average of the people you hang out with. Not gonna lie Ive seen my friends once the last 6 months but in that time as I said I've paid off my debt and secured a crib. Outside of one of em the rest all still live at home and be on some bullshyt:manny:

I'm sure they'll take it negaTively but we're all pushing 30 soon. I don't have time for nonsense.

What was the toughest part of going into this "hibernation" mode of sorts? What activities did you cut out/reduced? How did you fill that extra time? When will you "take your foot off the pedal" and look to incorporate some more leisurely activities?
 

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:salute:

You really are a product of your environment and the sum average of the people you hang out with. Not gonna lie Ive seen my friends once the last 6 months but in that time as I said I've paid off my debt and secured a crib. Outside of one of em the rest all still live at home and be on some bullshyt:manny:

I'm sure they'll take it negaTively but we're all pushing 30 soon. I don't have time for nonsense.
What did you say you sell again? Cars?
 

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What was the toughest part of going into this "hibernation" mode of sorts? What activities did you cut out/reduced? How did you fill that extra time? When will you "take your foot off the pedal" and look to incorporate some more leisurely activities?
I read a book for the first time in years lol

Probably drank less than 5 times the last 6 months

Haven't smoked at all


And stopped hanging around people who weren't going in the same direction I want to go in life.

I have vacations planned.
 
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