Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

The Odum of Ala Igbo

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speak on it breh

I’m overseas

Started talking to this girl I knew back home in law school. Slowly but surely, I started to fall for her.

One FaceTime session she just says, “You like me don’t you?”
:ohhh:
I crumble and confess
:mjcry:
She says she likes me too

Things on her end start to get a bit crazy life wise but we keep talking throughout it all. I even helped her a bit. We talk about life, philosophy, sex, family, our ancestries...everything!

I tell her that I’m still interested. She’s surprised that I am, given what’s going on but then I say, “we’ll see how things go when I return”
:whoo:

There’s no commitment yet but I feel like some isht is gonna happen
:martin:
 

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I’m overseas

Started talking to this girl I knew back home in law school. Slowly but surely, I started to fall for her.

One FaceTime session she just says, “You like me don’t you?”
:ohhh:
I crumble and confess
:mjcry:
She says she likes me too

Things on her end start to get a bit crazy life wise but we keep talking throughout it all. I even helped her a bit. We talk about life, philosophy, sex, family, our ancestries...everything!

I tell her that I’m still interested. She’s surprised that I am, given what’s going on but then I say, “we’ll see how things go when I return”
:whoo:

There’s no commitment yet but I feel like some isht is gonna happen
:martin:


:picard:

:ehh:
 

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This SA chick hits me out the blue talking about why don't I call her or text her. Saying that she took interest in me but I'm doing her dirty by being so aloof and distant. I fell back when she started getting flakey. Told her straight up I didn't want to deal with that.

Ever since she's been trying to inch her way back.

We're gonna do bruch today and I'll get a feel on her.
 

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How y'all feel / what are your experiences with messing with shorties in your social circle????

personally i dont chase it unless she makes a move first or shows high interest

one of my lady friends both of us got drunk at a house party and she was like follow me to the bathroom so no one comes in i need your help, i was like ite not thinking of nothing just looking out for her, next thing i know shes pulling my polo draws down trying to suck me off :russ: we're still friends till this day and never had sex, we still go out to raves but i'll never make the first move

another friend of mine was feeling me hardbody pushing herself on my dikk, giving me tight hugs, looking at me thirsty but i'll never make the first move, she gave up but everytime i see her i let her know that i'll smash the shyt out of her and that shes not ready for my dikk :yeshrug:

any chick outside the social circle i make the move
 

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I'm liking my chick. Nearly six months in now. I think sometimes I have reservations about her even though she treats me really well. It could just be me over thinking the relationship and possibly self sabotaging it due to some of my past relationships.

I find myself spending more time with her and doing more stuff. Instead of me trying to go solo all the time doing stuff I think of us and what we could do together.

Only things I can think of is that she can be kind of quiet, which she eventually has been opening up a lot lately, and she is not my usual type I go for. With that said when I'm around her I find her very sexy. I know I'm a sucker for women who stroke my ego with words of affirmation. She isn't like that and proves it through action.

Sex life could be a little better because she doesn't dirty talk. I'm trying to train her :russ:

All in all though she comes from a good stock. I've met her parents and they seem like great people. She isn't an IG whore, good values. I could see us working together in a relationship like my parents did and share goals in life. So many women nowadays are so into themselves and self centered. Not this girl which makes me appreciate her even more and do nice stuff for her.
 

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meeting up with 2 girls i hit up on IG this weekend , we going to go check out Hudson Yards here in NYC.
not planning to spend more than 30.
 
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