Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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Update.

Asked her to karaoke, she's replies 2 days later that she's travelling. When I asked what day she was free before travelling, she mentions that she has a boyfriend in Japan, and if we were to hang out her friend will come along and she can't do this week cause she got exams next week. But I thought she said was travelling? :francis: She ain't it brehs. I don't know if I should reply her or just ignore her as she's clearly not feeling me?

These chicks man.

2 days later is a straight curve. I'd cease all contact not even a reply. Leave her on read.
 

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TL;DR- I let a chick use me. She said some fukked up shyt and went back to her creep of an ex. I wasted months of my life. I thought I was done simping but I learned the hard way, I got growing to do. I’m officially done looking for love. I’m letting it come to. I’m done putting girls on pedestals. Learned my lesson and working on maturing now.


Full story: Like six months ago, a Puerto Rican chick and I matched on Tinder. I realized we go to school together. So that was convenient and kinda cool. We started talking and got on real quick. I don’t usually catch feelings so fast but breh I was feeling her deep.

We started talking every night and hanging out often. I thought shyt was good. I was ready to turn my shyt upside down for her. I was gonna get an apartment for us two

And then she just kinda ghosted me after cutting communication over time. Now, I’m pretty confused cuz this girl and I seemed close. I saw her around campus from time to time but never confronted her until like three weeks ago, I grew a pair and asked what the fukk happened.

She started juelzing but eventually came clean and told me she cared about me, but her borderline abusive ex mattered more and he was back in her life. I told her she’d Amount to nothing just like her mother (this was foul af) and then she went off. She took sensitive information about my mental health, my past and insecurities and said some heinous shyt. Basically told me that she pitied me and that’s why she as fukking with me. She called me a sad, weak person who’ll probably end up alone and hanging myself in my Moms basement someday :huhldup:

Now, mind you this girl is sweet as pie (on the surface). She comforted me so much. I didn’t see this coming :snoop:

Or more honestly, I chose not to see the millions of red flags:snoop:

Breh, I let a girl use me as an emotional rest stop :snoop:

I legit cried. Not because of her but because I let myself get played. I was going to introduce to my fam :snoop:

I’m not proud of this story but I’m only telling it for other brehs to remind them that getting infatuated and ignoring the signs of dysfunction will get you fukked up.

Im also broke rn. So instead of crying over a relationship that never even existed in her mind, I got to move on and move wiser.

I thought I was over being foolish with women. But I’m young, I guess smh

The wage of simping is emotional death:pachaha:

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

The Odum of Ala Igbo

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@FireDwaneCasey - Going on a date with that Fulani woman again. I'm not even trying to rush anything with her. Just taking it slow. Enjoying her company. The lack of pressure is making for great conversation and is making her feel very comfortable.
:mjgrin:
Hanging out with a German this week as well :mjpls:

She's not as pretty but let's see what happens
:yeshrug:
 

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@FireDwaneCasey - Going on a date with that Fulani woman again. I'm not even trying to rush anything with her. Just taking it slow. Enjoying her company. The lack of pressure is making for great conversation and is making her feel very comfortable.
:mjgrin:
Hanging out with a German this week as well :mjpls:

She's not as pretty but let's see what happens
:yeshrug:


Eat breh.
Can't wait till I'm in London​
 

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These dating apps need to put in a fuccking weight filter :smh:

They've probably thought about doing it. But sadly they'd get dragged over the coals if they even dared.

:pachaha:

Filtering out overweight women? They be accused of being sizest. I remember when chicks used to put on their profiles, no men under 6 ft contact them would the energy be there if guys say no woman whose size 16 and above contact me.

:mjlit:
 

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Came across this stupidness earlier on Bumble. The leg and waist ratio. How she thought that is in anyway realistic.
:russ:

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I need to vent bros. :hhh:
WOMEN ARE PISSING ME THE fukk OFF:stopitslime:

There are plenty of times in my life where I was immature and a dikkhead who really had nothing to offer but still got girls.

Plenty of times where I didn't even care for the girl one bit but I still smashed and kicked her out asap, hit her up multiple times and did the action in repeat

There are even times I did things with women who had husbands, Bfs, etc.


But recently I have become "soft" so to say.

For some strange reason it hit me...

What if these women were my mother or grandmother. People I hold to my heart dearly. Like they love me with unconditional love and support:mjcry:

That mindset has fukked me up ever since. I try to avoid my old ways so much. My old ways is Hennessey mode where I'm just on some wylin the fukk out being a fukk tard.

Now I'm tryna respect women and be as casual as possible while finding a girl to have thing with for a while :mjcry:


But it's not working


WOMEN KEEP WASTING MY TIME:gucci:
Show interests in me the first few days and then vanish within a second :gucci:
bytch I didn't even do anything why do you all keep leaving me to dry:gucci:


I'm really not tryna go back to my old ways :sadcam:


As i get older Patrice o Neal makes so much sense


Why can't we just love u n be a good dude :gucci:


Why do we have to go thru all this :gucci:


Idc call me bitter I just needed to ven5 dog :mjcry::hhh:

I don't wanna go back to old me :mjcry:
 
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