Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Strapped]

to many gems in here

 

[George Gooney]

When talking to a woman, always Display A higher value. For example never speak down about yourself talk as if you are the prize. When she touches you gently remove her hands and say something like "hands off this shyt ain't free" when she hugs you always break contact first. Never ask questions about her personal life(if she's feeling you she'd want you to know). Never listen to her talk about another guy. Make it feel like you're a prize to be earned and she'll act right

 

[The Weeknd]

Great thread

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I honestly hate that these young guys gotta weed through all this
bullshyt to try to find a viable candidate for a potential life mate.
As a woman, I must admit that it is some good advice in this thread, for your particular generation.

I just hate yall keep thinking every woman is the same, and I hate to
break the news to you, but that's not true and that's the good thing.

But, by all means, do what you need to do to protect yourself while
you are young and playing.

Yes you are right.There are good women but we are speaking from experience. I believe me and the other fellow male posters in this thread are good men who either have been thru stuff women put us thru or seen it. Even some married folk on here know this is the truth...and that their wife can do a 360 at any moment. older-younger same issues just different stages.

 

[RickyGQ]

I honestly hate that these young guys gotta weed through all this
bullshyt to try to find a viable candidate for a potential life mate.
As a woman, I must admit that it is some good advice in this thread, for your particular generation.

I just hate yall keep thinking every woman is the same, and I hate to
break the news to you, but that's not true and that's the good thing.

But, by all means, do what you need to do to protect yourself while
you are young and playing.

While every woman is different, the essence of every woman is the same. We aren't discussing who women are, but what women are. Every issue a dude has with his girl on the surface differs, when you strip it down, we all fighting the same biological battles.

 

[jalamanta]

naw that's cause pretty much all women have sideline males. she can dump a guy so quick because he's not her only option in fact she's got 5+ guys that can take his position the very next day so the transition is so much easier for them.

the typical male deals with one woman at a time. any given woman that's dealing with him more than likely is his only option at the time. he crawls back cause he doesn't have other or better options. if he had those you think he'd call her back, take her back, or entertain even the idea of it?

you know the average man has sex with 7 woman in his entire life? if he lives to be 70 then that's a one woman every ten year average. how many options could he have really had for that to be his average?

what are you talking about?
an average man at coli has a roster of 10 bytches at a time which he refreshes every month.

 

[Henryflo1]

This thread is golden. nikka just broke up with his shorty need to get back on my game. :Manny:

 

[Rominati]

what are you talking about?
an average man at coli has a roster of 10 bytches at a time which he refreshes every month.

 

[The Weeknd]

If only I had of known some of this stuff a few years ago.
Oh well, better late than never.

 

[That 808]

That's why I tell negroes man ya'll better stop trusting these chicks like that and never give no woman your heart 100% and ALWAYS prepare yourself mentally as much as you can if things go sour. You never know when things will go sour with a woman these days, nor will you know why. She just decided to get on something new.

My thing is, never blame yourself for it. You can't do anything to make a woman loyal. Either she chooses to be or she isn't. This is why you never make a woman your top priority as well. She might leave for no reason and if she's your top priority, your life is in shambles. Pretty much when a woman loses emotions for you, you can't reverse it by begging her or any of that. All you can do is move on. She might want to come back when she learns her new fella ain't what she expected or she sees you really shining, but you can't reward jumpships... Keep it pushing. If she wants to play for another team, don't reward her with another contract when she gets released.

My cousin told me this when I was in high school. I saw his girlfriend DESTROY him. His parents let her move in when her home life was in shambles, they fed and clothed her for almost 2 years (they were together for almost 5). Then this chick wanna "explore other options" and now calls herself a lesbian. My cuz never saw it coming and was SICK. Dude couldn't eat, sleep, nothing. Had to drop out of college for a semester because he couldn't get it together. Seeing this made me keep my heart under lock and key. I swore that would never happen to me...

 

[MikelArteta]

I honestly hate that these young guys gotta weed through all this
bullshyt to try to find a viable candidate for a potential life mate.
As a woman, I must admit that it is some good advice in this thread, for your particular generation.

I just hate yall keep thinking every woman is the same, and I hate to
break the news to you, but that's not true and that's the good thing.

But, by all means, do what you need to do to protect yourself while
you are young and playing.

the "not all girls are like that" line, which I nicely handled with the hand grenade analogy (here's a box of hand grenades, choose one you think is a dud, then hold it and pull the pin and see if you were right or not). There's no way to know WHAT kind of girl you have until you're committed and it's too late to avoid being destroyed. Therefore, there can be women who are "not like that", but unfortunately it's irrelevant. Not all hand grenades are "like that" (meaning they explode), and there ARE duds... but because the duds can look just like the live ones, you'd have to be crazy to pick one and commit to finding out.

as well like others mention all women follow the same handbook, i bet i could ask dudes what was the procedure when your girl dumped you or was cheating on you and the script, movie would be the exact same just diff actors.

 

[MikelArteta]

My cousin told me this when I was in high school. I saw his girlfriend DESTROY him. His parents let her move in when her home life was in shambles, they fed and clothed her for almost 2 years (they were together for almost 5). Then this chick wanna "explore other options" and now calls herself a lesbian. My cuz never saw it coming and was SICK. Dude couldn't eat, sleep, nothing. Had to drop out of college for a semester because he couldn't get it together. Seeing this made me keep my heart under lock and key. I swore that would never happen to me...

i been there breh, and i swore it would never happen to me again and it hasn't. women do not have loyalty you can pick them up from the homeless shelter give em a good life and once they are ok on thier own see ya, there is nothing worse than dating a broad who was nothing, and you were there for her as she lost weight, helped her go through school, helped her get a job then she kicks oyu the curb for some random nikka she just met who has "swag"

never rescue or build up a woman

NEVER

 

[Sharp]

I honestly hate that these young guys gotta weed through all this
bullshyt to try to find a viable candidate for a potential life mate.
As a woman, I must admit that it is some good advice in this thread, for your particular generation.

I just hate yall keep thinking every woman is the same, and I hate to
break the news to you, but that's not true and that's the good thing.

But, by all means, do what you need to do to protect yourself while
you are young and playing.

Whether all woman are the same or different is irrelevant. The main purpose of this thread is to help men build principles and standards so that the women who remain in their circle when it's all said and done are the women who are supposed to be there. If you are this "so- called good woman", then you will be there when it's all said and done.

 

[kevm3]

My cousin told me this when I was in high school. I saw his girlfriend DESTROY him. His parents let her move in when her home life was in shambles, they fed and clothed her for almost 2 years (they were together for almost 5). Then this chick wanna "explore other options" and now calls herself a lesbian. My cuz never saw it coming and was SICK. Dude couldn't eat, sleep, nothing. Had to drop out of college for a semester because he couldn't get it together. Seeing this made me keep my heart under lock and key. I swore that would never happen to me...

Man that's what's so crazy about it. For the most part, you cannot predict what a woman does. I talk to my friends, and when they were young, they might have been into all that player stuff, but when they got older and wisened up and met a woman who just gave them that emotional support, cooked, and just treated them well, they had enough sense to get out the game and decided not to go anywhere.

On the other hand, like Reincarnation said, you treat a woman well and she's even more likely to do you dirty. I had the same exact thing happen to my friend... his girl's parents kicked her out. He let her move in with him and his parents since this was around high school/early college. She got to eat and stay at a place rent free... but I would be driving around at times and see her walking the street at night with a phone in her hand. I'm guessing she was talking to another guy... come to find out, that was the case. She was actually in ANOTHER relationship with another guy and my boy found out by running into the guy at college. Crazy thing is, later on she turned out to be lesbian as well. I have other stories, but that will suffice for now.

Many females simply will not award great treatment with loyalty. One thing to keep in mind is to NEVER get around to upgrading a female. Instead of appreciating it and being more loyal, she'll go talk to another dude with her newfound status.

Look what happened when Joe Buddens started putting his little woman in front of the camera and getting her all that attention. She goes and peels off. I think there was some show about some girl losing a ton of weight and her boyfriend was there for her all the time. Guess what happened when she started getting more attention after losing weight. That's right. Boyfriend got slid to the side. And also, if you see a man is paying for his girl's school, how many times do you want to bet she's cheating on him?

I compared the situation to stocks. Women typically have two sell-off points... One is when she thinks she's better than you. Another sell-off point is when she thinks she's found an upgrade over you. This is why women often stick with 'abusive men'. They deal with women in a manner that keeps her self-esteem low, so she never is able to think she is better than him. You don't have to be abusive and grating with your words or engage in any kind of abusive behavior, but this is why you NEVER compliment a woman too much. When you allow her to think she is equal or better than you, she's going to be out there looking for a new deal. That's why I also say upgrade yourself before you upgrade a woman. The greatest gift you can give her is to allow her to be in the presence of and to claim a fly dude.

As a man, if a woman buys you some clothes and upgrades your look, you can sit back and appreciate that and that might make you more loyal and appreciative of her. On the other hand, you get to upgrading a woman's look and getting her hair done, you're just making her look better for the next man. Now if you put that money into your own wardrobe, you'll be better off because she'll look at you like my man is fly. This is one of the reasons why you often see men who were players in high school and had fine women end up with a woman you don't really think is all that fly. To really keep a woman, she has to think you're better than her. Women really don't 'marry down.' They 'choose up'.

 

[MikelArteta]

Kevm speaking the truth, it's why you see most guys who were players who had the finest women in their youj settle down and marry a Average looking broad but with great qualities.

I always remember being like 13/14 and my older cousin every family BBQ he'd bring another girl, the type of girls you would see on a king magazine, yet dude got married to basically a plain Jane, and it didn't hit me till I became older, his wife is smart, respectful, righteous, she may not be a knockout but looks fade anyways.

I'm not saying settle for ugly or whatever, of course there has to be a attraction but being a dime won't cut it anymore for me.


As well it's the same when a dude buys a chick a boob job or she gets a higher paying job than the dude next, I look at it like the nfl, no matter how great You were no matter how many times you sacrificed, no matter your name or status they will cut you, replace you.